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I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

I just found the saddest thing ever and I didn’t want to suffer alone.

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how to put a condom on

where to get free birth control

the hymen debunked 

cleaning your vibrators 

how to avoid pressures

signs you may be pregnant

safe guide to anal sex

all about dental dams

disabled sexual resources

what is hiv?

feminist porn

female ejaculation

fisting 101

communication during sex

setting sexual boundaries

bdsm vs abuse

lube during sex

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sex education games

understanding gender

what to do if your nudes were leaked

intersex

sexual consent

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Harry Styles lockscreens pt.2

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

Print-Out Versions

Email me at the address below for the zip folder. Please don’t forget to include who (Louis, Harry) and what (Pre-coloured, or To-be coloured) you want! Email: rustycolouring@outlook.com

Digital Version

Courtesy of my little brother, who put this together (and even added a few cute Easter eggs for you to find). Simply follow the link below to download the zip file. You may encounter an additional ‘run anyway’ dialogue box that we can’t seem to get rid of. But over-riding with ‘run anyway’ should solve it.

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Colouring Pages

And hey, if paper dolls aren’t your thing, my free colouring pages are still also available. I’ve added two new pages that tie in with the above stuff. Simply ask using the same email as above.

Email: rustycolouring@outlook.com

You’re more than welcome to post your creations - I’d love to see what you guys come up with. Feel free to tag me, i track @he-got-the-dagger-tho. And if you have any questions, my inbox is open. Hope you all enjoy. This came together a little later than expected, but I’m so happy to finally get it to you all. Thank you, and happy holidays, love Rusty.

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‪Detente un momento. Mírate a ti misma. Eres humana. Eres hermosa. Y puedes ser algo. Puedes ser todo. No odies porque alguien rompió tu corazón, o porque tus padres se separaron, tu mejor amiga te traicionó, tu padre te golpeó o porque el niño en la calle te llamo gorda, fea, estúpida. No te concentres en las cosas que no puedes controlar. Llora cuando lo necesites. No te sostengas de recuerdos dolorosos. Olvida las cosas que no valen la pena recordarlas. Vive por algo. Vive por ti misma. Enamórate.Desenamórate. Enamórate. Desenamórate. Hazlo una y otra vez hasta que sepas realmente lo que es amar a alguien. Cuestiona las cosas. Dile a la gente como verdaderamente te sientes. Duerme bajo las estrellas. Crea. Imagina. Inspírate. Comparte algo maravilloso. Haz algo hermoso y luego destrúyelo. Conoce gente nueva. Haz el día de alguien. Sigue tus sueños. Vive tu vida en todo su potencial. Solo vive. Deja ir todas esas terribles cosas del pasado y solo vive.

PIENSAS QUE POR ESTUDIAR EN LA UNIVERSIDAD TE HARÁS PROFESIONAL

No serás JAMÁS profesional si siempre llegas tarde a tus compromisos.

No serás JAMÁS profesional si buscas excusas para no presentar tu trabajo a tiempo.

No serás tomado como JAMÁS como profesional Shi EsCrives Ashhii (es estúpido, no lo hagas, no es bonito, es idiota).

La única manera de ser profesional es TOMARTE EN SERIO A TI MISMO.

Deja de subir tus pedas a Facebook.

Deja de fotografía tu comida en Instagram.

Deja de seguir youtubers idiotas.

Deja de creerte salvadora de las focas bebé en Canadá y ordena tu cuarto.

Deja de creerte rebelde por tus jeans desgastados y aprende a planchar la ropa.

Cuando mi abuelo un día me vió con la escoba me la quitó inmediatamente y me sentenció: para ser jefe hay que saber barrer.

Y me encabroné.

Y ahora que lo recuerdo me enojo más porque lo entendí tarde.

Si quieres ser jefe, tendrás que esforzarte más de lo que te cuesta elaborar el resumen en la universidad, no tendrás horario y no podrás quejarte en la dirección pidiendo mayor plazo de entrega.

La pulcritud te hace profesional.

El respeto al tiempo de los demás te hace profesional.

La ética te hace profesional.

La constancia, la disciplina, el pinche sudor de tu frente te hará profesional.

Tu título por sí solo JAMÁS te hará profesional.

Reblog this and money will be entering your life this week

Cierra los ojos, pide un deseo y rebloguea esto.

No olvides desearlo con todas tus fuerzas. Todo con fé es posible.

Porfavor Dios que se cumpla..

Realmente lo necesito :c

(yn) ♥

✨Hoe Tips✨ Skincare Ed.

