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Bodily autonomy means that sometimes other people are going to do things with their body that you don't like, and you just have to deal with that. It's their body. You do not dictate what they get to do with it, even if you really, really want to. Even if they're doing something you think is really, really stupid.

Body mods. Drugs. Sex. Self-harm. Doesn't matter. It's not your body, it's theirs. You don't dictate what other people get to do with their physical form.

If someone is causing physical harm to their own body, you can't force them to stop through shame or punishment. It doesn't work. It never actually solves the problems causing the harmful behavior.

If you genuinely want to help in a dangerous situation, you cannot approach it from a perspective of "I am going to force you to stop doing this thing whether you want to or not." That's the fastest way to make everything worse.

it's the horse riding competition not dick riding competition 🙄🙄

cuties

— February 26, 1922 | Franz Kafka diaries

ok we're having fun and shit but

stands are representation of one's psyche. what if hierophant green is long distance stand because kakyoin's never felt right around other people and so he constantly distances himself from everyone so much so he has to attack his opponents from far away.

sorry gang i'm tweaking rn

Character bio for kakyoin in the manga.

-HEAVEN'S DOOR-

Jojo x Mucha

Hi melk! Could you perhaps do 💭 ❤ from the NSFW hc list with Bucciarati pretty pls?

-🥭

❤ : Where on their body is your muse most sensitive?

I think Bruno is the most sensitive on his neck!! Thrives off of anything to do with his neck; kissing, biting, licking, squeezing. It's easy to hide any marks and bruises you leave on him due to his typical uniform, though he definitely gets weird looks when he's seen at a casual non-mafia related gathering still in his usual attire. He doesn't need anyone seeing the damage you did nor does he want to look in a mirror and pop a boner from the sight.

Marks littered Bruno's delicate, tanned skin. Bruises in the shape of teeth, patches of blue and purple decorating his neck. You love seeing the damage you've created times before, licking your lips at the idea of creating more or making them worse. As your hands trailed up his chest and danced closer to his throat, Bruno's breath hitched and eyes darkened substantially. When your fingers wrapped on either side of his neck and squeezed ever so slightly, his cock twitched between your legs, rubbing against the lace panties acting as a barrier. Your smile was devious and beautiful as you watch him, confident yet fearful. Arousal written all over his face as you wrap your other hand around his neck too, your grin widening as you squeeze a little tighter to cut off his air and his hands, in turn, tighten around your waist.

💭 - Which sexual desire are they too embarrassed about to tell anyone? And in which situation would it be obvious enough to show?

MOMMY KINK

ik ik 'but bruno is the mommy' shut up anyway that man would love to be looked after by a mommy figure, someone who will praise him and tease him and look down on him. He's always the one to be in a position of power over those closest to him, what he desires the most is for someone to be in power over him but not in a true Dom/sub way and more a Mommy/baby way. Wants to be looked after, told he's doing good, service someone and praised in turn for it. It is obvious whenever he does something little for you, the way you praise him gets him flush and a little worked up if he lets it, even if it's the way you would thank anyone else in the team.

"I made you a drink." Bruno announces after entering the living room. You sat on the couch next to Narancia with Leone in a chair diagonal to you, watching a movie together on a boring Sunday evening. "Oh thank you, my love." There was a pang in his gut, a pleasant one that sent sparks throughout his body. "No one can make this just the way I like, like you can." You take a sip of the drink, entirely unaware of the way Bruno was frozen in place and trying to keep himself from getting hard at your simple praise. You hum, "Perfect as always, thank you Bruno." He swallowed thick as you smiled up at him, slowly becoming aware of the weird looks Leone and Narancia are giving him, no doubt noticing the tint of colour creeping onto his face. Taking a breath he smiles and pats your shoulder, almost running out of the room to save himself from showing himself up in front of the others.

some of yall don't understand what human rights mean and it is legitimately worrying how some of you think that if a person is 'bad' enough they should have their human rights taken away

genuine piece of advice for punks, activists, and everyone else honestly: any form of leftist infighting is a waste of your time.

focus on the task at hand: improving living and quality of life conditions for your community. unionize. donate to food banks. cooperate with organizations like food not bombs to distribute free hot meals. volunteer at libraries. participate in homeless outreach. give people access to resources in your community. organize and participate in protests. create organizations, groups, and gathering spots for queer folk in your area who need safe places to go and find community.

