Pls They Look So Perfect-
pls they look so perfect-
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there’s a certain type of sexism u only see if u have brothers…even if it’s not stated, it’s always expected for daughters to be a caregiver and do more housework than the boys in the home. and when sons DO step up and do half as much they’re automatically given praise for things we don’t even get a simple thank you for. they’re also given a thousand times more freedom…it’s truly incredible to witness lmao
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source: https://twitter.com/CATB0YCSAN/status/1363065787553095688?s=19
I honestly miss how the kpop fandom used to feel years ago, where almost everybody was a multi, and everyone used to know all the popular jokes. When everyone had an obsession with Ring Ding Dong and the literal goal was to ask people what groups they liked and enjoyed them together??
Like I remember fanwars were those rare things that occurred once every 2 months if unlucky and the most popular posts would be the ones that included a mix of idols from different groups. No one gave a fuck about fighting and we’d make cringey memes together. And those weird trends of believing that IdolA is literally the child of IdolB and IdolC, something about that was so peaceful. Like do you all remember that shitty meme that went like taehyung is the son of baekhyun and daehyun ??? It was so stupid and I miss it with my whole heart because now if you put tae and baekhyun in the same sentence, stans are going to rip each other apart in the comment section. I never got into exo in all these years but boy did I listen to 5 of their songs and enjoyed them sm, and got in that trend of thinking ‘Yehet’ is peak comedy because everyone!!! Enjoyed!!! Nice!! Little!! Memes!!!
Everyone just wanted so many collabs.
We were all so weird and had fun together. I can’t believe I miss seeing people wear those SNSD caps with B.A.P facemasks and Bts sweatshirts and twice bag packs and Shinee shirts. I absolutely miss that mess of a fashion because in the end of the day,, it was so ?? Calm. And it was alright to appreciate everyone.
Of course a hundred things got better and we even understood how to identify hidden toxic issues in our behaviour, in order to support these artists further, but things are so shitty now. People are always fighting. Everyone hates everybody else. We love putting artists against each other. If someone mentions an idea of a cross-group collaboration, there would be 50 people trying to act edgy and just trash said artists. Now we have to read our posts 12 times before posting them in case someone treats it as a fucking open door for insult. It’s just not fun anymore.
And I just KNOW someone is going to reblog this saying “yeah (fandom) causes this shit”. No, shut up, you’re the problem here, people like you cause this shit. The blame isn’t on a certain fandom.
Don't talk about weight loss and diets to your daughter, don't talk about weight loss and diets around your daughter, don't comment on your daughter's weight, don't tell her she has to weigh herself every once in a while, don't ruin your daughter's relationship with food, don't make her feel bad about the way she looks. I'm sorry if diet culture fucked you up but please try to break the cycle instead of perpetuating it. Thanks.