Nobody Talks About How Ugly Taking Care Of Yourself Can Be

nobody talks about how ugly taking care of yourself can be

yes, sometimes it’s taking a warm bath and texting memes to friends and keeping an aesthetically pretty journal.

sometimes it’s crying silently on your couch at 3am, hugging yourself and reminding yourself that you’re a good person.

self care is not always ‘aesthetic’ and cute…and that’s ok. don’t be embarrassed, just do what you need to do.

A man who really wants you will move heaven and earth to be with you. You won’t have to do anything.

LIZZO Rolling Stone Magazine / 2020 › ph. David LaChapelle

I personally find it disgusting that you cater only to black readers😕 it’s not fair to other readers at all

Girl I- what the fuck is wrong with y’all ( this isn’t the first ask I’ve gotten that has the same context) ? Huh ? I personally don’t give a fuck how you feel😐 you inconsiderate spoiled fucking brat. Do you know how many fics that I’ve read that only cater to yt reader ? There are so many fics from you to choose from so why tf does mine matter to you ? {Do you ever have to type x yt!reader into your search bar ? I don’t fucking think so} Is it because my writing’s that good to the point where you try to coax me into writing yt reader ? Honey I understand the world bends and caters to your needs but I fucking don’t ; my writing is for black women, poc , and any one else who wants to read it ok sweet pea? Gtfo of my ask with that nasty ass spirit you have ok. I AM NOT A YT WOMAN THEREFORE IM NOT COMFORTABLE WROTING YT READER SORRY NOT SORRY

my preferred pronouns are babygirl & princess

genuinely moved by this clip of pingu being comforted during a panic attack