
๐บ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐. ๐พ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐: โก @venomtorn
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Adding Two Extra Points To This Which Isn't Crazy Inflation Related (Americans Think They Have It Bad,
Adding two extra points to this which isn't crazy inflation related (Americans think they have it bad, yeah no it's about getting unlivable here.)
The brain is still developing at the age of 18 & 21 when people are considered legally adults, yet their development isn't complete. All but tossing a 18 year old into the world because they are an 'adult' is beyond ridiculous and risky. Especially if there's no preparation, failsafe plan talked over before + the reassurance if all hell breaks loose they still have a stable home to return to where they are safe and loved. I bet many would love to try true independency, highly doubt all of them feel the same way a year or even a few months later.
A personal one: I have epilepsy which wove itself together with my severe panic disorder. My attacks/seizures are unpredictable with little to absolutely no symptoms before. Only very, very mild signs that something might be off. I have a minute to seconds to take my meds before I lose mobility then full out seizure. My mom wouldn't even let me live alone or in college because it's unfortunately not safe for me. I would very much rather live with my mom than suffer brain damage from multiple seizures because of this look how adultโข I am dick measuring contest.
I'm not the only person with illnesses, disabilities; being young has nothing to do with inherited shit like this, nor at fault for being depressed, anxiety and many, many more. It is extremely unfair to boast the Get off my lawn idea so strongly because a lot of teenagers, young adults struggle with serious mental health conditions and physical limitations. This pressure is bound to increase everything they have feeling like they 'aren't good enough' and failed in life. Meanwhile family should be a central part of life.
I know I didn't mention abusive families; I'm not dismissing that nor glorifying staying in a toxic environment. I simply wanted to keep it within the topic of Why the generally American mentality of move out when you're an adult is flawed on multiple occasions even without looking at the state of the economy. You're more than valid if you want to stay. So are you if you don't no matter your reasons; be it genuine thirst for independence or an escape.
@deathshadowed: As an European, I've never felt pressured nor anyone in the family ever even hinted they want me out at 18 or even at 20 when I went to university. Furthermore grandma moved in with us because it was natural to have family living under the same roof. I understood the history behind the American 'Get out of my house when you're an adult' mentality but never supported the idea, unless it genuinely benefited the fresh 'adult' / they wanted that decision instead of pressure
A very good perspective from someone outside the experiences many of you are dealing with! Its not the norm or the end all be all.
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It was a fair question, indeed it was a lot. And she had earned even more, especially if it was a gang situation.
โY'know how women are. Spent it on clothes. On quality grains for my horse. Sometimes a saloon which happened to have a bath.โ the ivory haired hunter shrugged nonchalantly, poison eyes flicking towards the imp child in torn clothes Villรกm was currently playing with
โAnd some always needed it more than I did.โ a thin veiled admission that she gave the remaining away
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A primal, pained shout -a few moments after registering as her own voice- as something in her ribcage moved, more precisely: beat. Her heart has stopped since she perished, leaving her aching and hollow, yet the long dead muscle gave one agonizing, reverberating beat. As if she's been shot. Hands instinctively clutched the now silent spot, one hand slowly pried away and looked at in horror of what just transpired.
โConversation over.โ
Authority mixed with the tremor of terror and freshly unearthed grief; of course she lived to lose him too. And she had absolutely no desire to share any of it. Showing weakness was already bad enough, but there also were other questions which she will never get the answer to
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โNot enough targets? In Hell ? Surely you didn't kill all of them because my list is still full. Too dangerous to take on gangs, little poser? Your eye is only good to spot a curved rifle.โ a hiss after the statement, of course she remembers. Of course she isn't planning to let go. Unless a genuine apology.
โBesides, even in my human prime I didn't even get out of bed for less than $3000. And that, darlin', in the 1800s was a lot.โ


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โNot enough targets? In Hell ? Surely you didn't kill all of them because my list is still full. Too dangerous to take on gangs, little poser? Your eye is only good to spot a curved rifle.โ a hiss after the statement, of course she remembers. Of course she isn't planning to let go. Unless a genuine apology.
โBesides, even in my human prime I didn't even get out of bed for less than $3000. And that, darlin', in the 1800s was a lot.โ



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An Extremely Self-Indulgent Meme
Physical prompts based around some of my favorite tropes / physical actions in threads. Send thisย ย + reverseย ย to change which muse does which action.
tw for implied violence in some
โฐโฐ PIN โฑโฑ sender pins receiver during a fight/training
โฐโฐ HURT โฑโฑ sender is hurt protecting receiver
โฐโฐ CARRY โฑโฑ sender carries receiver bridal style
โฐโฐ LIFT โฑโฑ sender carries receiver over their shoulder
โฐโฐ MEDIC โฑโฑ sender bandages receiverโs wounds
โฐโฐ SUPPORT โฑโฑ sender comforts receiver after a loss / traumatic event
โฐโฐ THREAT โฑโฑ sender holds a weapon up to receiver as a threat
โฐโฐ SAVE โฑโฑ sender saves receiverโs life
โฐโฐ CRY โฑโฑ sender cries in front of receiver
โฐโฐ DANCE โฑโฑ sender invites receiver to slow dance
โฐโฐ HAND KISS โฑโฑ sender kisses receiver on the hand or wrist
โฐโฐ CHEEK KISS โฑโฑ sender kisses receiver on the cheek
โฐโฐ HEAD KISS โฑโฑ sender kisses receiver on the forehead
โฐโฐ EMBRACE โฑโฑ sender embraces receiver
โฐโฐ HANDS โฑโฑ senderโs fingers graze the receiverโs fingers
โฐโฐ CUDDLE โฑโฑ our muses cuddle
โฐโฐ BED โฑโฑ our muses share a bed
โฐโฐ BRUSH โฑโฑ sender plays with / brushes receiverโs hair
โฐโฐ GAZE โฑโฑ our muses make extended eye contact
โฐโฐ ALMOST โฑโฑ our muses almost kiss but donโt or are interrupted before they do
โฐโฐ ARGUE โฑโฑ sender ends an argument with receiver with a kiss
โฐโฐ ARM โฑโฑ sender puts their arm around receiver
โฐโฐ PULL โฑโฑ sender pulls receiver close to them
โฐโฐ BACK โฑโฑ sender touches receiver on the back
โฐโฐ SHOULDER โฑโฑ sender touches receiver on the shoulder
โฐโฐ LEAN โฑโฑ sender leans against receiver
โฐโฐ CARESS โฑโฑ sender caresses the receiverโs cheek
โฐโฐ HAIR โฑโฑ sender pushes receiverโs hair away from their face
โฐโฐ TILT โฑโฑ sender tilts the receiverโs chin with their hand
โฐโฐ CHIN โฑโฑ sender tilts the receiverโs chin with their weapon
โฐโฐ LEG โฑโฑ senderโs leg touches the receiverโs leg under the table
โฐโฐ FOOD โฑโฑ sender feeds the receiver
โฐโฐ WALL โฑโฑ sender pushes the receiver against a wall
โฐโฐ FREE โฑโฑ sender frees the receiver from restraints
โฐโฐ TACKLE โฑโฑ sender hugs the receiver so hard they almost fall over / do fall over
โฐโฐ DYING โฑโฑ sender finds the receiver near death
โฐโฐ PANIC โฑโฑ sender comforts the receiver as they have a panic attack or get overstimulated