I Offer You All This As Am Offering Since I Keep Disappearing

I offer you all this as am offering since I keep disappearing

I got dubbed the con parent at 16 due to having my licence and always having food and water for my friends when we went to cons and well I've never stopped taking food and water incase they ever need it. But please be careful in fandoms guys online or at conventions.

here is my one bit of wisdom as a 32 year old with no interest in being a "fandom elder" or "community mom" or whatever -

if someone a little older in your friend group takes care of things and has good advice to offer and whatever, and you all sometimes joke abt them being the mom friend, that's fine and normal

if someone self declares themselves as the mom friend, and begins to act like that is a role with actual authority, Fucking Run

Crys

It's December, why!

ADHD time blindness be like "oh, today is the 30th? that's fine, December is still next month, that's forever away!

...what do you mean tommorrow?"

If you know what I'm thinking you know. It's a truma response to some and a meme to others

i recently noticed that @ jetblackcode created a really interesting tool that lets you see your tumblr stats, one of which is a comparison between the number of notes you've gotten on all your posts to the entire userbase! so, i figured a fun reblog game would be to put in your blog and tag which color you got:

i've colored the buckets on the histogram so that it's easier to tell where you landed on the graph rather than just using numbers ^_^

Putting powdered sugar on the post below