Ended Up Waking Up Soaked (I Was Wet When I Went To Bed But Not This Much), Also Did Pushies Right After

Ended up waking up soaked (I was wet when i went to bed but not this much), also did pushies right after waking up

Im thinking about "dating" plushies again oh no.

🧸 Giving a good morning kiss to your "girlfriend" when you wake up, having cuddled with her all night before

🧸 Making sure to say goodby and love you when you leave, telling them exactly where you're going to be.

🧸 Bragging about how cute and attentive they are, politely saying that you're "taken" whenever a grown-up tries to flirt with you

🧸Introducing them to your "parents" (your mommy/daddy in a kink dynamic) nervously, hoping they hit it off

🧸Keeping track of your anniversary to your "true love" and never holding it against them that they never seem to remember your gift.

🧸Having to go through the motions of seduction to be allowed to hump your plushie partner

🧸Performing submissive acts on the stuffie, to show that you understand that THEY wear the pants in your relationship.

Why your partner likes diapers and wants them 24/7

As a non-ABDL person, trying to understand why my successful, grown-up male partner would want to wear and use diapers 24/7 wasn’t immediately obvious. He even struggled to describe his feelings & desires to me. To make it even harder his desires seemed to change from wanting and even trying 24/7 to not wearing diapers at all for a few days.

Overall this really made me confused and worried and is what drove me to go deeper into my research into ABDL and start talking to some other couples.

He’s helped me with some of this article but the goal of it is to help non-ABDL partners understand their ABDL partners desire better. I should also say that this is our viewpoint and although I know from conversations with other couples it’s a very common one, there are obviously lots of different reasons why someone might want to wear diapers which we won’t cover here.

So firstly, you’re not in any way stupid for wondering why your partner might want this, as subjectively wearing diapers has a lot of negatives from potential embarrassment, cost, smells, extra chores in daily life… the list goes on. BUT for your partner some of these negatives might actually be positives and overall the positives far outweigh any negatives for them.

So lets get down to some of the reasons they like diapers:

It gives them comfort

This is a hard one to describe but in the same way that cuddling up to your partner or being given a hug can make you feel at ease, safe and relaxed, diapers can do this for ABDL people. 

I’ve heard the saying that wearing a diaper is like being given a hug constantly. From the moment they’re taped into a diaper many ABDL’s will feel more at ease.

It takes them back to a simpler time

Childhood is something a lot of adults look back on with fond memories where they lived without the stresses and pressures of daily adult life. Wearing and using diapers can really help in reminding them of these good times and adding some of it back into their adult life.

This is especially powerful if you take control of their checks and changes, and incorporate other elements of babying.

If you partner likes to regress and act like a younger age (age play) then diapers are a core ingredient to get them into this headspace.

They like giving up some control

I have no hard evidence to back this up but I feel that ABDL’s over-index on stressful careers and generally being “successful” people. The problem is this often comes with tons of responsibility and control over lots of decisions, so giving up some of this control can be incredibly therapeutic and stress-releasing for them.

I’m confident that all adults can relate to the enjoyment of having some decisions taken away from them, but for most using the toilet wouldn’t be their go-to thought.

We’re big advocates for 24/7 and one of the main reasons for this is I’ve seen first hand how beneficial it was saying to my boyfriend, yes you’ve got a big and important job with lots of stress but from now onwards going to the toilet isn’t going to be something you have to think about.

This year we’ve been experimenting with him giving up more control, by increasing the babying, and honestly the more I take away the better I think it makes him, both professionally and personally.

They like the smells

Being in diapers 24/7 exposes them to a lot of different smells which they can find enjoyable or relaxing.

From being taped up in a fresh diaper with baby powder scent, to the subtle pee smell as they use their diaper, to more pungent odours coming from their filled diaper, to the clean fragrance while being wiped clean. They experience this wide range of smells daily and each brings different feelings from feeling cared for, loved, embarrassed and more.

I myself (like many women) like the smell of babies and over time I’ve found that the smell of baby powder on him and his wet diaper is something that makes me feel content and relaxed too.

The feeling of diapers is great

The soft padding encasing their bum and groin is comforting, and then as they use it it gets warmer and squishy. There is a constant reminder of its presence when sitting or walking, with the subtle sound which accompanies it. Even the feeling of messing their diaper is enjoyable for many ABDL’s due to the unique feeling of it pushing out and then spreading in different directions.

The naughtiness of being punished

Diaper discipline should be more than your partner wants as otherwise it won’t fulfil the feeling of being punished and controlled which they crave.

Like other more mainstream kinks their diapers sometime being uncomfortable, embarrassing and inconvenient is a positive for them and isn’t something you should try avoid.

Many times it’s convenient

Being able to pee and not have to stop playing a game, watching a film or working can be convenient. My boyfriend used to get up in the night to pee which disturbed his sleep and mine, now it goes straight into the diaper.

On long drives and flights it can be a lifesaver wearing a diaper, the seatbelt light going on doesn’t worry you even if you need to pee.

