I Think Im A Couple Days Late To Finding Out The Exclusionists Were On Some Bullshit Again But Hi If

i think i’m a couple days late to finding out the exclusionists were on some bullshit again but hi if you don’t think people who are heterosexual and aromantic, and people who are heteroromantic and asexual are queer, unfollow me right now. fuck you.

someone is queer if they aren’t cisgender, heterosexual, and heteroromantic. cishet is three things, not two. stop pretending like sexual and romantic attraction aren’t two incredibly different things. because they are. and guess what? those are going to be different for everyone and mean different things for everyone. for some kissing falls under romantic. for some it falls under sexual. for some it’s not part of either.

and that’s beautiful!!! it’s as nuanced as we are. and that doesn’t make someone any less aromantic or any less asexual. and how someone else identifies doesn’t make you any less queer because how they identify has nothing to do with you.

sincerely, a very sapphicly romantic asexual

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thank you so much for the tag @blushedtrait !! 💕

✦ last song: kick - saint chaos (my tough game battle music, new HSR boss bested me first go rip) ✦ favorite color: any shade of blue green, i'm also very partial to wine reds ✦ currently watching: adventure time! watched fionna and cake thinking it was more like an au and not connected and am now sucked into the ice king lore™ ✦ last movie: (this question giving me some existential dread making me realize i don't watch movies enough to remember the last one) uhhhhh i think?? it was child of kamiari month? ✦ currently reading: nothing oops, the last few book series i read had the worst endings ever and i've yet to get back to reading published works. i still read, just like, fanfic and other non published stories. i would like to read the new graceling triology books though, it is no longer a triology and we love women with agency and men who drink respect women juice (i am a writer i need to read more) ✦ sweet/spicy/savory: a mix of all three! if i had to choose i'd go with spicy, i love me some spicy even if my tolerance is Not Great. however they are all mid on their own and need at least one other to make them perfect. in this essay i will ✦ last thing googled: mundane troubles, one of the new HSR quests. did not want to upset mr ratio man so i looked up the right answers ✦ current obsession: honkai: star rail, my various blorbos, and my bi yearly sims 4 binge is just about to hit i can feel it ✦ currently working on: setting up some new blogs because i wanted a new general one and places to dump more fandom specific things, giffing HSR and genshin, not sucking in elden ring, my sleep schedule, and downloading months of cc i've missed (this is taking me days and i'm at 1000+ and not through my list yet HELP going through and removing what i don't like after will be suffering)

i tag @moonjellysims @lilamausmaus @theosconfessions, but absolutely no pressure!

house smells like tiger balm and nasi goreng

stunning lot by @axiisims, interior + extras by me

I love these poses, thank you @helgatisha 🧡

Lacey's city apartment ༄ 121 Hakim House

Lacey spent way too much time (and money) furnishing her new space, but she was finally happy with it and can start calling it “home.”

Let’s hope the neighbours are welcoming….

Credits to all the amazing cc creators ♡

Someone new is in town....