Any Mutuals Wanna Make Out Aggressively And Dry Hump?

Any mutuals wanna make out aggressively and dry hump? 🥺

Here is a little piece of advice to the ladies of Tumblr from a girl who has seen it all:

If you find yourself stalking a guy's Tumblr, enthralled with the images he paints in your head of what he would do to you, ask yourself this before you ever hit the DM button or respond.

Would I be okay if I wasn't the only one with his attention?

Am I willing to accept that he might only be in this to get my nudes and never hear from him again?

Is this person safe and genuine?

Why am I honestly at this point? Do I seek attention, mutual attraction, or something else?

Am I taking proper precautions to ensure that I'm not only safe online but that I'll be safe with them?

What am I hoping to get from this interaction?

What are my boundaries and limits for what I am willing to do with this person? Write them down to remember what you set limits on when you're caught up in the moment.

There are a lot of really crappy guys and a lot of creeps out there, ladies. Do yourself a favor and think before you hit respond or get in his inbox.

Someone's Tumblr is the picture they paint and may not accurately reflect the kind of person they are. People have gotten really good at hiding their true identity here, where they can hide behind a username and anonymous photo.

While there are some really amazing people I have been so fortunate to meet here and people who will be in my life, ideally forever, don't get so distracted by the idea of someone that you forget about what you want and deserve.

gender things.

sometimes i wonder if i'm actually genderfluid. sometimes i wonder if i'm really just a girl who is so afraid of being a girl that i needed to try every other identity just to make sure. and i know it's okay to detransition. i know it's okay to change your mind. i know i would fully support anyone who had been through my situation and came out on the other side and said "yknow what, i don't think this is me." i think i just put too much pressure on myself. it's like i think it's all on me to challenge the people who say "it's just a phase" and "you'll grow out of it." but it isn't. it's not all on me. i'm allowed to change my mind just like anyone else. i don't know. i really need to talk about this in therapy lmao.

hey black trans women i love you with all my heart forever

should I be a slut about it? probably.