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Just in case anybody needed to hear this today;

If you’re currently living in a horrible situation- whether that be because of abusive parents, an unsafe house, the environment around you etc and you’re not currently able to leave-

Your F/O would be there for you in an instant.

They’d come and help pack your bags and scoop you up, no questions asked. They’d defend you against any punishments or cruel remarks you might face, too. Just say the word, and they’d take you back to their place and offer you a nice, cozy, safe home full of warm food and all the necessities you need to stay in for however long you’d like.

You don’t ever need to worry about paying them back or staying for too long, your F/O would do anything and everything for you- they just want you to be safe and happy, OK?

it's okay. you're safe right now. your f/o is here to keep you company, to give you anything you need, to be here for you. they can give you a hug, they don't mind if you get tears and snot on their shoulder, or they can bring you whatever you need, you're not a bother to them at all. really, they just want to love you and want you to feel loved. they know how much you love them, and wish so deeply you could love yourself the way they love you. they want only to give you unconditional love and protection. your f/o is here with you to make life a little easier.

Hey!! Hallo!!! Friendly reminder that you fall for your F/Os because they chose you :)

No seriously, your F/O was out there, existing in their dimension, their world, and they found you. Let me tell you, they have never felt this way in their life. They just knew you’re the one. Their love for you is so strong that it transcends worlds and reached your heart. This is why you fell for your F/O - because they fell first.

What? You think your F/O won't love you because of something out of your control? Hold on, I need to call someone. Yeah, Mhm. Mhm. That was your F/O, they said they love you no matter what and to quit blaming yourself for things you have no control over.

[proshippers, kindly dni!]

selfshippers we need to be making more 'marysue' selfinserts. im talking crazy powers im talking loud designs im talking having at least 8 canon characters in love with them. im talking crazy backstory im talking canon-breaking storylines im talking earth shattering plot twist catalysts. like. seriously who is going to stop you the f/o police? yeah ok bud try me ill make them one of my unrequited lovers too.

pr*ship c*mship etc dni.

Father F/O & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper imagines

Please take your pick from the following imagines ♡

If he adopted you, imagine his face lighting up like New Years Eve fireworks the very first time you call him "Dad"/"Pops" etc. He is just so thrilled, so honored to have earned that title from you; maybe he even tears up a bit in front of you or perhaps later when he's alone, overwhelmed with the sense of honor, gratitude, pride, you've given him.

If you only ever call him by his first name, for whatever reason, just know he's still so proud to have such a close bond with you and no, he doesn't mind that you don't call him "Dad" or anything like that! Your comfort matters most!

Think of the way his eyes crinkle, how he smiles, the pride and warmth in his voice whenever he introduces you as his kid. He can't get enough of it, can't get enough of calling you his- he loves you so much! If he has a phone, you just KNOW you're his wallpaper and if he's just got his wallet, know your picture is in there ;w; ♡

Think of your father f/o telling you he's so, so proud of you after you tell him about how you've overcome a recent struggle in your life; think of him urgently reminding you that he's always there for you if you ever need him. He wants to fix everything for you, and while he knows he can't, that doesn't mean he won't try his hardest to help you when you ask him for it!

If you're currently going through something hard, please think of telling your father f/o; just clarify what you need from him and he's happy to do it- listen, comfort, offer advice- he's just eager to do what he can for you to make you feel seen and heard, to validate your struggles and to help you overcome them however he can ;--; ♡

Consider how his voice changes when he talks about you / talks directly to you vs when he talks to other people; how his voice softens / quietens because of you ;w; ♡

If you're a person who menstruates, please know he is 100% that Dad that will happily go out and get whatever products, medication, treats you need to feel as comfortable as you can during this time!! He isn't embarrassed to be seen with anything that will ensure you'll have a better time handling this huge inconvenience/burden on your body!!! If he could take away the pain he would but he can't so hes happy to just get you what you need and hold you on the sofa if you want and tell you it's okay to cry it out if that'll make you feel better; he isn't going to judge you, he just wants his kiddo to feel better soon ;w;!!

If you're queer, think of your father f/o wholeheartedly accepting you as you are, just happy and honored and grateful you trust him enough to come out to him- if you change your pronouns he of course will do his best to use these new ones- it doesn't matter what you identify as now, what matters is that you're still and always will be his kiddo ;w;!!

If you live with your father f/o, think of all the little moments like...

-catching him asleep on the sofa and putting a blanket over him- only for him to wake up later with his heart warm and full of love and appreciation for you ♡

-watching him shave in the bathroom mirror (and maybe helping him do so or!!! Learning how to shave from him if that applies to you!)

