Clockwork-kisses - Clockwork Kisses

I've watched this video more than once trying to make sense of what's going on in his head. I really can't fathom it. He thinks he knows what women want, how they think. So he overlays his reality onto ours, pushes it onto us. And says, "This is how you think and why you think it, because I say so." And that's patronizing and revolting.

This woman's story in the comments just drives it home. Women are afraid of men. And with good reason. Not all men are going to hurt us, but a significant enough portion will retaliate against perceived slights with overwhelming aggressiveness that we are protecting ourselves. Even attractive men. Even men who come off as kind at first. Because they have the internalized view that women owe them affection and attention. And that...is just not true.

CNN Discussion feat. Amanda Seales and Steve Santagati.

Vinca! Commissioned by Ayofemi/Paragon :D

Reblog if no one has a crush on you.