More Ferio DTIYS

More Ferio DTIYS

i don’t know how to say this in a way that doesn’t come off kind of mean but a lot of you are genuinely uncomfortable with “attraction” as a concept and really need to step back and work on that before entering into nuanced conversations about romance/dating/sex/etc.

like. this is how we get dumb (and frankly dangerous when presented to a younger, impressionable audience) takes like “men dressing in ways women find attractive is manipulative” “real life woman is catering to the male gaze by existing” “healthy sexual attraction to real people (whether it’s celebrities or ppl you know irl) is inherently creepy and predatory” 

like. yes there’s so many ways that attraction can be harmful/unhealthy/etc and they aren’t talked about or addressed enough but in general, most attraction is healthy and is natural and the behavior that stems from that attraction is healthy and natural too. you guys have to get comfortable with the concept of attraction as a whole, especially when your ridiculous judgments most often target people that are not cis/white/het/gender conforming/etc

I LOVE BEING ENBY

Never have I ever felt more in love with myself then when I was forcing myself to be a certain way. I may have a complicated relationship with my body but at the end of the day it's my body. MY relationship with it.

I don't need radfems and terfs demonizing me and telling me I'm "confused" or practicing "self-hate" if I ever decide to change myself in anyway because not ONCE has my decision to change been made because someone else told me to or made me feel like I had to.

Being enby doesn't pressure me to look or be a certain why. Being enby doesn't mean I have to look masculine or feminine just to fit into some dumb ass binary box. I. Am. Me.

If I choose to cut my tits off that's MY decision. If I don't, I don't. Not because I'm being pressured by patriarchy or fucking whatever. Not because I hate how men look at me or fucking whatever it is radfems think it is.

They're not my therapist. They don't get to "diagnose" me or tell me how I feel and why.

So yeah fuck terfs, radfems.

Happy Pride Wrath Month

Deleted some posts cause no one needs to see that lmao

Everyday is a new lesson in why i need to get out of this house

My OC Artemus!