Desperately Want To Have A Butch Bend Me Over A Desk And Press Against Me So That I Can Feel The Strap

desperately want to have a butch bend me over a desk and press against me so that i can feel the strap that's tucked into their pants :((

Here is a little piece of advice to the ladies of Tumblr from a girl who has seen it all:

If you find yourself stalking a guy's Tumblr, enthralled with the images he paints in your head of what he would do to you, ask yourself this before you ever hit the DM button or respond.

Would I be okay if I wasn't the only one with his attention?

Am I willing to accept that he might only be in this to get my nudes and never hear from him again?

Is this person safe and genuine?

Why am I honestly at this point? Do I seek attention, mutual attraction, or something else?

Am I taking proper precautions to ensure that I'm not only safe online but that I'll be safe with them?

What am I hoping to get from this interaction?

What are my boundaries and limits for what I am willing to do with this person? Write them down to remember what you set limits on when you're caught up in the moment.

There are a lot of really crappy guys and a lot of creeps out there, ladies. Do yourself a favor and think before you hit respond or get in his inbox.

Someone's Tumblr is the picture they paint and may not accurately reflect the kind of person they are. People have gotten really good at hiding their true identity here, where they can hide behind a username and anonymous photo.

While there are some really amazing people I have been so fortunate to meet here and people who will be in my life, ideally forever, don't get so distracted by the idea of someone that you forget about what you want and deserve.

Spirit, George Roux (1885)

Having a breeding kink as a lesbian who's definitely NOT in a position to raise a child is great because I can beg for the strap and then oh no it didn't take :((((((( guess we'll have to try again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again 😇

just as you don’t owe sex to anyone, you also don’t owe a romantic relationship to anyone either.

you’re not obligated to have a romantic relationship with someone just because they do nice things for you.

you’re not obligated to have a romantic relationship with someone just because you’ve had sex with them.

you’re not obligated to have a romantic relationship with someone just because they have romantic feelings for you.

you are not obligated to have a romantic relationship with anyone you do not want to have a romantic relationship with, no matter what your reasons are. you don’t owe anyone a fuck and you don’t owe anyone a date. consent and boundaries matter not just when it comes to sex but also to romance. you’re not obligated to be romantically involved with someone—even with sex not a factor—if you don’t want to be.