I Need Control, Mwahahahaha... But I Cant Have It

i need control, mwahahahaha... but i cant have it 😔

the fact that op turned off rbs is very very funny to me. anyway i want this post on my blog too.

Can you draw christiiiiiiiine?

HER!!!

I went too far hahah

The thing is, those fake situations do cause real harm. It might not seem like it but shipping these abusive/pedophilic ships do impact real people, it normalises abusive behaviour and even romanticizes it. It tells people "hey this type of behaviour is okay and cute!", thus making people think its okay to treat/be treated like that.

Even if it doesn't feel like it affects anybody, remember that it does cause real harm to people.

i think that if a ship is genuinely abusive / pedophilic / problematic in a way similar, you can’t excuse shipping it just by the fact it’s fictional

i saw someone talking about veronica x jd earlier and it got me thinking more about this

i think a lot of the time people try to excuse that sort of stuff with “they’re just characters!! let people ship what they want!!!”

but that’s the sort of reasoning i would expect to see used on a rare pair, or characters from different media, or self insert ships

not for ships that have a canonically toxic / abusive relationship

it kinda makes me upset

apply this heavily to my views on squipemy

i think if you wanna be gross and make public content framing an abusive relationship as cute/ fluffy, ok. i won’t get in your way. but don’t you DARE call people sensitive / annoying for calling you out on that behavior.

if you want to publicly make things romanticizing something problematic, you can not get upset when you rightfully get backlash

this isn’t even specifically about be more chill for once, moreso about an argument that i had with this one girl over talking about how “cute” veronica and JDs relationship is and how she “needs what they have”. but it applies heavily to my views on certain things in the bmc fandom and i WOULD like that to be heard and known

he i coming for us lmao

I love when Mario does this in the 'Promotion' scene.

im reading the DEH novel, and

EVAN???????

I mean, I new he had a squish for Connor, but DAMN THATS A LOT

YEASSSAA

hate hate HATE ITTTT when a fandom (negatively) treats a character the same way other characters in the piece of media do!!!!! I HATE IT!!!!!!!!!!

“ugh Will Roland’s Jeremy is so weird.. why does he randomly start yelling 😭😭🙏… he played him so weird” HEY SO YOURE ACTUALLY JUST LIKE THE POPULAR KIDS IN BMC 😁😁😁😁 /NEG😁😁😁 the WHOLE POINT IS THAT HE TRIED TO CHANGE HIMSELF TO FIT IN!!!!! TO BE NORMAL!!!!!! TO GET PPL TO LIKE HIM!!!!!!! yall are JUST LIKE THE NASTYASS PPL AT MIDDLEBOROUGH WHO MADE JEREMY FEEL THAT WAY 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎 jeremy is SUPPOSED to be weird! 😁 that’s. that’s literally a lot of the message of bmc. be yourself! don’t be ashamed of being weird! WHY ARE YOU SHAMING HIM FOR BEING WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT IF YOU EXPLODED!! also can i just say it hurts me ESPECIALLY as an (most likely) autistic person, knowing that you all only hated on the weird kid once he was intentionally played as autistic. will roland played him that way with influence from actual autistic teens. the traits you hate on him for tend to be autistic traits. it’s BOTHERSOME!!!! let him EMBRACE THE TRAITS THAT MAKE HIM SO ODD!!!!!!!! UGH!!

“constance is just kinda the most boring out of the choir 😕😕 she’s sweet and stuff but idk 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ there’s not a lot that really happens with her story” WHAT IF YOU DISSOLVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT IF YOU WERE OBLITERATED!!!!!!!!!!!!! STOP IT STOP IT!!!! i’ve LITERALLY had someone say this stuff to me. WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT HER IN THE EXACT WAY THAT THE PEOPLE IN HER LIFE DID!!!!!! “nicest girl in town!” ahh… STOP!!!!!! MAYBE YOURE JUST NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO HER STORY BECAUSE YOURE A #loser!!!!!!!!!!! 😕☹️☹️☹️☹️