Synastry House Overlay Series- Pluto In The Houses

Synastry House Overlay Series- Pluto in the houses

First house-

Pluto falling in first house synastry can indicate that the Pluto person can have a deep effect on the basic consciousness and image of the house partner. Pluto here can help motivate house person, and help them empower themselves and become more confident. The Pluto person can also make house more aware of themselves spiritually, however if Pluto is badly aspected the house person could turn resentful with Pluto person trying to change their ways. House person may find the Pluto person as this alluring, intense, sexy, and powerful individual. Pluto person can teach and show the house partner be more dominant and to learn to set boundaries with others or possibly how to take better care of themselves or any other positive change to themselves.

Second house-

Pluto can be a powerful force in their partner’s life when it falls in second house synastry, the Pluto partner has the ability help increase the house partner’s overall confidence, self-worth, and income. If the house partner had issues surrounding money or an issue with what they think they are worth, Pluto helps them feel more confident in asking for what they deserve or what their work is worth. Pluto person could take an interest in how the house person manages or spend its, there could be an attempt to try to control how they do so and the end result can be the house partner seeing an increase in their financials. If there are hard aspects, the Pluto person could become overly possessive of the house partner

Third house-

Pluto can have the power to change the house partner’s mind, opinions, or eve their ideas when they fall in the third house synastry. Pluto can help the house person grow their mind in new directions, able to show them how to improve their abilities to have conversations. Pluto will be the one to talk more in this relationship, manipulations on the house partner into thinking a certain way. There is a chance that the Pluto person will be the one to be more dominate in conversations or they could force their opinions on the house partner. With this house synastry this placement can be an issue as each person needs to be allowed their opinion without having someone always it shutting them down, arguments and and giant fights can be a occurring issue here as well. 

Fourth house-

With Pluto falling in fourth house synastry, there can be a very strong and transforming effect on the home and family affairs of each other. The Pluto partner is likely to try to bring change completely transform the domestic situation of the house person. The Pluto person may develop a deep interest in the house partner’s family and childhood. If the pair are living together, the Pluto person will try to control things in the home or be more dominant person in the home. The house person may feel that the Pluto person comes off too controlling or bossy at home, they will also try to help the Pluto person overcome any of their childhood issues that need healing by being someone the Pluto person finds comfort in and vent to. 

Fifth house-

Fifth house Pluto synastry will have sexual compatibility as a key factor to these two when trying to figure out if the relationship will work, if there is bad aspects to Pluto, sexual jealously can be a major issue in these relationships. The house partner can find the Pluto person’s charismatic,and mysteriously sexy. These two can both find themselves enjoying pursuing creative outlets together, helping each other bring out a string creative energy being able to develop a better self-expression. This synastry can bring a competitive environment, which can good if no one goes overboard. The Pluto person could try to control how house expresses their self-expression, or control what they does for fun or even might be too competitive, making house feel like Pluto is always searching to be the center of attention. If children are a subject, the Pluto person may want to have children with the house person and sexual intensity and desire for each other will be hard to them to control.

Sixth house-

Finding one’s Pluto falling in another person’s sixth house in synastry can be a tricky thing, the Pluto person can have an extreme interest in the house partner’s health habits or daily routine and they may find Pluto suggesting a bunch of new healthy ways to eat and live life in a healthier way even if they come off as pushy about it. The Pluto person is probably set in their ways of how they do things and insists that house does the same. There’s a chance that the Pluto person gets on the house person nerves by being so strict and particular about  the day to day chores. The Pluto person tries to help the house person become more organized, fit and healthy in their every day life. However, Pluto could become very invasive, always want to know what the house partner is doing, slowly becoming obsessed with their partner and everything in it, putting Pluto at risk of falling into the stalker position. 

Seventh house-

Seventh house Pluto synastry has relationships as focus with this match, the Pluto partner will have strong ideas on how a relationship should be and how people should act in one. House partner will find Pluto as this secretive, intense and mysterious person, they may look up to or respect the Pluto person’s lack of fear, or admire how Pluto holds their confidence and power. Both partners here will feel the effect of this synastry strongly here as there can be a tendency to try to overpower or control the other person, but this could create a very powerful team where there isn’t confrontation and butting heads and partners actually work with each other, if there are too many bad aspects the jealousy here can result in break-ups or divorce.

