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Tips On Gainers That Arent Having Any Luck With Finding A Partner/feeder?

Tips on gainers that arent having any luck with finding a partner/feeder?

I dont have much but here’s what i got:

1) Approach a feeder like they are a human being with feelings and a personality. They are not your one way ticket to free meals and endless spoiling just because you say hi to them

2) Respect that feeders are usually overwhelmed by messages in their inbox.. especially female feeders. Don’t spam message them. And dont get angry or aggressive if they dont respond as fast as you’d like. Kindness and understanding will get you far

3) show your personality! a feeder can find a 100 feedees begging to be fed and be Their feedee but rarely are they approached by somebody who starts a convo by sharing their favorite hobby and/or finding common ground in something thats been observed of them.

4) Some feeders want to be wooed and romanticized just as much as any “normal” person does. If you’re expecting to get a feeder AND a partner, the trick is to make it so it’s clear that you’re pursuing a partner that just happens to be a feeder

5) Please realize that the absolute best way to try to get to know some feeders is to go to any local feedism meet ups there may be. Even if there aren’t any that suit your fancy, you’ll get that experience in finding out what actually interests a feeder and makes them want to transition from internet casual to something intimate

6) Be an actual person on the internet. I can tell you now, nothing makes me want to talk to someone less than when they approach me with a bare blog. you dont have to compromise your personal information or even your image but goddamn post something. If what attracts you to a specific feeder is their posts and content and them sharing bits about who they are as person, what makes you think they‘ll reciprocate that attraction to somebody with a rando profile pic and little to no posts?

7) Learn to decipher between fantasy and reality. Again, feeders are people. No matter how great the actually are, chances are that they will never live up to all your fantasies about them.

8) It’s totally okay to support feeders that do sex work but my god... Dont delude yourself into thinking that you’re going to be the one that breaks the paywall barrier and gains their affection. Chances are, they’re here to make money while also indulging in their kinks. If you wouldnt hit on somebody while they’re working any other job, don’t hit on them. (unless they say they’re into it)

9) Dont immediately jump into kink talk if a feeder ends up wanting to talk to you. Build a connection (unless they say otherwise)

10) Remember that you deserve respect and to be respected. Don’t sell yourself short. Dont settle for the bare minimum. And please please please consider what your first impression on them actually says about you. If you know you’re a good person, with a good heart, love to give, etc, do what you can to convey that upfront. Because if you see yourself that way, then that should always be how you conduct yourself when building a new relationship…even on the internet.

11) no means no. if you get a no, move on. It’ll be okay.

That’s all i got! I hope this helps! Other feeders pls feel free to add on!

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