Mother F/O & (gender Nonspecific) Child Selfshipper Imagines

Mother F/O & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper imagines

Please take your pick from the following imagines ♡

PLEASE NOTE: you'll see several similarities in this post relating to the imagines I made for the Father f/o & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper imagines post I made since many of what was said there still rings true regarding your Mother f/o but don't worry, there are some distinct differences I made & added ♡!!!!!!!!

If she adopted you, imagine her face lighting up like New Years Eve fireworks the very first time you call her "Ma"/"Mum" etc. She is just so thrilled, so honored to have earned that title from you; maybe she even tears up a bit in front of you or perhaps later when she's alone, overwhelmed with the sense of honor, gratitude, pride, you've given her.

If you only ever call her by her first name, for whatever reason, just know she's still so proud to have such a close bond with you and no, she doesn't mind that you don't call her "Mom" or anything like that! Your comfort matters most!

Think of the way her eyes crinkle, how she smiles, the pride and warmth in her voice whenever she introduces you as her kid. She can't get enough of it, can't get enough of calling you hers- she loves you so much! If she has a phone, you just KNOW you're her wallpaper and if she's just got her wallet in her purse, know your picture is in there ;w; ♡!

Think of your mother f/o telling you she's so, so proud of you after you tell her about how you've overcome a recent struggle in your life; think of her urgently reminding you that she's always there for you if you ever need her. She wants to fix everything for you, and while she knows she can't, that doesn't mean she won't try her hardest to help you when you ask her for it!

If you're currently going through something hard, please think of telling your mother f/o; just clarify what you need from her and she's happy to do it- listen, comfort, offer advice- she's just eager to do what she can for you to make you feel seen and heard, to validate your struggles and to help you overcome them however she can ;--; ♡

If you're a person who menstruates, please know she 100% has got you covered regarding products, medication, treats--- whatever you need to feel as comfortable as you can during this time!! She knows what you're going through and she knows it's rough!!! If she could take away the pain she would but she can't so she's happy to just get you what you need and hold you on the sofa if you want and tell you it's okay to cry it out if that'll make you feel better; she isn't going to judge you, she just wants her kiddo to feel better soon ;w;!!

If you're queer, think of your mother f/o wholeheartedly accepting you as you are, just happy and honored and grateful you trust her enough to come out to her- if you change your pronouns she of course will do her best to use these new ones- it doesn't matter what you identify as now, what matters is that you're still and always will be her kiddo ;w;!!

If you live with your mother f/o, think of all the little moments like...

-her eyes lighting up whenever you come home; she's always so relieved and happy to see you home safe!!!

-imagine her taking care of you while you're under the weather and vice versa ;--;!

-her gently waking you up in the mornings. Maybe she sits beside you and pets your hair as she softly calls out to you and, with a big smile on her face as you wake up, she reaches out and pushes your fringe off your forehead, telling you something like, "morning sleepy head, breakfast is ready." Alternatively: think of waking her up in the morning! Maybe you do the same to her or maybe you lay down beside her and pat her arm; think of her wanting to snuggle with you for five more minutes before you two finally get up for the day ;w; ♡

-think of stealing her favorite cardigan/ hoodie/jacket/jumper when she isn't using it so you can smell her perfume and feel comforted by it when she's not around; imagine her laughter over finding you wearing it, letting you keep it until she inevitably reclaims it :>

-consider helping her fix things up around the house! Even if it's just you bringing her water to stay hydrated, it's still helping and she appreciates you looking after her! If you're capable of fixing things yourself for her, just know she's so grateful to you and your help ;--;!

-catching her asleep on the sofa and putting a blanket over her- only for her to wake up later with her heart warm and full of love and appreciation for you ♡

-overhearing her singing your praises on the phone / while she has friends over- it's hard for her not to bring you up in conversation because you're her whole world and she is always proud and excited to share nice things you've said or done recently!

-if you're into photography, think of getting candid shots of her reading, resting, cooking in the kitchen, etc. and showing her your photography- she's always surprised and pleased you took time to capture a moment of her, touched you found her worthy of making your subject--- if she's into photography, think of her paying the favor back to you, telling you how lovely you look in the picture she shows you!

-imagine surprising her with her favorite coffee/tea in the morning made exactly as she likes it; think of her loving smile and sweet, warm voice as she says "thank you" ♡

-think of brushing/styling her hair for her; she's so touched with how careful you always are when you brush her hair ;--;! If you have hair long enough to be brushed/styled, think of her brushing your hair for you too!! Just as carefully, her voice soft as she praises your hair color and texture, stealing smiles at you in the reflection of the mirror, just so happy to do this simple thing with you ♡

-your mother f/o taking time out of the day to give you affection.