1. Find products for YOUR specific skin type. Look into ingredients like salicylic acid (for normal/oily skin) or glycolic acid (for dryer/aged skin) and see how they affect your specific skin type. Don’t just do Proactiv or whatever bevause everyone else does it. 2. Kinda goes with no. 1, but look at the ingredients in whatever you’re putting on your face. Labels like “paraben free” are typically better for your skin. Look up ingredients you aren’t sure of, and make sure they aren’t notably corrosive chemicals. 3. Do a swatch test on your wrist or forearm for all skin products before putting them on your face. If the product irritates the skin on your arm, DO NOT put it on your face. 4. Do a mask once a week to really clean out your pores (cheap ones can be found at Target, Walmart, or your local pharmacy). 5. Drink lots of water, and eat fresh fruits. 6. MOISTURIZE DAILY. Even if you have oily skin (there are moisturizers specifically made for oily skin types). Moisturizers with SPF are a bonus for extra protection. 7. Shower/wash your face with lukewarm/cooler water. Hot water can dry out your skin immensely. 8. My skincare routine order: remove makeup, facewash, exfoliator, mask, toner, acne/spot treatment, moisturizer/spf 9. Never ever ever sleep with makeup on 10. Coconut oil and other essential oils can be great for your skin, but they can also clog up pores if you have an oily skintype. Bear that in mind. 11. Try to buy skincare products of the same brand, or at least that have similar ingredients. Mixing the wrong brands/chemicals can cause acid burn on your face (which from personal experience hurts like a bitch and takes a while to heal.) 12. Witch hazel is a fantastic all natural toner 13. For more acne prone skin, try to find a moisturizer with salicylic acid for that extra defense. Clean and clear ($8 at any drugstore) works wonders 14. Don’t pop your pimples ever (but if you do, make sure to only pop the whiteheads) 15. Those tiny black dots on your nose are supposed to be there. They’re pores, not blackheads, and should be cleansed regularly. However, you should still have those little pores on your nose visibly. Stop tryna get rid of them. 15. Touch your face as little as possible 16. Change your pillowcases often, especially if you sleep on your front 17. Every few months, change up the brand of your skincare products. The oils and bacteria on your skin eventually adapt to the products you use, and they stop being as effective 18. Some brands of birth control can actually double to clear up your skin 19. Wash your scalp and hair often, especially if you have acne on your hairline 20. Relax. Skin can be severely affected by extreme stress levels 21. Swap out your heavy foundation for a light BB cream on casual days. BB cream is more protective and moisturizing for your skin, and still offers natural coverage 22. Look for makeup products with SPF. These products can moisturize and protect your skin from sun damage while still keepin ya face beat 23. Always moisturize and prime before putting on makeup, to make it last longer and to keep your pores clear despite layers of foundation, concealer, powder, etc 24. Splash/spray some rose water onto your face before moisturizing. This both tones and hydrates your face to really lock in moisture. 25. Don’t go overboard with the amount of products you put on your face. Sometimes, less is more.

✨Thats all for now hoes enjoy ya clear skin✨

When was the last time you saw this?

for some reason watching this particular clip of him always makes me love him a whole lot more

Dating Tom Holland would include:

A/N: this is way longer than I expected but I ope it’s still good :) feedback is appreciated!!

Tom // You

Him being super touchy in public

Always wanting to hold your hand

Or put his arm around your waist

Or rest his hand on your thigh

Literally anything that includes any kind of physical contact with you

But not in a sexual way

Well sometimes it is in a sexual way ;)

Like teasing you under the table at some kind of formal event

Or when you’re having dinner with your family

You being super mad at him for doing that in front of your parents

“Thomas Stanley Holland!!! What the fuck is wrong with you??”

“I don’t know what you’re talking about, darling”

You getting incredibly sexually frustrated whenever he did that, which usually lead to sex ;)

Sex with him being either quick, rough and loud; or slow, quiet and passionate

But good nevertheless

Marvel movie marathons

You too would be watching Iron Man all cuddled up

And Tom would be constantly talking about how he knows RDJ

“Tom, I swear to God. Shut the fuck up.”

Tess joining your movie marathon

Or Harrison

Tom and you pretending to be annoyed by the fact that Haz was there

But actually not minding because you two love him to the moon and back

The three of you being absolutely inseparable

As well as Tom’s siblings and you

And the SM:H cast and you

Basically everyone in Tom’s life adores you

Especially Tom

Him literally staring at you in awe every time you do anything

Anything

You could literally be making his sugary tea

And he would be staring at you like you were an angel

“What’s wrong?” You’d ask, turning to look at him

“Nothing’s wrong, darling.”

“Then why are you looking at me like that?”

“It’s just… How the hell do you manage to look so perfect all the time?”

You’d roll your eyes. “Like you’re one to say that”

This happening at least once a day

Which usually lead to the two of you going on and on about how much you love each other

Harrison, Jacob and Harry being totally sick of you two.