Eighth house-

Having Pluto fall in the 8th house synastry is intense, the Pluto person helps the house partner learn to gain a deeper understanding of spiritual matters and can develop a deep interest in the house person. Pluto person has the abilities to look deep into the house person’s fears and can help them overcome them or if badly aspected, heighten those fears. Pluto will ask many private and perhaps heavy questions of the house partner and in this exchange a deep bond with intimate details is formed. Sex could be an intense and passionate and experimental, or involve taboo activities. Be careful not to make the relationship too heavy, as there can be power struggles in the sharing of resources or control issues over money. Depending on the aspects to the Pluto person and their own aspects can show whether or not they will use house’s secrets and knowledge for their advantage 

Ninth house-

Religion and spiritual pursuits are a few of the topics when looking at ninth house synastry. Having someone’s Pluto land in another’s ninth house can indicate a concern for both partners to do better with self-improvement through the help of some kind of religious or spiritual practices. The Pluto person could seem like they have a strong religious or foundation of views in which they are willingly to open and share with the house partner, this can make house look up to them and see them as some type of leader, possible like a cult leader because house can end up idealizing Pluto. The Pluto person will pursue the house partner into bringing them into believing their beliefs. This can indicate that these two can come from different religions. The Pluto person may get the house person to open their horizons in some way and travel if they have not and this also applies to higher education if house has not attempted any.

Tenth house-

Tenth house synastry when Pluto falls in will have the Pluto person to take a strong interest in the house partner’s public status and career. The Pluto person can have a complete transforming influence on the career of the house person, trying to improve or mold the professional activities of house and especially if involved in some kind professional partnership. The house person can be someone the Pluto person respects and see’s array of talent potential, they can also suggest powerful ways in which the house person may obtain their worldly goals. This is synastry is sometimes found in the people who become strong supporters, and promoters of their partner. The Pluto person wants to help manage the house partner in their career life or if negatively aspected they can suppress the house person’s career desires and end up holding them back.  

Eleventh house-

This synastry involving Pluto landing in the eleventh house can indicates a mutual involvement in pursuit of scientific or humanitarian goals. The Pluto person is likely to try to change the house partners goals and friendships, having strong opinions about them and often encouraging the house partner into getting rid of those friends and activities that are toxic and do not serve a useful purpose for them. The house person can give a safe place for the Pluto partner to be their true self and will be supportive as they can be of the Pluto person’s hopes and wishes. This synastry will usually indicates a strong friendship where both partners enjoy socializing together and participating in group activities. Pluto can introduce the House person to some powerful people, people that may help them reach the goals that these two are trying to achieve.

Twelfth house-

Of all the houses, the twelfth house is not an easy house for Pluto to be in even in synastry. The Pluto person gains insights into the house partner’s mind that could be a bit uncomfortable for house. This is can be a very powerful psychic connection where it’s noticed in the relationship that so much happens on an unconscious level. The Pluto person can show house the many of the hidden insecurities or the self-sabotaging ways in the which the house partner attempts. This can cause a powerful psychic connection where the house person feels as if Pluto knows what the house person is thinking every second, all day long, and in some cases house will just use Pluto as a constant dump of every secret to them, treating Pluto as a confessional. 

Synastry House Overlay- Mercury in the houses

First house-

With someone’s Mercury in another’s first house can bring communications about their interests and interactions with the world to come easily. Mercury person can with ease, express themselves to the house partner. House will understand what Mercury has to say and can also understand the unspoken intentions. When ever house person is around Mercury partner, they tend to get more investigative. Mercury can stimulate the house partner and help them with ideas for self-expression, all while house person motivates Mercury to put other ideas into action. Mercury person opinions have an influence on house partner and also may give feedback on house’s mannerism. 

Second house-

A great professional synastry here in the second house as both partners can come up with quite an amount of money generating ideas together. Mercury here inspires the house partner mentally in better or new ways of handling business activities. The two can help each other utilize talents in each other and enjoy each other talking about the things and goals they want. Other than that, there may be a hard time seeing eye to eye and conversations may feel a little stale. Mercury may feel like house person just doesn’t get them and the house person may feel all that the Mercury person does is talk mainly about is money or possessions. 

Third house-

There is a comfort here with one’s Mercury in another’s third house, not an exciting one but enough to make conversations seem like they would never end. The house person can feel more freely to communicate, if normally shy, when around the Mercury partner. Mercury with house partner around getting their gears going naturally is a real chatter box, being able to just let it all out with them. Conversations between the two will be like lightening, fast and quick-witted for they are both intellectually inspired with each other. This synastry is good for relationships and teaching relations as well. 