Being changed is amazing

Diaper changes make them feel incredibly loved and cared for. It’s very intimate with some embarrassment but having your loved one wipe you clean and tape you into a fresh diaper is one of the top experiences for your ABDL partner.

Even a diaper check shows them you’re caring for them while also playing into the feeling of giving up control.

Diapers combine great with other kinks

Diapers go hand in hand with a range of other kinks including bondage, chastity, spanking & submission. If they or you are kinky you should try these with diapers involved and all make for good punishments too.

They’re cute

With ABDL and diaper discipline more popular than ever, we’re blessed to have a huge range of amazing adult diapers available. These diapers look cute on your partner and when combined with ABDL clothing it really plays into the lovely feeling of regressing to a younger age.

Why 24/7

So hopefully you can now better understand why your partner loves wearing diapers. But there are a few reasons why the idea of wearing 24/7 and then the reality of it is so appealing:

Accepting this is part of them

Many if not all ABDL’s have experienced or are still experiencing shame about their diaper wearing desires. Switching to or being forced to wear 24/7 helps them accept that this actually is a big part of who they are and they don’t need to pretend otherwise or feel guilty about it.

The loss of control

Accepting they now have to use their diapers instead of the toilet on a long term basis excites and scares them in a good way. They’re losing one of the most grown up privileges.

You accepting them

Encouraging or forcing them to wear 24/7 shows your partner that you fully accept this part of them. One of their biggest fears will be their ABDL desires cause them to lose you, so by being truly supportive it will be a massive weight lifted off their shoulders.

We’re going to do another article on this shortly but because of this I feel there is a big benefit of you forcing them into 24/7 rather than waiting for it to happen naturally.

It stops them having to decide when to wear

Many ABDL’s yoyo on their diaper wearing frequency and struggle to decide when to wear or not. Having this choice taken away from them removes this stress and helps combat the lows when before they’d have felt guilty and stopped wearing for a period.

It becomes part of their daily life

Diaper wearing is often a hidden part of their lives but moving to 24/7 means it needs to become much more normalized. From making sure their wardrobe is now designed around their padded bum to having a large stock of diapers on hand and not hidden is extremely beneficial for your partner.

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I’m sure there are many reasons here we’ve missed so please add them into the comments. Also please watch out for our next long post about when is the right time to switch your partner to 24/7 and how to do it.

Oh my little angel, I don’t think you realize what you’re asking.

I want you to finally be potty trained so we can get you out of pull-ups. You really think you need to go BACK to wearing diapers? And 24/7?

I don’t think you understand what that means. No we aren’t going to play at it. There is no trial run. There isn’t any deciding you don’t like it and going back. If you need diapers, you’ll be in diapers.

Every pair of big girl panties in your drawers? Thrown out. You’ll never need them again. We will fill your dressers with the necessary diapers, inserts, powders and creams.

When you need to pee? You will just go, right then and there. When you need to mess? You will squat down and grunt and push, right there no matter who is around. Doesn’t matter where we are or what we are doing, your only choice is using your diaper. There are no asking for changes. Only babies where diapers 24/7 and daddy decides when you get changed.

You will forget what a toilet is. You’ll get so used to the bulk between your legs, you’ll forget what it’s like to not be in your padded prison.

The only times you’ll be a nakey baby is when you are getting a necessary bath, or those brief interludes when you’re going from a stinky wet diaper to a fresh new one.

Oh no, you absolutely don’t get sex anymore. I don’t want to be inside someone who needs diapers every day and every night. You don’t get that privelege. If you get lucky enough to be allowed to cum, it’ll be in your diaper, and only one that’s used. Orgasms don’t seem like something necessary for a padded princess like yourself.

Everyone will know. Between your waddling, the crinkling, the smell of powder or worse, I don’t see how your new state could be disguised. If you are capable of finding it? Well I’ll also be checking you regardless who might be around. If you’re consistently diapered up I can’t risk you getting a rash. That’s much more important than trying to keep your little predicament a secret.

Also, let’s not forget your room would give away any hints you’re pathetic self didn’t already. The diaper pail, the changing table, all the necessities of a 24/7 baby.

Now, I don’t know what we will do about going to the pool or the beach, I’m not sure the make swimming diapers for a girl your size but I certainly don’t trust a full time pissy pants in a bikini. Maybe that’s one more consequence of this decision.

What? You’re rethinking this? That’s unfortunate because as we’ve been talking about it I really started to feel like maybe you do need to be a little 24/7 diaper dependent baby. Let’s go put on one of the few diapers you DO have and go to the store. We have a lot of shopping to do…

After I absolutely destroyed my little baby last night. I woke her up, pulled on a cute onesie for her and snapped the snaps right over her full diaper. It was so warm and full of weewee and cummies. She was such a little baby last night that I fucked all of her holes wide open and everything just leaked out into her diapey in the morning. I took her out to breakfast and with her puffy eyes and smeared makeup, she looked so brutalized and pathetic. She knew her mommy did this to her but still wanted to hold mama’s hand. I love dumb, pathetic, little subby babies 🥹

Very discreet baby 😎🤣