A Gentle Reminder For Selfshippers That Are Currently Feeling Down Alone, Upset, Disappointed, Hollow...

a gentle reminder for selfshippers that are currently feeling down — alone, upset, disappointed, hollow...

— your f/o is always there for you.

they will never, ever, leave you. you may feel like you're failing, like you're not doing enough, like no one cares... but they do. they care about you more than anything, more than everything.

even if they're not someone who can express their feelings well, they will make sure you know they're always ready to be your safe haven. they will hold your hand, rest your head on their shoulder, and just... keep you safe.

if they're shy, they will write to you. they will pour all of their feelings for you, so that you can read it over and over again. or if they're cheerful, they will distract your mind by making you laugh until you're both breathless.

— you and your f/o deserve an alone time where you can just be yourself and enjoy their company.

for ppl with # the trauma . this one’s for you 🔥🔥

imagine your f/o seeing you sleeping or relaxing next to them, maybe after a talk about what happened or a flashback or maybe just randomly, and thinking to themself ‘if i ever meet the person who hurt (s/i), I’m going to jail’

even if ur f/o isn’t violent. they are now/hj/lh

"my f/o wouldn't love me irl..." EXCUSE ME?!?! DO YOU KNOW JUST HOW WRONG YOU ARE?! they told me themself that they love you! they are so in love with you that they can't wait to see you every single day when they/you get home!

pro/comship + neuteral/safe + those who age up minors romantically: please dni and leave my content on my blog, please

dudeee imagine you and your f/o just relaxed and cuddly and they start petting you, stroking your hair, scratching your scalp exactly the way you like it, saying gentle things like “you’re so precious to me darling” and kissing your temples and holding you close, cradling your head like you’re the most delicate thing in the world :(

Guys what r u and ur f/o doing for spring- either now, or if you’re in the northern hemisphere, in march? Feel free to tell me more in the tags/reblogs

(Can be for any kind of f/o!)

Imagine your f/o holding you in their arms while you're facing a panic attack. They stroke your hair, whisper soothing words to you, hug you tightly, and tell you that they are there for you and that you are enough. Your f/o doesn't think any less of you when you're experiencing panic attacks, or any bad moment for that matter, they just want to provide comfort and reassurance until you feel safe and okay again. They love you no matter what happens, and are always there to provide comfort when needed.