help people find access to HRT, surgery and other gender affirming care. carry, hand out, and administer narcan (naloxone). help recovering people get to rehabilitation, methadone clinics and so on. help addicted people practice harm reduction and use safely. help give out menstrual kits to homeless and low income people who have periods. help people get into housing programs. help disabled people apply for disability (SSI and SSDI) and disability lawyers. help disabled people find work or income resources that are accessible to them. donate blood and/or plasma if you can. care for people with HIV and AIDS.

help people apply for food stamps, medicaid, bill and rent assistance. help disabled people find case managers and caregivers. call local lawmakers to voice your opinions on current events. advocate for disadvantaged queers in your area. establish and participate in mutual aid funds. spread awareness and advocate online. write about and share your experiences with disadvantages, abuse and other problems you've faced in life for who you are. gather and organize with people with shared experiences. start or volunteer at a community garden. deliver meals to the elderly. volunteer at a homeless shelter.

organize fundraisers for, spread awareness of, and donate to:

Palestine

Sudan

Congo

i don't care if someone's activism looks different from yours: there are a TON of ways to improve and make change in your and the global community. doing ONE of these is enough, finding a singular way to improve your community is a better use of your time than arguing. everyone can find ways to be good to each other.

rehashing the same talking points, reading between the lines, accusing someone of identifying with politics they've never advocated for, and making baseless accusations isn't helping. it's not fixing anything. mobilize. advocate. stand up for your community and its rights. take action. now. i mean it. we must.

help each other.

just a kind reminder to please be kind to the people you know with gastrointestinal disorders/conditions! they're embarassing, often very painful - sometimes debilitating - and very hard to talk about without oversharing a lot more than most are comfortable with.

if someone you know:

- spends a lot/long time in the restroom

- has a colostomy bag

- requires diapers or similar implements

- experiences a lot of gas and/or bloating

- requires tube feeding or other alternative methods of nutrition

- has food restrictions (e.g. cannot handle a lot of spices, certain proteins, etc.)

- eats a lot, or only a little

or other similar factors of their life...

please be patient and understanding, it's hard having guts that really like disagreeing with you!

controversial opinion but unfortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are mean to people, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have secret kind thoughts. fortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are kind in your actions and your words, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have mean thoughts. the power is in working against inner negative thoughts and being a better person despite it. you have the ability to cultivate the person you want to be.

remember. you can't know things you don't know. you have to find them out. by doing things.

I love soulmates but also this-

Finished my redraw of my 2016 set of JOJOs, but now with Jodio! Debuted at Rose City Comic Con 2024. Thank you all for the support over the years (you all know who you are!) so that I could make it this far in the first place <3

Okay I’ll never have the big house, I’ll never have a dream car, I won’t have kids, but I have love, good love, and I enjoy the silence of nature, I enjoy birdsong, and painting silly things for people that need them, I enjoy making people laugh, I enjoy dancing all night, hair a mess, sweaty hugs from my friends as we part ways, I don’t want the dream life, I want my life

Little Companion (2021) This is the second Outer Wilds comic I've ever done. You can see I was still a student back then, since it's in full colour lmao This comic's inspiration was from a concept art: As I was cruising online for find references for Outer Wilds character, I found a concept art of the Hatchling drawn by artist Sojyoo, who draws them with a little plushie attached to their leg, showing "their approximative age and how they cope in space." I found this idea quite adorable, and did a little sketch of the Hatchling hugging the plushie... and with time, I thought about telling a little story about it. I thought it was interesting to explore the idea that a teenager has to live through this, and having a childhood memory by their side for reassurance. After all, don't we all feel a little bit of comfort with an old plushie? Then I thought about Solanum, who is also not quite an adult yet, and I thought that he would appreciate that childish comfort as well... I absolutely cheated when drawing Solanum's mask. I believe I drew it in 3 different angles by tracing a reference, then copy-pasted it on the various panels. If I were to redo that comic, I would've probably just simplify the mask... but hey, it looks accurate! Also, that lullaby that Hatchling sings is an actual polish lullaby. I am not good at writing songs, so I was looking for an existing lullaby that talks about stars or space. I found this one on an obscure website, and found a flute version on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orOmQPHrlp4 A little note on this comic: I technically made an error by making Solanum say that she's happy to see Hatchy "again". I wasn't that strict with the lore compared to now, and I thought that Solanum could remember their previous interactions, which is wrong. It's not a big deal, but also I don't want to modify the original dialogue, because it would feel wrong to me after so long.

“Our curiosity goes with you on your journey. You walk in the footsteps of those who came before you, and your path guides those who will follow later.”

Yam & her sister, Tato~💖💖💖