Sometimes U Go On Google Searching For A Reference Image And You Just Find Something That Is Totally

sometimes u go on google searching for a reference image and you just find something that is totally not what you are looking for but is better than anything u could have ever dreamed

who is she

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I just want to cup their faces and say lovingly "there are no sluts, there are no bimbos, there are no nags. they don't exist."

the fact that John Money actually is called John Money is so fucking funny.. he sounds like a batman villain.. here we have this guy that made up the concept of gender identity, said that pedophilia is alright, mutilated a boy and psychologically abused him until he committed suicide and wrote a bunch of articles about how he did a great job and now 60 years later we have a sexual reassignment surgery industry worth billions of dollars and children put on risky puberty blockers + hormones not to mention it being transphobic not to fuck someone bc of their sex.. he really do be John Money

"omg did you know that the idea of human sexual dimorphism is inherently *insert a form of oppression that is not linked to sex in any way but is seen as more significant than misogyny so that people won't question the statement in fear to be seen as oppressive or ignorant*"

public reminder that your sexual orientation is unchangeable AND that any negative opinions people have of it do NOT make you a bad person. sexual orientation isn’t about what you can tolerate ‘for the greater good’, it isn’t about what’s been done to you or what you wish it was or what the church wishes it was or your parents or peers wish it was, it’s about what you’re attracted to without the influence of threats or violence. 

it’s also NOT a moral failing to stay in the closet, you are under NO obligation to put yourself at risk or make yourself uncomfortable by coming out. IF you want to come out out, then the  time and place you do is up to you, and the people who you tell are also up to you. Pride and privacy are not mutually exclusive. it can even be possible to talk to others like you and even date without being fully out of the closet, and it is NOT childish to do so.

Please stay safe and know that same-sex love will always exist all over the world. There are millions and millions of us spread thinly across every nation every culture in every job and faith and organization. Wherever your life may lead, please know one thing:

You are not alone.

i love when post-op trans women try to cope by saying “remember that there is soo much variation even in cis vulvas, and no vulva is perfect” because excuse me, my vulva actually is perfect. she is flawless. so speak for yourself, sir.