Mutuals Get Their Asses Smacked Or Foreheads Kissed. Pick Your Poison.

Mutuals get their asses smacked or foreheads kissed. Pick your poison.

The anon button is not for hate. The anon button is for horny and embarrassed about it.

Boooing 🥰

yknow, i think something to feed into the corruption is the fact that i used to hate the feeling of being full, but now i crave it

i love massaging my full belly and feeling it distended out from me

i love having a filling meal and drinking a ton of water after and feeling all warm and sloshy and feeling so big

its almost comforting because i dont get to eat as often anymore so dinner is basically the only real thing i eat lately, and its always filling and i couldnt love it more

Sure, lazy couch potato cheeseburger and french fry feederism is cool, but hear me out.

Give me feedees who don’t want to be helpless and immobile. Feedees who love their bodies but also love their hobbies. Feedees with interests apart from becoming a sentient couch for someone else to look after. Feedees who cosplay or garden or want to eat a variety of things. Feedees begging their feeders to learn how to make authentic chicken vindaloo, Jamaican style curried goat, maduros and ropa vieja, real pirogi, or llengas tacos. Feedees who work all day and come home and wolf down a table full of food because being productive enhances their appetite like no other. Feedees who absolutely want homemade apple butter and biscuits over egg mcmuffins. Feedees dragging their feeders out to the local U-Pick and eagerly filling their buckets with fresh summer berries and going “youre going to make pie AND cobbler right? and jam? i need that clove and raspberry jam. please.” 

And give me feeders who can’t just cook, they can throw down. Feeders who can make - and cure - their own sausages and bacon. Feeders who bake bread without recipes because the way their feedee eats it’s honestly easier to just bake it than keep going to the store every single day. Feedees who take pride in the variety and quality of what they put into their feedee. Feeders getting mad their feedee bought canned whipped cream because fresh is so much better and of course, there’s whipping cream already in the fridge just get the hand mixer out it takes like 20 seconds what are you doing with the Reddi-Whip. Feeders who make artisan ice cream just for their feedees. Feeders grinning at the U-Pick because they’re going to make pie, cobbler, jam, and summer berry wine for when their feedee wants something special after dinner. Feeders who have enough food skill to run a homestead if they really wanted to.

Give me cozy, loving, interesting, high-variety, quality over quantity style feederism that’s less about size and more about nurturing and the long, drawn-out path between “starting” and “ending.” Give me a leisurely walk in the inbetween instead of a sprint, and live your life in the meantime.

"I'm not a feedist but I believe their beliefs" is becoming more and more of a solid descriptor of my politics. No matter your desire to participate in the kink, it exists at the intersection of sex liberation and fat liberation and it's important to defend if those causes matter to you. The cultural backlash against it comes from not only the reactionary hatred of kink, but of fat people being sexual, of fatness being associated with anything positive or aspirational, and so many other overlapping things.

I think a lot about an AITA i saw where OP, who considers themself a progressive and tolerant person, was worried they were an asshole for regretting accomodating an employees health and mobility needs at work. Because it turned out his employee was a gainer/feedist who was gaining the weight for sexual gratification reasons. OP was questioning if it's ok to pay for health insurance that covers complications from something a person "did to themselves."

A progressive boss would probably know it's not their business if company health insurance covers treatment of an employee's STI. I doubt they would question pulling health insurance of an employee who broke their leg on a skiing trip, or had an allergic reaction to their dinner. When fat people's pleasure starts to cost money though? It's a lot muddier for people to be consistent in their progressive values.

If gainers yuck you out, consider how many people pursue becoming skinnier because it makes them feel sexy.

Gainers and feedists and other ppl who have food and fat-related kinks in my life have been sooooo fundamental to me getting to the place I am with my own body and ED recovery. <3 y'all