Just Want It To Be Known That I Came Out As He/they BEFORE Elliot, Not After. Its Important To Me That

Just want it to be known that I came out as He/they BEFORE Elliot, not after. It’s important to me that this is known

a lot of y’all out here making posts about how much you support enbies but will invalidate them if they don’t fit the mold.

the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a goblincore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.

let me clarify, if you fit this mold as a nonbinary person, you’re valid and you’re nonbinary. i’m not saying you aren’t.

i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.

nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.

let nonbinary people exist the way they do.

stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.

if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.

- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic bisexual nonbinary person who uses neogenders and has she/her/he/him/cat/cats/nya/nyas pronouns

terfs/gender critical people and transmeds/truscum, don’t even BREATHE near this post.

nonbinary people can add on but binary trans ppl and cis people should only spread.

YES I SAY I’M GENDERFLUID BUT HAVE Y’ALL CONSIDERED I’M ACTUALLY A BUNCH OF FROGS STUFFED IN A SACK???

Alright, I haven't seen much of anything with Elliot Page in it, but I've pretty much always been aware of and followed any articles that mention them, and when I saw the article headline today, I got so happy, I am so incredibly proud of him, coming out in any manor is an incredible task and can be overwhelmingly difficult, I can't imagine doing it it the public eye, and with the amount of dignity said letter produced, thank you for being so brave and for being so honest with us, Elliot

All of the he/theys all of the sudden:

The amount of nitpicking and infighting in the lgbt community is so fucking dumb to me. Yes there’s nuance and things to be aware of but my GOD can y’all stop being angry all the time at every single thing. The cishets want our rights stripped away and instead of unity y’all are at each other’s throats all the fucking time and it’s exhausting. Drink a milkshake and like do some yoga or something.