"i Won't Call Someone Dude Or Guy If They Ask Me Not To" Isn't A Concession Btw. It's Telling Us To Just

"i won't call someone dude or guy if they ask me not to" isn't a concession btw. it's telling us to just accept it and deal with it, with a promise that if we just speak up and say we don't like that, you'll stop.

and maybe you really do mean it!!

but...you don't. not really. because you already put conditions on it. you already made it every other trans womans problem. you will call her dude, include her in guys, etc. until she herself works up the courage to do what might have failed many times before; maybe violently so...and asks you to stop.

and you'll apologize, and insist you meant it all neutrally, and you'll totally stop if someone asks, man! just say so, dude! you guys just need to speak up!

and you'll tell us this is a concession. when we know it's not.

Phobes are constantly looking for a type of cis person whose history gives them Special Insight on trans issues that's more authoritative than all trans people combined

misandry isn't real. no man on earth is oppressed on the basis of his being a man and not for some other factor, because there is not a place or a society on earth where a system of social forces exists to privilege some other gender category at the expense of men. this is basic social theory. any argument to the contrary is sophistry and wordplay. science denial isn't cuter when it's a social science. you people are so incredibly, willfully stupid, jesus, fucking delete your blogs

A porcupine’s Halloween present (+ original sound effects)

Stop fucking reblogging and posting DTWOF if you never post anything about transmisogyny I’m so serious.

ppl on twitter, esp young adults, are having a conniption because some girls did some lines of cocaine and posted about it. the rates in which teenagers and young adults seem to be circling their wagons around doing DARE-style reactionaryism towards drugs while having pride flags in their bio is truly something else.