Fourth house-

Fourth house mercury synastry brings comfort for both partners here, Mercury person can express their selves daily and feel like they fit into the house partner’s life perfectly. The house person feels comfortable with Mercury partner and their mind, attitude, and overall way the go about their life. Both partners here can talk about home and family issues easily with each other better than with anyone else, there may be even some discoveries in similarities in childhood or even familiar people within families. Mercury person reminds the house partner of something familiar they can’t figure out and will feel like family matters are less dramatic with Mercury around as they are able to help mediate and move people through whatever problems.

Fifth house-

Boredom doesn’t exist here in synastry for Mercury in the fifth house, jokes for days and a constant back and fourth with playful banter and humorous chat for these two. House person can feel invigorated and looking forward to seeing or just even talking to the Mercury partner, can almost seem like Mercury is sunshine for the house partner. Mercury just makes things seem light and easy and that gives the house person motivation to plan and engage in activities for fun. Mercury feels inspired and creative when they have the house person around. Being able to feel like they can truly express their creative nature, Mercury enjoys the house partner overall company. This can be a romantic synastry depending on the rest of the chart.

Sixth house-

Sixth house is another comfortable house for Mercury to be in, it’s not a romantic connection but it brings stability to any relationship. Mercury person here will try to be helpful to the house partner, with their mind feeling stable around the house person they are able to focus and communicate in a practical way. House person may get the impression that the Mercury partner is reliable and a steady companion to have around, they may even try to help Mercury become more organised and manage their time better. This is a good synastry for work related relationships. If this is a couple, they may enjoy doing house chores together.

Seventh house-

Whether this is a romantic relationship or a business relationship, there is an ease or comfort for both people here. Both partners here are willing to listen to one another as they believe that there should be a balance in conversations. Being able to talk about just anything comes so easy for these two. Mercury person may feel like the house partner will accept the way Mercury thinks, they also maybe able to help house with business matters. House feels comfortable with Mercury’s presence around, they manage to make the relationship feel breezy for the house partner. 

Eighth house-

Having anything in the eight house can bring a deep feelings to either people here. Mercury has the power to cut deep into the house person’s psyche and can end up being the one whose more dominating in conversations having the fear that they maybe taken advantage of somehow. The house person understands and knows that the Mercury partner means business and doesn’t take the word of Mercury lightly. House person may even be too careful and give calculated responses to the Mercury partner to not upset them. Mercury is able to help house partner open up and the two may even be able to share subjects together and discuss things they normally wouldn’t with anyone else. This is also a good synastry for business as the house person could employ the Mercury partner’s ideas into business. 

Ninth house-

Ninth house synastry can have Mercury person talk a lot about travel, culture and philosophical subjects with house partner. Mercury here can give the house person a greater perspective on life and energize them to explore the world and all of it’s mysteries. These is a similarity between the two partners on the world views and philosophies. The house person large thinking is invigorated and inspired, overall the house partner is just impressed with Mercury’s vast knowledge and is open to learning more from them. A great synastry for a student-teacher relationship.

Tenth house-

Mercury in someone’s tenth house can bring talks of goals and life directions with such ease. Mercury will probably be the one to mainly talk about work and goals, here they can also help give the house partner ideas on how to attract business or help in their career, they will also sort of act like a public relations advocate for the house person. There is a mutual respect here for both partners, house person can feel like their public image gets a boost or some help when Mercury partner is around and Mercury here can spread the word about house’s skills and talents helping land opportunities. A great public relationship or professional synastry.

Eleventh house-

Open and easily chatty is what it feels like to have mercury in eleventh house Synastry. Mercury person feels like house just “gets it” and drawn to be open towards house partner and house sees Mercury as a natural companion and acceptive of how the house person thinks. The both of them will have similar interests and stimulate creativity in each other. House person welcomes the Mercury partner’s style and feels pleasent to have Mercury around as Mercury can also help spread the ideas of house around to others. There wouldn’t be much surprise that both may have many mutual friends or even work together on projects. A great synastry for best or close friendships and can be good for a basis in a relationship.

