Heres The Thing That Some People Dont Seem To Understand About Sex & Kink. You Have To Respect Boundaries

Here’s the thing that some people don’t seem to understand about sex & kink. You have to respect boundaries before you get to push them. You have to show people they’re safe before you get to make them feel scared. You have to respect people before you get to degrade them. You have to be normal with people before you get to be dirty with them. You can’t be skipping steps. Treating them like a person always comes before treating them like a toy.

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My friend: Can you imagine waking up and you're not your gender? haha!

Me outwardly: aha!

Me internally: Fuck, I wish.

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One of the most amusing Oh I think I understand now moments I've had in the past month or three is creating a robot objecthead character and getting the actual object he's based on.

What better art reference than having the physical thing in your hands, right?

Or in your lap, like a cat.

Or beside you while you sleep.

Or with you if you ever decided to bring 'em along outside.

...

Huh.

I think I'm starting to understand objectum now.

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Thinking about him coming up from behind and snaking his arms around my waist, pulling me close as he whispers a greeting in my ear.

I'd be a mix of surprised and turned on of course; I'd warned him not to do that unless he wanted me horny.

The way I'd melt into his arms, the weak whine that'd escape my throat because I'm already feeling the heat and want more.

The way he'd pull me closer and ask what else he "shouldn't do," doing whatever I reply with and teasing me for answering so willingly.

I can't help it though, I like answering questions and really, really want him...

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The amount of restraint necessary to not make horny comments about the monsters and robots in a video game while playing it for the first time with my friend.

"Have you tried not getting fucked (killed)"

'I meaaannn- (realizes the joke I'm heading towards) er- they seem pretty nice and chill and totally friendly!'

Especially when we had other users join our party who could probably hear me.

Anyway hi I'm feeling gay as fuck right now and really just want to be fucked.

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Yknow, despite the deer aesthetic I got going on here I'm actually one hell of a cat.

Hilariously, the horny side of this didn't occur to me until recently when I took on the cat role in a game and my friendgroup started treating me like one.

For the most part it's just chill vibes and joking but sometimes the comments or noises they make towards me catch my attention a little too much and leaves me silently craving more.

Like oh, being called a "dumb cat" but in the most endearing or friendly way possible? Not even being referred to by name anymore, just being called to with "hey cat" or "pspspspss, cat"? Being picked up and carried around regardless if I was trying to work on something?

Being told they wish cages worked on players so they could cage me? Being called "my cat" like I belong to them? Being praised and petted just for existing in the same area as them, or being given fish and other catlike items as a reward for doing something?

Shit man, how can I not be interested. They're shaking the treat bag or tapping the wetfood can whether they realize it or not.

... Never going to mention it of course, it's probably just them being friends and joking, but damn my daydreams are having a field day with it.