Eat Up, Dear

Eat Up, Dear

Eat up, my dear. Eat well darling. Feast on as much as you desire. Don't let anyone deter you. You were much too thin to begin with....

-Admin Kai

Thank you! Even tho I was never properly diagnosed (my parents didn't look for help or suggest help cuz I guess I never got skinny enough for them to urge me to get help .) I went through all the typical symptoms and signs. And honestly thank you for pointing this out.... Let's just say I know people who do this but then they ask me for advice and I try to help and it gets disregarded.

my new roommate said that her last roommate had an eating disorder and then talked to me about her clean eating and weight loss goals and how she buys clothes that are a little snug to motivate her to lose more

and like honestly? i have anorexia but this is why i constantly talk about the dangers of the “health and fitness” industry and diet culture bc we have essentially normalized certain symptoms of disordered eating but it’s ok if it’s under the guise of health i guess???

like how is calling it “clean” eating NOT a way to moralize food

how is intermittent fasting NOT the same thing as skipping meals

how come when i buy clothes that don’t fit, it’s something i have to tell my therapist about because it means i am putting pressure on myself to fit into them, but if a “normal” person does it then it’s just motivation for them?

where is the fucking line???

and more importantly when are we going to start acknowledging that the entire world is pro-ana but that’s too harsh of a description so we slap some health buzzwords on it to make it palatable

when are we going to take responsibility for encouraging disordered behavior instead of labeling those of us with EDs as the crazy/imbalanced ones

your fucking Whole30 or keto or whatever “clean” diet you’re on is just as restrictive as the diets we create for ourselves due to our disorders. but we are the crazy ones, right

PSA!!!

reminders for the feeders

• please do not become so unhealthily body obsessed

• you dont need to have a “perfect” body as a feeder 👏👏

• ur an average sized feeder? Cool 💖💖 skinny feeder? Wonderful 💞💞 muscled feeder? Hell yeah 💗💗 chubby feeder? Gorgeous 💘💘

• and!! you dont need to be ashamed of your fetish!! people can brush it off as a “preference” or even consider cute!1!! uwu

• your loved one will understand your needs if you dont force them to do so or do stuff without their consent!! Important!!!

• there are a lot of ppl out there who think like you, you’re neither alone nor a bizarre special snowflake

• you will love and be loved bc everyone deserves happiness (including you) ❤❤

fed up of people I work with calling me out for being a feeder, do you want me to bring brownies in or not because you can’t have both!!!

We're all in the same community here. Everyone deserves respect!

Please reblog this is you fully support trans people in the feedism community!

Trans women on bbw blogs, trans men on bhm blogs, and nb gainers not being misgendered

I want to know that there are good, respectful people in this community

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Feedism is just a kink

And if we’re in a relationship and you don’t want to take part in it, we won’t. I care about the person first, the kink can take a back fuckin’ seat.

In fact, reblog if you agree. Why the hell not- if you promise not to do anything to push your partner(s) into a kink they’re not into, and you’d still love them no matter what, rebloop the hell out of this.