Twelfth house-

Mercury in someone’s twelfth house can bring confusion and some awkwardness as well as exploring of the house person’s unknown subconscious and bringing it to light. Mercury person understands house partner’s thoughts and can sense what they are feeling. There is almost a psychic connection here. Mercury can always sense when the house partner is getting overwhelmed. House person may not like how easily the Mercury partner can read them, like they can see right through them. Always being picked apart by Mercury partner can cause house to close up, even though Mercury person just wants them to open up and talk. The house person can bring out the intuitive insights of the Mercury partner, there may also be a mutual interest in art, music, and psychology.

How I See Rising Signs:

*Rising/Ascendant Sign is how other people view you, in other words what zodiac sign you come off as*

Aries Rising❣️:

You are very energetic and humorous, probably have several talents. Intelligent and adventurous. Very unique physical features. Positive attitude for the most part, but can get frustrated easily. Argumentative at times.

Taurus Rising 🍃:

Resourceful and kindhearted. You probably enjoy literature or something art related. Can be a homebody. Quiet unless someone asks for your opinion. Very honest and not afraid to debate with someone on something you care about.

Gemini Rising 🌻:

Likes to talk a lot, sometimes without even noticing. Fun to be around and converse with. Can be very mature in certain situations. A smart ass when you wanna be. Good in school and probably knows a lot of people, and vice versa.

Cancer Rising 🌙:

Very loving and genuine. Emotional and can be easily hurt but you always have a comeback. You love to educate people on things you’re an expert on. Passionate about a lot of things. Likes to shop!

Leo Rising 🌞:

You exude a lot of energy and positivity. People love to ask for your opinions on things because they know you’ll be honest. Funny and can be down for whatever. You have really pretty hair and like to do different hairstyles.

Virgo Rising 🌌:

You have a good sense of style and keep to yourself a lot. When you’re around a lot of people you’re comfortable with, you talk a lot though. Creative and you most likely wear glasses either because you need them or for a fashion statement.

Libra Rising ⚖️:

Not really expressive with your emotions, but very loving. Sweet and calm for the most part. Nobody ever knows what’s on your mind, but you’re easy to talk to. A really good friend, and you have an honest heart.

Scorpio Rising 🦂:

Beautiful and kind eyes! Can be very defensive and you care deeply about your family. Hard working and intriguing. Gets tired easily but rarely sleeps. Can be pushy without realizing it, and will say what’s on your mind. Intuitive.

Sagittarius Rising 🌹:

Fun to talk to and likes to explore. Gets bored easily and always on a new task or meeting someone new. You’re very smart and can be considered a “loner.” It’s not that you don’t like the company of other people but you don’t have a problem being alone.

Capricorn Rising 💡:

Like Scorpio risings, you all are very hardworking. You are also very expressive most likely through art, and might have a tattoo or few. Hard to understand and can be very insecure about your work/projects. Likely to overcome hardships in relationships you have and can be negative at times but you’re a good friend.

Aquarius Rising 🌊:

Either really quiet or really loud (depending on your other placements). When just with friends, you can be very lively. You probably know a lot about fashion or makeup, and you wonder about the world a lot. Good at acting or playing an instrument.

Pisces Rising 🌷:

You have a unique sense of style, and can be very emotional but you don’t like talking about your feelings a lot. Passive and helpful. A deep thinker and someone who loves a lot of different things, especially music. You don’t trust easily, but you earn trust easily (lmao if that makes any sense). Big heart, and you probably have beautiful big eyes or big lips.

Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio

When the Black Moon Lilith is in the sign of Scorpio the dark negative side of the emotions are influenced by the planets Mars and Pluto. When Lilith occupies the sign of Scorpio it can be said that Lilith functions in it’s most natural state.  Scorpio as a sign has a nature of being dark, secretive, mysterious, emotional and pushing things to extremes.  This very nature of the Martian and Plutonic sign merges with Lilith’s dark, powerful and extreme driven nature to form a volatile pairing.  

The emotions of Lilith in Scorpio can remain hidden and trapped and come out in powerful ways.  This can especially occur when there is a feeling of vulnerability present that makes Lilith feel in danger.  There can be a tendency to lash out to defend oneself when a sense of danger is felt that drives the extreme volatility nature of Lilith when in Scorpio.  Since the nature of Scorpio is a water sign Lilith can manifest a psychic intuitive sense honed on picking up danger. The sense may manifest through dreaming of dangerous situations or simply feeling them out in the day to day life as a form of intuition.  The psychic sense can remain trapped and not always easy to tap into; if at all.  It oft requires a sense of danger to activate and serves as a means keep one safe from harms way.

