B.Z. Willow

B.Z. Willow

The Blue Ladder

....why is this giving me iDeAs™

Not gonna specifically tag anyone...but reblog if you feel like it and put yours in the tags.

oh my god what- this explains so much- why has no one told me this before- i need to take notes 

To my friends on the spectrum, let me explain to you an unspoken social rule that possibly nobody has ever explained to you before

If a neurotypical asks you, “What game are you playing?” they’re not asking you to describe the game.

They’re asking you if they can play too.

If a neurotypical asks you, “What are you watching?” they’re not asking you to explain the plot of the movie/tv show to them.

They’re asking if they can watch it with you.

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When neurotypicals ask you “What are you doing?” 

What you think they’re asking: “Please explain to me what you are doing.” 

What they’re actually asking:  “Can I join you?”

Now here’s the really fucked up part. If you start explaining to them what you’re doing? They will interpret that as a rejection. 

What you think you’re saying: [the answer to their question]

What they think you’re saying: This is an elite and exclusive activity for a level 5 friend and you are a level 1 acquaintance. You are not qualified to join me because you don’t know all this stuff. Go away.

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This is why neurotypicals think you’re being cold and antisocial.

IT’S ALL A HORRIBLE MISCOMMUNICATION.

Yo ✌🏻

Reblog if you’d be okay if your friend came out as transgender

let’s see how many transphobics we can weed out

sophie drawing perfect hands on her first try: wow keefe you’re really talented! hands are so hard!

keefe redrawing the hands for the fiftieth time: sophie, you have no idea.

biana: hhh keefe is so talented

marella: i heard he can paint almost anything without a reference photo

dex: i dont doubt it. his skills are absolutely insane!

keefe on the other side of the room, trying to draw a proper hand for the twelfth time that morning and shaking in anger: why do i torture myself like this

let’s be honest, this isn’t a theory. it’s just canon. 

A theory my friend has:

So, I told my friend (who’s also read kotlc) about the melves. They thought it was unlikely, but mostly because there’s not any mention of gay elves. 

So, then they said that maybe just all the gay elves live on the moon. 

Like, a runaway group who have basically disowned elven culture for its rigid matchmaking rules and surrounding shame.

*waves awkwardly*

Reblog if you're in the kotlc fandom

I wanna see how many of us there are