If you enjoy physical affection most, please think of her giving/ asking you for lots of warm hugs, gently patting/rubbing your back, ruffling your hair, playfully poking and teasing/tickling you when you least expect it (if you're okay with that ofc!), giving you kisses on the cheek, the top of your head, your forehead, snuggling with you on the sofa, holding your hand / interlocking arms in public depending on what you'd prefer, etc ♡

If you enjoy verbal affection most, think of her often telling you "I love you", calling you sweet endearments (I'd try to list some but everyone's different, I know each of you have your own preferences lol), telling you she's grateful for you when you do things for her without her asking, her praising you for the effort you put into dressing up any given day, telling you she enjoys getting to spend time with you, etc ♡

If you enjoy both in equal or varying measures then, well, you've a lot to think about :D!

Take a moment to ponder over her hobbies and then consider participating in some of those with her... below are some examples :>

Is your mother f/o into theatre arts / cinema / is she an artist? I just know she'd love to take you to the opera or theatre to enjoy a play / musical / movie with you, especially so y'all can discuss yalls feelings and insights on the themes / messages / physical effects / etc. of the show! She values your opinions and always wants you to feel safe sharing them! As for art, I just know you'd be her wonderful muse and she'd love to teach you how to paint/draw if that is something you wanted!

Perhaps she's into crocheting/sewing/mending etc! It's a vital art form to create new beloved clothing and to upkeep old, precious ones- if you're not into it, please think of sitting close by and chatting or listening to music with her while she works- just know that if you have a book with you, she'd enjoy hearing you read aloud to her! If you are into it or want to learn, she'd be so thrilled to split up projects with you or to teach you what she knows!

Is your mother f/o a collector? If so, think of having lots of fun on the weekends going to thrift shops, antique stores, and garage sales together to search for what she collects! She always appreciates how keen an eye you have for helping her spot what she's looking for and she loves surprising you with little gifts from y'all's searches whenever you take interest in something ♡

Is your mother f/o a gardener? If she is, do you ever help her in the garden with the weeding, sowing, watering, and layout planning? What do you plant together? If gardening isn't your thing, don't worry! You can always just bring her something cold to drink on hot days- that never fails to put a smile on her face!

Is your mother f/o an avid reader? If she is, please think of her wanting to read aloud to you, to tell you the stories she's reading about--- or!! Her wanting you to read aloud to her! Or!! Maybe you two have a book club together!!! How lovely would that be?!??

Does your mother f/o love sports or play any sports? Think of getting cozy on the sofa with tons of snacks on Sunday afternoons or Friday nights to watch the game on TV :D! Is she the type to "talk" to the players? Get really into the game? Or does she sit there quietly and excitedly point out the technicalities of what's going on? If you're on opposite teams, imagine her playfully making bets with you on who will win! If she plays on a team, think of how pumped she gets to win knowing you're at the game rooting for her!!

If you have a shared hobby/interest, by golly, think of your mother f/o excitedly sharing this with you!! She loves sharing this with you, loves growing with you in experience & mastery of this hobby / diving deep into this topic with you!

Think of your mother f/o encouraging you to chase after your goals / interests / dreams! She's happy to sit down with you and plan with you about how you can achieve those; your happiness is her happiness! If you ever change your mind about pursuing something, know she'll understand and that she only cares about you not giving up on something that truly is attainable ;w;

If you're ever scared or anxious about something, just know your mother f/o is ready to hold you and protect you the best she can; a mother's love will conquer anything that threatens her kiddo! She'll always be there to encourage you to try your best to be brave and remind you it's okay to be scared, it's okay to be anxious- just do your best to make it through okay and things will be better- she knows it will because she believes in you ♡

If you have a romantic f/o, just know your mother f/o will do her best to try and get along with them for your sake if she doesn't automatically 'click' with them! The fact that they make you happy is enough for her to like them enough! Alternatively, if your mother f/o and your romantic f/o get along well, think of your mother f/o flustering you on purpose by calling your romantic partner her future kid ;3c

If you have sibling f/os that share your mother f/o, think of her being careful to make time just to spend it with you and you alone so you don't feel ignored or overlooked!!!! She may love you all equally but that doesn't mean she won't do her best to make sure you feel special in her eyes!

Have you thought about going out on the town / leaving the house with your mother f/o yet? If not! Now you should :D! Let me help...

