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Look, it’s cool to see feminine guys in short skirts, thigh high socks or tights being all confident and sexy but it would be really cool to see guys with different types of femininity.

Like... Where are all the men that like to twirl around in big puffy dresses and gowns, wear tiaras and have tea in an ivory tower? Where are all the guys that wear glasses, a cute skirt and a sweater that like to have a latte at Starbucks while they’re working on their essay on their laptop? Where are the ones that wear ties that match their skirts to go to work? Where are the elderly men looking elegant in their long-sleeved dresses and their high bun sitting comfortably at a window in a room inside their huge old mansion to read a book during a rainy day? Where are all the men with pretty smiles, wearing alice bands, dresses with cute prints, carrying cute bags and purses, mesmerizing everybody they meet? Where are the guys that like to bake pies and have picnics in the forest with their animal friends, comfortably sitting under a tree, looking all pretty in a pink strawberry dress?

There are so many different types of femininity! Different types of male femininity! And they should be represented more often!

tip for those who struggle with building up their grimoire:

I'm rebuilding/reworking my own grimoire atm and, in poking around for inspiration here and there, I've seen a bit of a trend regarding indexes and tables of contents.

A lot of posts for Beginner Witches have looong lists of things you Absolutely Must(TM) include in your grimoire. These read almost like a super extensive syllabus that covers what seems like every topic under the sun, and are, quite frankly, completely unnecessary.

This is a friendly reminder that you don't have to include anything in your grimoire that you don't want to.

Not interested in astrology? No problem. Don't include it.

Don't work with herbs or crystals? Why spend time writing notes on them, then?

Don't celebrate Wiccan holidays? No need to include info on the Wheel of the Year.

etc etc.

Part of the reason why I never finished my last couple grimoires were the fact that I felt pressured to write extensive entries on things I wasn't interested in, or on things I already knew and thought redundant to include. I had dozens upon dozens of unfinished pages, and the knowledge that I was expected to write things on each of them filled me with such anxiety and dread that I just... stopped opening my notebook up altogether.

This time around, however, I'm taking a different approach to my grimoire. I have limited time and energy to commit to my craft, and I'd rather not spend it on shit I didn't really care about. In my new grimoire, I have not and never intend to include notes on the 'basics', or overviews of every pantheon and every deity, or summaries of the different types of witches or spells or what have you. I'm including only what I think is important to me.

Your grimoire is supposed to be your personal journal, documenting not only the things you've learned but the things you're actually interested in. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do research -- it's very important to expand your education, especially regarding different worldviews and outlooks to your own. But!!

Don't feel like you've got to write an encyclopaedia, or produce a textbook for future generations to consult, because that isn't the point.

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