[160420] Show Champion - Taeil

[160420] Show Champion - Taeil 

THE SCIENCE SIDE OF TUMBLR PLEASE EXPLAIN

how is this

and THIS

THE SAME PERSON???!!! 

Taeil feat. High note and Jawline pt. 2

This goes for all idols but in this sepcific case I’m a talk about Taeyong. Let’s begin with the name calling. First off, I am going to assume that everyone on here is above the age of eight, so with that ALONE there should be no name calling here. Like “scamyeon”??? Are. You. Kidding? Kimbapp be keeing me!

“Leaving someone out on purpose.” Now I am not the hugest fan pf Taeyong, but you BEST BELIEVE I would have done the fan chant when his part came in the performance. As a performer myself, I know that ppl need that applause to kind of keep them going through the perfomrance. Do you know how detrimental that could be to his self esteem? Being silent on his part like that? How would you feel if you were on stage working your butt off for FANS to have none other than the FANS destroy you with silence?

“Spreading rumors about someone.” Okay, so yes, Taeyong did do some pretty stupid things in the past, so it isn’t a rumor. But seriously why do people keep bringing it up??

Let me break it down for you:

Taeyong was 14. Freaking FOURTEEN in freaking MIDDLE SCHOOL. For those of y'all who are sixteen and older, y'all remeber middle school, and how eVERYONE acted a fool, and how EVERYONE thought they were all that, and how EVERYONE was going through some type of crap that went along with puberty which caused them to do some stupid stuff. Y'all remember when you began high school and woke up and learned how to act. Y'all remember when you became more grounded at age 17/18/college.

So why. LORD GOD TELL ME WHY. Is Taeyong so different? I knew some people who did things even MORE stupid than Taeyong, so like PLEASE GIVE HIM A BREAK! How would you feel if no one wanted to be friends with you in college cuz you were acting a fool in middle school? You would feel pretty crappy right?

And have you ever thought that maybe the reason why Taeyong scammed people and was a bully is because he HIMSELF might have self-esteem problems? Have y'all ever thought of that? So what logic. PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME WHAT LOGIC! Makes y'all think that harassing him will make his issues go away? Huh? You have seen the videos. He ain’t too thrilled. And what if, because of all the hating fans, he takes out his frustration out on the members? It’s called displacement, and it’s a very common coping mechanism in response situations that are too painful for humans to handle.

You know what it is? I think I know what it is. I read a book in psychology class about the dehumanization of “role model people” (for lack of a better word) by those who look up to them. Y'all don’t realize it, but we actually dehumanize kpop idols. We expect them to be perfect on the inside and outside. And if they are not perfect, we bash them and mold them into the perfect toys we idealize them to be. Humans are FAR from perfect, so the fact that we expect these idols to be perfect means that we are dehumanizing them. We also learned in psychology that the “role model person” can actually be driven to insanity because of the pressure of those looking up to them. That, to me, actually goes WAY beyong bullying.

I am actually really worried about Taeyong’s mental health. Who knows what all of this stress is doing to him.

And if any of you are threatening Taeyong, you might want to rethink your life.

Exo shirtless….

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