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𝙄𝙢𝙪𝙢 𝘾𝙤𝙚𝙡𝙞 - 𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙞𝙘 part 1 / 2

There are four major axis in our birth chart. 1st is the ascendant , the 2nd is the imum coeli or ic , the 3rd is our descendant or dc and the last one is medium coeli  , our mc.

So the ascendant or 1st house is what we project to the world , how people see us etc. the  descendant or 7th house is what we attract in relationships and how we behave in them. The mc or 10th house is how we are in public or in workplace , career, reputation etc. The ic or imum coeli is like a shadow house even though it is one of the main axis houses. That is because whatever sign or planet falls here is made private and is shown only in front of family and home. So its extremely private. But most people make the mistake of ignoring the ic , which in my opinion is like trying to build a building without any actual foundation.

I’m here to advocate for the IC. See ic is your childhood , your family , your roots, all of which play a very important role in shaping who you are today. So your repressed desires , traits , your dreams , and your core all of this is under ic’s influence. So unless you figure out your shadow side and work on your repressed traits , your wounds will never heal. So keep track of your ic ya’ll.

𝙎𝙞𝙜𝙣𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙩𝙝 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙚

𝔸𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕤 𝕀ℂ

-  a loud and brash childhood

- might have had parents who fought a lot.

- you were forced to man up early on in childhood.

- competitiveness among siblings was your identifying trait

- playful with family members

- it basically taught you that if you wanted something you have to go get it. no sitting around moping.

- self reliance might have been a big theme in their childhood

- prolly was the kid who got in trouble in school for punching a bully in the face.

- might have had a martian mom…kinda.

𝕋𝕒𝕦𝕣𝕦𝕤  𝕀ℂ

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The Love-Hate Relationship with Stelliums (Pt. 1) ✨

Guysss pls remember that astrology is holistic and this should be read taking into account your overall chart placements, as well as the planets in your stellium and what sign rules your stellium. TAKE NOTE lol

1st house

❤️: You may be a person who is very driven towards a particular goal, single-minded in behavior and with a sense of determination that is hard to beat. The focus is on self-improvement and is rather internally driven - there can be large amounts of time focused on figuring one’s identity out. You’re not afraid to say things as they are - you’re able to dish out criticism hard but you give credit when its due. You extend the courtesy you receive to others. You may have an innate sense of wisdom that you keep deep within that you don’t let slip unless to extremely close ones but in times of hardship you are a good source of motivation. You always seek to improve yourself and it’s hard (if not impossible) to drag you down because of your strong personality and how you tend to always move on no matter what. I think 1st house stelliums are the embodiment of “don’t look back” and y’all always try to make the best out of every best situation, sort of like seeing the silver lining in everything. And also when crises emerge you’re able to keep a calm head on your shoulders and are good at making snap decisions, which makes you good on your feet!

👹: I don’t think y’all are as self-absorbed as ppl make you out to be but there’s definitely an element of self-centredness such that when you do something, you often consider what is most convenient or productive for you. You might get upset when your plans are disrupted but sometimes do the same to others even though you might be aware of what you’re doing - in that aspect, 1st house stelliums can be hypocritical. For you, there is never enough - you’re never satisfied with anything, be it yourself or for other things so you can seem really unappreciative. Keep in mind that you also tend to force others to agree with you and don’t be so quick to dismiss the other party’s POV no matter how dumb it seems. Remember that there’s always something to learn from other people, no matter their status. You need to work on expressing your appreciation to others in a more genuine manner (altho I know y’all do it in gruff, slightly awkward ways when sincere - kinda cute ngl).

2nd house

❤️: You may be a person who has a strong moral code and has a staunch value system that you won’t deviate from no matter what. Sense of loyalty is usually unbreakable and it can take a lot to truly anger you. You can have a good financial sense and good instincts/foresight that allow you to plan ahead for stability’s sake. More often than not in certain areas you are a master of categorising and structuring things which means that your mind is analytical, critical and (usually) organised. You hate it when people think they know you because you (understandably) know yourself the best - there are many privatised layers of yourself that you prefer to keep… private so yeah it just annoys you when that happens. Y’all are a leader in certain aspects of your life and even though 2nd house stelliums tend to prefer being the right-hand man, your control freak tendencies come out and you end up leading anyway. You become really productive because of the fear of failure - you have crazy high expectations for yourself and expect the same of your closed ones (although ultimately you’ll support them in whatever they do). There is an appreciation for the finer things in life and when it comes to your loved ones you’re not afraid to spoil them hard. 

