This Needs To Be Said.

this needs to be said.

im all for calling people out and holding them accountable especially when they do unacceptable things and most everyone has most definitely held elaine accountable. but some of y’all are just being down right DISGUSTING towards her. she’s a human and she made mistakes that she HAS apologized for (whether her apology was good enough or not is not for me to decide) but bullying her and in turn attacking rudy and her relationship as well does absolutely nothing. allow rudy to be happy. she’s not going to “ruin” his career nor would he ever allow her to. he’s a big boy and can most definitely handle himself. whether you admit it or not, he and the cast know elaine better than anyone on the internet does. trust his judgement if nothing else. coming after her job and calling her worthless is so disgusting. she has such a cool job that so many of us would love to have whether you admit it or not. she gets to see a cool side to film making as that’s what she’s passionate about and everyone has to start somewhere. filming a show is a team effort and everyone in the cast and crew is valuable and essential. i understand holding her accountable for her past but also be kind and allow people to show you they’ve changed. if you leave a rude comment on HER social media, she’s 100% allowed to retaliate and defend herself as well as her relationship. she’s defending herself and those she loves like i’m sure many of us would also do in her position. you 100% don’t have to like her and i honesty understand if you don’t, but don’t waste your time talking about someone you don’t like. block her and move on but attacking her, her friends, and boyfriend doesn’t necessarily make you look like any better of a person. words can really stick around and make an imprint on your mind. please choose them wisely and feed your mind with positivity and love. taste your words before you spit them out. she’s human just like all of us..she isn’t immune to hurt. treat others how you’d like to be treated. once again, i completely understand holding people accountable and i’m glad people are holding her accountable but there’s a difference between that and blatantly attacking someone because you dislike them. we all fall short, just please be kind human.

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