Hi Tired And Sleepy Selfshippers. Please Imagine Snuggling Up To Your F/o, Them Pulling The Blanket Over

hi tired and sleepy selfshippers. please imagine snuggling up to your f/o, them pulling the blanket over you both and pressing a gentle kiss to your forehead as you drift off to sleep in eachothers arms. very important that you do this

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Your f/o will always see you as enough for them. No matter how insecure you might feel, no matter how many times you've felt like you wouldn't be good with them, they never see it that way. They love the things that make you both similar and different, that's the beauty of their love for you. It doesn't suddenly change because of things like that, it strengthens their appreciation for you. Being yourself, even if different than them, is a good thing.

btw ur f/o would love to take care of you.

come down with something? they'll be there for you in any way that they can. they might not be a great cook, but they'll pick up anything you could ever need or want whenever you want. they might be the type who wants to keep a little space since they dont wanna get sick, but they'll leave little notes around for you or maybe a jacket or similarly comforting article around for you as a little reminder of their love for you. they'll help you pass time, whether that be through watching movies, talking with you, or just being a quiet presence nearby. whatever makes you feel better, they're happy to oblige. they just want you to feel better, even if they might not be a doctor or anything, they hope that they can be of service to ypu anyway.

just not feeling great? that's fine too, everyones got their off moments. (maybe if they're the more flirty type they make a joke about how it must be exhausting being the loveliest person in history.) they're more than happy to be a support for you in any way that they can in this time, whether that means just being there for you or stepping in to help you with things physically. whether you want them to just be by your side and keep you company or for them to help you out with things like showering or eating something, they'll be sure to put their heart into it. they care about you and your happiness means the world to them, they dont mind doing whatever it takes to help you feel a little bit better.

chronic pain or similar? oh yeah, dont even worry about it. even if theyre not super strong, they'll offer to help you around if you absolutely need to, though they might be a little bit of a worrywart about you getting some rest. you want any painkillers? they'll go running through a storm for it. you just want a distraction? they'll happily regale you with some story of theirs to help take your mind off the pain. you just want their company? they're already fitting themselves as close as they can to you. they know that, no matter how much they wish they could, they cant really take the pain away, but theyll do whatever they can to help take your mind off of it and alleviate some of that pain.

Your f/o would not get annoyed, fed up, or see you as a burden for needing reassurance, even if you feel like you are wearing on them for needing constant validation or support.

Your f/o would not get upset at you for needing "basic" remainders that you deserve love, affection, human decency, respect, and protection. They will remind you as many times as you need without hesitation. For you, they would. Your f/o would not be sarcastic or dismissive when you ask for something as simple as permission for getting dessert or anything else. They would not shame you for wanting things. You deserve food, shelter, safety, happiness, affection, love, and warmth. And you deserve small things that are not "basic necessities" like treats, items that make you happy, ect.

You deserve happiness and healing. And your f/o will be there every step of the way to remind you.

☀️[proship dni]

"hey there, i see you're still at it. working hard are we? don't get mad, i love how dedicated you are to your work but have you eaten anything yet? did you stand up and stretch yet? no?"

"darling, please, please get up and eat something. we can't have you starving yourself just so you can finish your work. please don't argue with me dear, you know how much i value your health."

"and you also need to get up and walk. no- no, don't give me those puppy eyes. .. how about this? we can go somewhere to eat, that way we both can spend some time outside together! that's a good idea, right? aha, i knew you'd say yes!"

"come on, let's get dressed so we can get going, i promise we'll be back so you can finish whatever you're working on okay? i promise."

[NO PROSHIP please- this is supposed to be an uplifting message from your f/o to you; romantic, platonic, or familial.]

“I can fix him” I couldn’t fix him and I don’t want to. I think he grew prone to biting and scratching in order to get by in a harsh world, and to me his resilience is part of what makes him so beautifully himself. I could be kind to him, though. I could show him gentleness. I could, slowly but surely, in the same way one earns the trust of a skittish stray cat, convince him that my touch will never come accompanied by pain. That, around me, he can allow himself to be soft. To relax. I could be the one he associates with warmth and safety, the one he longs to be held by after a hard day. I could be his home.