👹: Be careful not to let this driving need for stability restrict you from spontaneity and following your heart’s desire. There is an inherent inflexibility in your nature; stubbornness can really be your kryptonite. You don’t really take any opportunities that you think might threaten your security which, while giving you a stable fort, can hold you back in your own happiness + prosperity. You might realise that there is a limit to your perspective but really struggle in seeing outside of that perspective mainly because you spend so much time thinking about what matters to you that you’ve become accustomed to your train of thought (altho when you do break it it’s lowkey groundbreaking). The focus on this house is on stability, not only on material wealth, so while you may be reaping in one aspect you might tend to lack on the spiritual or emotional elements of life. You can be very, very controlling and demanding so you might want to tone it down a little if not people might get the wrong impression. People might think of you as judgemental (and you are tbh) but I believe it’s just 2nd house stellium’s way of assessing a person’s character/abilities. 

3rd house

❤️: You may be a person who puts in a lot of effort into various forms of self-expression (not limited to verbal communication but also finding a specific niche such as music, art, writing etc.) Your brain is naturally sharp and inquisitive and you may be able to pick things up very quickly. You might be rather adaptable but are surprisingly stubborn when it comes to your opinion or intellectual capabilities. You might have a dark/dirty sense of humor and because of that you also have a keen ability to see past the societal nuances of propriety and get to the heart/root of whatever a person is saying. You can spend your entire life trying to understand people and why things work the way they work - your brain needs to be stimulated in order for you to feel alive. Passion for you has to be applied in a productive manner - you probably aren’t a person to just take a passion for something as a mere hobby. Rather, you would either apply that passion to one of your existing projects, create a new one or use it as a motivating factor. Your interests are wide and varied, which makes you really well-rounded in certain aspects! 

👹: Many people say y’all are flighty beings and I can certainly see why they would think so. Because of your perceptiveness, you tend to change your narrative whenever you’re speaking to different people, so as to make yourself sound more convincing. In that aspect, you can be quite manipulative. Your ego probably isn’t the smallest either haha - you can tolerate being slighted at some things but if it’s a challenge to one of your passion projects you’ll probably become very upset. You need to stop giving people the hot and cold shoulder all the time and even though you’re quite sociable you tend to flaunt but hide your true thoughts. You have to be more open and honest in your self-expression, and not that idealised, constructed version of yourself you think people will find interesting. I’ve noticed that 3rd house stellium ppl have an obsessive need to “stand out” and make themselves feel unique which, despite all your charms and popularity, might be the reason why you find yourself sometimes so isolated. You’re a perfectionist (although you would deny it) and secretly quite controlling but unlike other stelliums you can manage it better I feel. 

4th house

❤️: There is a pressing insistence regarding relationships in your inner circle - be it your family, closest friends, or your future family. Extended focus on your cultural heritage can also be possible. Deep down, compassion is at your core and you are very protective of your friends in a silent but aggressive way. Having a stable family life is very important to you but I’ve noticed that more often than not, 4th house stelliums have turbulent family relationships. The beauty of 4th house stelliums is their ability to break through whatever toxic relationships they’ve been in and to create families of their own - be it unconventional or not. They are the epitome of “we choose our own families”. Y’all can be very empathetic and rather selfless to the point where you allow yourself to be manipulated (even though you’re aware of it) - but it’s usually for a justifiable reason. You find it easier than most to balance the emotional landscape but there are moments where you need an outlet to express yourself. There can be an obsession/possessiveness over your own culture - you take pride in your roots and become lowkey insulted when people disrespect it (and if you don’t, you somehow nearly always manage to find some other culture to assimilate yourself in). 

👹: Y’all probably get very upset when things don’t go your way but the problem with this stellium is that there is a want to speak out but you choose to bury everything inside instead - giving you a very passive-aggressive and even aloof image. Internally, you guys might think that you are giving off a very soft/giving aura but some people are wary precisely because you are hard to read. You are very, intensely private (rivalling 2nd/7th house tbh) and you have to learn how to share your true thoughts, no bullshit, no suger-coated thoughts with your family and dearest friends even though you are capable of handling yourself. You are independent, ambitious, and people often underestimate you, but you have to let people in first in order for them to know what you’re capable of! Also, idealisation of certain things (eg. a future family life/partner) can be prevalent and you overthink things to the point where sometimes you make yourself miserable. Again, please talk to someone hahaha you don’t have to deal with everything yourself. 

