BeeslyBees Giveaway

BeeslyBees’ Giveaway

After a while of saving and thinking, I’ve finally come up with my next giveaway! But before I show the giveaways contents, and explain the rules, I just wanted to thank all my followers for what they do. You’re all so supportive and sweet, and I couldn’t ask for a better following. I do these giveaways to show my love and support back to you guys. I know I’m not always best at replying to messages or asks, but I still appreciate all of you. So thank you again, and I wish you all the best with the giveaway!

*Side Note* : The following contents of this giveaway are all things I enjoy, and things I think others would as well. I know since there is no main theme for this giveaway, and there might be things some people may not enjoy; when the winner is picked they may pick and choose what they want. So that way they don’t have to receive anything they don’t like. (The can of course have everything if they like it all!!)

So without further ado; The Giveaway!

1.  Sakura 6-Piece Pigma Micron Ink Pen Set- Black   

2. A 15-Piece Wood Handle Brush Set

3. Pure Body Naturals Dead Sea Mud Mask (250g/8.8 fl oz)

4.  Golden Rose Velvet Matte Lipstick -Set of 6

5.  12 Pcs Makeup Cosmetics Brushes Set Kit- In pink or Black

6.  Studio Ghibli movie collection  

(Disc 1. Laputa, Grave of the Fireflies, Whisper of the Heart/ Disc 2. Princess Mononoke, My neighbor Totoro, Nausicaa/ Disc 3. Kiki’s Delivery Service, Porco Rosso/ Disc 4. The Cat Returns, Howl’s Moving Castle, Tales From Earthsea/Disc 5. Spirited Away, Ponyo, My Neighbors the Yamadas/ Disc 6. Pom Poko)

7.  Tea Forte Classic Single Steeps Loose Leaf Tea Sampler (three pouches of each: Earl Grey, English Breakfast, Green Mango Peach, Chamomile Citron and Ginger Lemongrass)

8.  Adult Coloring Book: Stress Relieving Cats

9.  Cute Cat Sticker Post-it Bookmark Marker

10.  Soapstone Incense Stick Holder

11.  The Crystal Bible by Judy Hall- Paperback

12.  “ Sock It To Me” Constellations and Bee’s Knee High Socks- One Size

13.  Mars NY Women’s Alien Crew neck Sweatshirt- Size small-2XL

14. Planetary Glass Set

15. $10 Itunes or GooglePlay gift card

16. $25 Lush Giftcard

17. $50 Barnes and Nobles Gift Card

Concluded with a handwritten note from me, including a small bag of candy.

Rules/More Info:

1. You must be following me; since this is a giveaway for my followers

an extra entry if you want to follow me on my new instagram

2. Only reblogs count; but you may like as well.

3. You may reblog as much as you’d like; but be considerate of your followers please

4. The giveaway ends July 1st, 2016

5. The giveaway is international so all feel free to join!

6. All these products are bought by me/not sponsored

Thank you again everyone, and I wish you all the best!

I think what bugs MRAs and guys like them so much about the word “creep” is that it’s the only word they understand means “Game over, you lose.  Don’t ever go near me again.“  Anything else, they feel they can work around, even a flat out “no”, just means “okay try again later” or “maybe it’s not a firm no, let’s see if I can talk my way into her phone number with another 5 minutes of pushing.”

But “creepy” means that their “shot” is over.  If they’re creeping us out, that means anything else they do will just creep us out more.  Pushing the issue will just mean they’re being more of a creep.  It’s over.  She’s never going to be interested.  Goodbye.  It is the ONLY word we have that shuts off all opportunities for them.  It is the only word we have to set our boundaries in stone.

That’s why they’re obsessed with policing it, that’s why they want it to be unusable, or call it a slur, that’s why they keep wanting explanations and claiming creepy is too vague, because they can nitpick and rules lawyer and push against explanations.

If we say they had bad breath, it means pop a breath mint and try again, if we say we’re tired, it means try again tomorrow, if we say we don’t like them, it just means we need to get to know them better, if we say we’re in a relationship, it means wait until it’s over (or try to sabotage it if they pretend they’re our friend), if we just want to be friends, it means for them to wait until another time, if we hate that they’re a transphobe, they’ll try to convince us they’re really not, if we think they’re exotifying us for our race, they’ll try to dictionary fight us about what exotifying means and it’s “just a preference”, if we say we’re gay, they’ll say that we just haven’t met the right guy, if they touched us and we didn’t like it, they’ll try to convince us we’re over sensitive and it’s a compliment, if they were following us around, it was just them really liking us and not stalking.  On and on and on, everything we say and do will be picked apart as to why it is totally okay for them to keep haranguing us and why we objectively mustn’t rule out dating them.

Hell, there are sites upon sites upon sites, and bestselling books teaching men how to push, talk, pressure, confuse, trick, threaten, and nitpick their way past our “nos”, past our explanations, past our boundaries.  To so many guys, “no” (and any variation of no, including all explanations) means “wrong tactic, try again” or “she’s just playing hard to get.”

So we HAVE to say “you’re creeping me out”, because they ARE, because a lot of the behaviours above are creepy, because not leaving us alone is creepy, because anything else we say gets pushed back onto us, and they refuse to respect our boundaries, and that is fucking creepy!  Creepy is the only tool we have to definitively send a message to a guy we’re not interested.  You’re creepy, if you do anything else towards me, you’ll be even creepier, and THAT they do understand.

And that’s why they hate it so much.  That’s why they want to take the word away from us.  And that’s why we can’t let them.  It’s the only tool we have in a society where nothing a woman says to a man to set her boundaries can’t be picked apart by that man and pushed back onto her to defend, and re-defend those boundaries.

Hey look!

Margot’s got her own character bio. It’s like she’s an actual person. Sort of. You know, in that character kind of way. 

So if anyone’s interested in interacting with a soldier and noblewoman of Ebonhawke who might be a little bit socially awkward and excessively stubborn, give me a poke :).

Reblog if you think it’s okay to platonically say “I Love You” to your friends

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@pan-pizza remember how you said in this weeks podcast you wished Leroy Jenkins was in the Warcraft movie? Well he was in the original Script

For Ewan Carmine: O. Where I'd like to travel

Ewan brightened at the question, giving it serious thought. “I’d love to go visit Ascalon. So much rich history there. And perhaps Orr for the same reason. Though I realize safety is a concern. But I wouldn’t travel alone.” His cheeks flushed as his thoughts drifted to one traveling companion in particular. “I think taking someone with me would make it an even more enjoyable experience. Because then we could learn about it all together. I think she-- um, I’m certain that we would both learn a lot from an expeditionary trip,” he finished awkwardly.