Hey Why Is It Even Considered An Odd Or Bad Thing That Narcissists Need The Ego Boosts And Shit. When

hey why is it even considered an odd or bad thing that narcissists need the ego boosts and shit. when every neurotypical ever is like "do i look good in this?" and youre supposed to say yes and if you dont they get mad. like everyone needs the ego boosts. everyone needs praise and someone to tell them theyre good. why. is it demonized when its npd. (i know why) why is it only bad when we need and crave and thrive on extra positive attention and praise.

NPD culture is DESPISING having friends and avoiding them as much as possible but also wanting attention desperately

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I feel like people forget that I'm unable to care about things sometimes. They expect so much care from me and I don't have any because my well is bone dry and has been for like... years atp. But I'm forced to give what I don't have because it would literally destroy me if someone's perception of me alters even slightly in a negative direction.

can writers / fandom members please stop uwu-ifying trauma victims?

if your character went through trauma, it doesn’t make them a cute anxious uwu bean. it makes them a trauma victim / survivor. not everyone reacts the same to trauma. yes, people can be anxious or shy after trauma, but that is one of literally countless trauma responses.

characters aren’t gonna forever be defined by their trauma. let them move on and be happy at some point in time. nobody is lingering on their childhood trauma for 100+ years. yes, they can still be affected by it or still think about it every now and then, but not every day is just about their trauma.

you guys will get so pissed when trauma caused narcissistic personality disorder to develop and call that person abusive. you guys will call them abusive, call them slurs, tell them they’re a monster, tell them they only care about themselves.

npd forms off of trauma. it’s not a term you get to throw around at abusive people. npd is a fucking medical disorder and if you call people abusive for having a disorder they couldn’t control, don’t ever talk to me.

if you want to write a character with trauma, do it realistically. trauma victims are not little uwu babies, they can have extreme psychological issues, personality disorders, dissociative disorders or anything else that stems from trauma. they can be more closed off, defensive or act rude to other people because that’s how they learned to survive. they can be more codependent on others and terrified of rejection because they never felt like they had a solid relationship with anybody. they can still be or act normal after going through trauma even if the trauma was life-ruining for somebody else.

stop infantilizing trauma victims.

stop uwu-ifying trauma victims.

acknowledge that other trauma responses exist.

Btw it's not cool to hate on people without empathy..

I don't care what your reasons are,, just cause I don't feel sad when you're sad doesn't mean in suddenly gonna murder your whole family or something

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