5th house

❤️:  Insecurity runs rampant in any 5th house stellium BUT y’all are quite paradoxical in a sense that you also have a very strong aura of confidence. Sometimes, in crucial moments, you manage to convince yourself and others that you are the most important person in the room haha - literally the epitome of “fake it till you make it”. Still, a deeply rooted kindness is found in 5th house stelliums such that you’re always looking out for the underdog in the room. If you are developed you probably have a strong sense of righteousness which prompts you to look out for people who might be struggling. Y’all are very concerned about your physical appearance and most of the time you like to keep your body in good shape, which draws the attention of people in the room. You likely have an infectious smile (this is just a hunch but I don’t believe 5th house stelliums smile a lot - y’all quirk your lips or smirk but a true smile is rare so when you do… it melts the hearts of people). Everything that you do will have a youthful flavor and you have a healthy appreciation for downtime/self-care so while you might not (contrary to popular belief) be that fond of kids, kids are attracted to you. Oh and actually I think the stronger this stellium is in a person, the shyer the person seems at first impression but inwardly and as time goes by, they become more humorous and dramatic. 

👹: You aren’t exactly manipulative, but you know how to use the power of suggestion (and your charms) to get what you want. If unchecked, it’ll become a habit because to you, it’s an instinctive thing to do and you might not realise you’re hurting other people because of it. You are stubborn and prideful (which isn’t a bad thing sometimes but) you take criticism quite badly such that if a person tries to offer their opinion or goes against your beliefs, you might take it as a personal attack. You have a fear of being restrained/constricted (like 9th house) so you’re actually quite aggressive to those who you perceive to be a threat to your authority. You can also experience extreme mood swings (from crazy happy/hyper to melancholic in a snap) and when you do you expect people to give you attention. But you are hypocritical in this aspect because you yourself can be quite insensitive to other people’s feelings, or you brush them off if you’re not “in the mood”. 

6th house

❤️: You are most probably quite an organised person, not in a tidy way (although you could be) but in matters of life there’s an insistence on order and structure. The way you think can be very logical - you are able to think concisely and connect the dots in a quick manner and logic is probably prevalent in everything you do. However, in contrast to this pragmatic behavior, you are deeply caring and you won’t think twice to give up something if a loved one needs it. You are very disciplined in certain aspects of life and you are able to maintain a consistent effort in everything that you do. You’re probably someone who finds joy in small things and although you have high standards, it doesn’t take much to make you happy, as long as it’s genuine. You can be a perfectionist and really quite meticulous in your work which makes you someone who is detail-orientated. You give a lot of yourself to other people and most of the time you don’t expect anything in return, which is one of the great things about 6th house stelliums. You take effort into maintaining your physical health and you mighttt be a fitness freak or someone who keeps track of their diet really carefully. It’s likely that you encourage other people to follow your lifestyle and generally, you exert a sort of mellow influence around other people that makes them want to be better. 

👹: There’s a tendency for 6th house stelliums to fall into pessimism, precisely because of your pragmatic nature. Y’all may say that you’re being “realistic” but in actuality it does dampen the spirits of some people. You can also become really unreasonable and inflexible once you’ve made up your mind on something and that makes you a bit narrow minded because you simply refuse to listen to other people’s POV. This can also cause tunnel vision which can really limit your full potential and I think it’s something worth spending your time working on. When pushed into a corner or feeling insecure, y’all might try to cover it up by being condescending or giving the cold shoulder. There’s also a risk of being overly reliant on a schedule/structure and hence, cautiousness when it comes to being spontaneous or embracing something foreign. Because of your affinity towards maintaining health, your hypochondriac tendencies may be exacerbated and you need to try to lessen your over-worrying behaviour haha. Although you never dish out something you can’t receive (eg. high expectations - you’re truly your worst critic), your demanding tone can really make others cautious of you.

OVERALL, I strongly believe that the way to embrace your stelliums isn’t to reject or force yourself to change the values they represent, but rather taking those eccentricities and moulding it into something more precious and beneficial to yourself. It has to be done with a thorough understanding of yourself; with patience. 

-C