“We get it guys. You love each other. Can we move on before I throw up?”

You two being all over twitter, facebook, instagram or any kind of social media as #couplegoals

for weeks

Tom’s fans absolutely adoring you

Because you make Tom happy and that’s all they care about

Hearing his morning voice for the first time after your first night together when you to visit him while on tour

Like you’d both be laying in bed in the morning,and you’d be looking at him while he slept

Thinking about how much you love him especially after last night ;)

“Stop staring at me. It’s creepy.”

You having at least three mental orgasms after hearing his raspy morning voice.

“Shut up, Stanley.”

He’d immediately open his eyes and rolling over till he was on top of you.

“Don’t call me that.”

He would say that in a really dominant tone, and he’d still have morning voice

So let’s just say you’d be pretty turned on

So you decided to tease him a little

“Or what?”

“You don’t want to find out, love.”

You’d both have teasing little smirks on your face

“Oh, I think I do, Stanley”

Hot, needy, loud morning sex!!!!!!!!

Harrison banging on your bedroom wall

“Oh, bloody hell!!! It’s nine in the morning, stop shagging, for fuck’s sake!!”

Both of you bursting out in laughter

Resting your head on his chest and wrapping your arms around his waist when you’re done

Him kissing the top of your head and holding you as close to him as possible

“I love you so much, it’s insane”

“I love you too, Stanley.”

He’s killing me omg!

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And Baby Makes Three | Part 5

…40 Weeks 3 Days…

Mini Dun was beyond stubborn. Your due date had come and gone and you were still pregnant and despite Josh being there. Josh doing whatever you ask of him, you’re beyond miserable and uncomfortable. 

“Josh,” you groaned as you paced around the apartment. Sitting was uncomfortable, made your back hurt. But walking around wasn’t any more comfortable really.

“I know, Y/N,” Josh murmured coming up behind you and wrapping his arms around your waist. “She’ll come when she’s ready.” It wasn’t a comfort to you, but you appreciated that he tried. 

You sucked in a deep breath, eyes falling closed as he held you. You were exhausted and more than ready to have your daughter in your arms. 

——-Two Days Later——

It was long after your complaining that you went into labor. It was a long, painful process, but at the end with the birth of your daughter, the pain didn’t matter at all. All that mattered was the tiny bundle laying on your chest. 

You cried the first time Josh held your daughter in his arms after she was born. He cried too. Tears ran down both your cheeks because something about having the baby there in your arms made the fact that you were parents even more real. 

“Addison Grace,” you whispered a couple of hours later, after the two of you finally settled on a name for your daughter. You ran your fingers over the top of her head lightly, through her soft, light hair. You couldn’t get enough of touching her. Couldn’t get enough of watching your husband hold her. 

“She’s perfect, Y/N. Just like you,” Josh said softly, brown eyes full of love when he looked up from your daughter and met your eyes. 

“More than perfect,” you whispered. 

The End

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Their looks at the moment of realizing that they have just sing their last song as a group (til now) and the hug. 

160: He’s asked about your depression in an interview.

Contains references to depression and other mental health illnesses.

Harry: He braces himself, knowing the question is coming. Your mental health illnesses have been made publicly aware ever since your suicide attempt and following a short admission to a clinic. “There’s no way to describe the feelings that either of us have on a daily basis. Some days are good, great even. There’s days where she can get up from bed and she feels like she can conquer the world and my heart just bursts with happiness when I see her smile and how genuinely happy she is. At the same time, it’s scary, because I know that with that happiness, sooner or later, there’ll be a setback. Those days are terrifying, absolutely terrifying. When I can, I’m there with her whilst she’s battling those inner demons. She hides away from the world, as if her duvet is the only thing that’s going to protect her and keep her safe. Trying to drag her out of bed for even the most simplest of tasks is a challenge. There’s days where I bathe her and I physically have to feed her myself. She can barely bring herself to watch her favourite movie or read her favourite book, but at least I’m there with her. Obviously there’s only so many times I can phone into work and tell them I can’t be there so there are days that I have to leave her alone. Those are the worst; not knowing what I’m coming home to. Even at work, my mind’s focused on my girl and I pray every second of the day that she hasn’t picked up that blade, or downed those sleeping pills, and that she’s remembering to eat here and there. It’s a very scary illness, but we’re getting there. I love her, and I can’t lose her.”