Think about going to the local diner with your mother f/o! Maybe she helps you get dressed up to look your best with her, maybe you both go in your PJs! If you don't mind it, she's always happy to order for you! Maybe she likes to hold your hand or point out the scenery to you to enjoy it together- maybe some people watching! Even if you're grown and have a job of your own, she still insists on paying but gets really soft when you sometimes sneakily beat her to it ♡

Please imagine going grocery shopping with your mother f/o! Maybe you divide the list and conquer, maybe you stick together and tackle one item at a time. Is she the type to sing along to the overhead songs playing? Is she the type to do a little fun ditty of a dance in the aisle???????? do you join her if so 👀???? Or do you get embarrassed and pretend you don't know her :3c? She'll stop after a while don't worry! She just wants to make you smile ♡

Perhaps you go on a little road trip! If so, think of her driving (or letting you drive if you're legal) with a smile on her face as you sing out-loud to the songs on the radio. Maybe y'all have a special playlist of y'all's favorite songs on it!

Planned Mother & kiddo outings!! Maybe it's the museum, maybe dinner, maybe the cinema-- wherever it is, just know she won't let her own worklife make her reschedule this outing with you! She always looks forward to these planned adventures with you and will always, always keep you safe ♡

your f/o(s) noticing you feel / think badly about yourself, proceeding taking your hands in theirs, scooting a little closer and mumbling sweetly about all the things they so love about you.

for ppl with # the trauma . this one’s for you 🔥🔥

imagine your f/o seeing you sleeping or relaxing next to them, maybe after a talk about what happened or a flashback or maybe just randomly, and thinking to themself ‘if i ever meet the person who hurt (s/i), I’m going to jail’

even if ur f/o isn’t violent. they are now/hj/lh

“I can fix him” I couldn’t fix him and I don’t want to. I think he grew prone to biting and scratching in order to get by in a harsh world, and to me his resilience is part of what makes him so beautifully himself. I could be kind to him, though. I could show him gentleness. I could, slowly but surely, in the same way one earns the trust of a skittish stray cat, convince him that my touch will never come accompanied by pain. That, around me, he can allow himself to be soft. To relax. I could be the one he associates with warmth and safety, the one he longs to be held by after a hard day. I could be his home.

btw ur f/o would love to take care of you.

come down with something? they'll be there for you in any way that they can. they might not be a great cook, but they'll pick up anything you could ever need or want whenever you want. they might be the type who wants to keep a little space since they dont wanna get sick, but they'll leave little notes around for you or maybe a jacket or similarly comforting article around for you as a little reminder of their love for you. they'll help you pass time, whether that be through watching movies, talking with you, or just being a quiet presence nearby. whatever makes you feel better, they're happy to oblige. they just want you to feel better, even if they might not be a doctor or anything, they hope that they can be of service to ypu anyway.

just not feeling great? that's fine too, everyones got their off moments. (maybe if they're the more flirty type they make a joke about how it must be exhausting being the loveliest person in history.) they're more than happy to be a support for you in any way that they can in this time, whether that means just being there for you or stepping in to help you with things physically. whether you want them to just be by your side and keep you company or for them to help you out with things like showering or eating something, they'll be sure to put their heart into it. they care about you and your happiness means the world to them, they dont mind doing whatever it takes to help you feel a little bit better.

chronic pain or similar? oh yeah, dont even worry about it. even if theyre not super strong, they'll offer to help you around if you absolutely need to, though they might be a little bit of a worrywart about you getting some rest. you want any painkillers? they'll go running through a storm for it. you just want a distraction? they'll happily regale you with some story of theirs to help take your mind off the pain. you just want their company? they're already fitting themselves as close as they can to you. they know that, no matter how much they wish they could, they cant really take the pain away, but theyll do whatever they can to help take your mind off of it and alleviate some of that pain.

Your f/o would not get annoyed, fed up, or see you as a burden for needing reassurance, even if you feel like you are wearing on them for needing constant validation or support.

Your f/o would not get upset at you for needing "basic" remainders that you deserve love, affection, human decency, respect, and protection. They will remind you as many times as you need without hesitation. For you, they would. Your f/o would not be sarcastic or dismissive when you ask for something as simple as permission for getting dessert or anything else. They would not shame you for wanting things. You deserve food, shelter, safety, happiness, affection, love, and warmth. And you deserve small things that are not "basic necessities" like treats, items that make you happy, ect.

You deserve happiness and healing. And your f/o will be there every step of the way to remind you.

☀️[proship dni]