Liam: Each interview was the same, constantly being asked about his upcoming solo album and then the inevitable question would come about your depression and he wanted to roll his eyes because it had nothing to do with anyone else other than the two of you. “I’m not going to go into detail and glorify it or romanticise it in anyway. There’s far too much of that on social media, you know? Like having a boyfriend to kiss your scars and having a boyfriend to rely on and stuff, with him being a cure to your illness. Life doesn’t work like that. You fall in love with the person, and then accept the depression or other mental health illness. Yes, I love her and her depression is just a part of her and we have both learned to accept this illness in our relationship. There are times when it’s physically and emotionally draining, for both of us. And as for curing her illness? I can’t cure it, I wish I could. I can help make things better, but even then, even on the best day together, that depression comes creeping back and it does take a toll on us. It’s just important to remember it’s an illness and she can’t help it, you know? Luckily, her health team are incredible and they’re around 24/7 for both of us so that provides us with a lot of support. With the counselling and her medication, as well as having that supportive team and family and friends, we are getting there and she is getting better, but it will always be there. But that doesn’t mean she isn’t strong. She’s the strongest person I know.”

Louis: Battling your depression and eating disorder was hard enough, let alone being in the public eye where everyone could see the effects of your issues regarding food. Tabloids would print headlines focussing on your weight so when Louis was invited on a chat show, he knew he would be asked about your mental health illness, and you had requested he be truthful if the topic arose; you felt it was only fair the fans should know the truth and you wanted to help others in the same situation to know they are not alone. He shuffles his feet nervously as soon as it’s mentioned, but he discusses the issues, completely unrehearsed. “The depression and eating disorder go hand in hand. It’s something she’s battled since her teens and there’s times it gets better and she gets to that stage of recovery but there’s usually going to be a relapse, and you have to expect that. Obviously we never kept the hospitalisation a few months ago a secret; bravely, she wanted people to know so as she could help them. But that was the worst experience of my life. To see your girlfriend being hospitalised against her will, physically restrained, and tube fed, whilst she’s begging doctors and nurses to stop; it’s painful. I never forget the day she begged me to help her; she promised me she’d get better, but that she needed me to get her out of there and God, I really wanted to. I wanted nothing more than to take her home and for it to just be us two but I can’t get her better. Then the depression kicks in again and she has dreadful thoughts; at one point, she wanted to be left to die, and that was terrifying. And then again, it’s a vicious circle. The more depressed she becomes, the less she eats and she relapses again. It’s horrible, but with the doctors help, and mine, she’s getting there. She’s a very strong girl and she’s going to kick this illnesses backside.”

Niall: With his knee bouncing and his palms sweating, he knows you’re going to be a topic tonight on this chat show and he knows he has to be honest, without letting on too much. “Erm” he begins nervously. “It’s a bit of a touchy subject. Depression and other mental health illnesses are quite taboo subjects anyway. Not enough people talk about them and to have someone close to you experience one so personally, it’s made me realise that people need to be more aware and talk about it. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. (Y/N)’s depression affects both of us, I’m not going to lie. It’s hard for her having to live through it and it’s hard for me watching her go through it every day. I just wish I could take it all away from her. A girl so young, especially my girlfriend, telling me she wants to die is the worst thing you can experience. The medication helps a little, it’s treatable, but it’s not a curable illness. No matter how good a day is, depression is just a big, black cloud that hovers over you, and you might wait thirty seconds for the rain, or you could wait a few days, but you know it’s going to happen at some point, and you think you might be able to stop it but you can’t. There’s literally nothing I can do. Being away recording and performing at gigs is very difficult because she’s always at the forefront of my mind. The guys and her family and friends are pretty great and visiting her when I’m not around, so as she doesn’t have the chance to get lonely and have too many bad thoughts, but it doesn’t stop me worrying. She’s strong, sometimes I think she’s stronger than I give her credit for but it’s always eating away at ya.”

Zayn: He’s asked quickly about his own anxiety issues before performing to a public audience before the interviewer tries to uncover information about your publicly known depression. “I mean, you can’t really compare the two” Zayn begins. “Depression and anxiety can go hand in hand, and my anxiety is a massive nervous thing before performing, which is quite a natural thing. My girlfriend has depression and that means relying on pills just to get through the day. And she’s existing, but she’s not actually living. Her depression holds her back so much because she’ll take comfort indoors and lock herself inside all day and won’t fulfil any dreams because it’s like the depression takes over her body. Her mind doesn’t care. And that’s horrible to witness because she’s such a young girl with such ambition. This illness has come in between her education, work, and social life and makes situations very difficult for us both. I’m with her whenever I can be, but obviously work commitments stop me being there for her 24/7 and that is agonising. Whether I’m away from her for five minutes of five hours, it never gets easier for me to leave her alone. The difference between depression and anxiety is that with depression, you literally don’t care about anything, whereas anxiety, you care about everything and overanalyse everything. Some mornings are a struggle for her to even get out of bed. It’s like she doesn’t care about herself at all, and that’s terrifying. It’s something that nobody should ever have to go through.”