-think of stealing his favorite hoodie/jacket/jumper when he isn't using it so you can smell his cologne and feel comforted by it when he's not around; imagine his laughter over finding you wearing it, letting you keep it until he inevitably reclaims it :>

-imagine him taking care of you while you're under the weather and vice versa ;--;!

-consider helping him fix things up around the house! Even if it's just you bringing him water to stay hydrated, it's still helping and he appreciates you looking after him!

-him gently waking you up in the mornings. Maybe he sits beside you and pets your hair as he softly calls out to you and, with a big smile on his face as you wake up, he reaches out and ruffles your hair, telling you something like, "morning sleepy head, breakfast is ready." Alternatively: think of waking him up in the morning! Maybe you do the same to him or maybe you lay down beside him and pat his arm; think of him wanting to snuggle with you for five more minutes before you two finally get up for the day ;w; ♡

-his eyes lighting up whenever you come home; he's always so relieved and happy to see you home safe!!!

-if you're into photography, think of getting candid shots of him reading, resting, cooking in the kitchen, etc. and showing him your photography- he's always surprised and pleased you took time to capture a moment of him, touched you found him worthy of making your subject--- if he's into photography, think of him paying the favor back to you, telling you how lovely you look in the picture he shows you!

-your father f/o taking time out of the day to give you affection.

If you enjoy physical affection most, please think of him giving/ asking you for lots of warm hugs, gently patting/rubbing your back, ruffling your hair, playfully poking and teasing/tickling you when you least expect it (if you're okay with that ofc!), giving you kisses on the cheek, the top of your head, your forehead, snuggling with you on the sofa, holding your hand (or you hold his pinky ;w;) / interlocking arms in public depending on what you'd prefer, etc ♡

If you enjoy verbal affection most, think of him often telling you "I love you", calling you sweet endearments (I'd try to list some but everyone's different, I know each of you have your own preferences lol), telling you he's grateful for you when you do things for him without him asking, him praising you for the effort you put into dressing up any given day, telling you he enjoys getting to spend time with you, etc ♡

If you enjoy both in equal or varying measures then, well, you've a lot to think about :D!

Take a moment to ponder over his hobbies and then consider participating in some of those with him... below are some examples :>

If he's a music listener, think of listening together, maybe singing together along to the songs, not a care in the world! If he plays an instrument, I just know you're his favorite audience! If you also play an instrument, guess what? He'd love to play with you!

Does he play chess or cards? Imagine playing cards with him or better yet, him teaching you how to play! He's proud of you for holding your own against him in a game and yes! Always proud of you for winning when you do!

Is your father a motor head? Think of him teaching you how to fix his car, telling you someday when you're old enough (or lol when he's old enough) it'll be yours so you have to learn how to take care of it. Think of him helping you fix up your first car or bike with you.

Perhaps he's a fisherman! If he is, take time to think of going fishing together. If you don't like to fish, you can still take a book with you to read aloud to your father f/o while he's got his line in the water- I know he'd appreciate you doing that ♡

Maybe he's a cook- if so, I just know he'd enjoy having you in the kitchen assisting him if you'd like or just hanging out to chat while he cooks- he loves your company regardless of whether or not your contributing to what he's doing.

Is your father f/o into theatre arts / cinema / is he an artist? I just know he'd love to take you to the opera or theatre to enjoy a play / musical / movie with you, especially so y'all can discuss yalls feelings and insights on the themes / messages / physical effects / etc. of the show! He values your opinions and always wants you to feel safe sharing them! As for art, I just know you'd be his wonderful muse and he'd love to teach you how to paint/draw if that is something you wanted!

If you have a shared hobby/interest, by golly, think of him excitedly sharing this with you!! He loves sharing this with you, loves growing with you in experience & mastery of this hobby / diving deep into this topic with you!

Think of him encouraging you to chase after your goals / interests / dreams! He's happy to sit down with you and plan with you about how you can achieve those; your happiness is his happiness! If you ever change your mind about pursuing something, know he'll understand and that he only cares about you not giving up on something that truly is attainable ;w;

Think of your father f/o cracking those infamous "dad jokes" on you! Even if you don't like them, just know that he apprecites you pretending to think they're funny on his behalf :>!

If you're ever scared or anxious about something, just know your father is ready to hold you and protect you the best he can; he'll always be there to encourage you to try your best to be brave and remind you it's okay to be scared, it's okay to be anxious- just do your best to make it through okay and things will be better- he knows it will because he believes in you ♡

If you have a romantic f/o, just know your father f/o will do his best to try and get along with them for your sake if he doesn't automatically 'click' with them! The fact that they make you happy is enough for him to like them enough! Alternatively, if your father f/o and your romantic f/o get along well, think of your father f/o flustering you on purpose by calling your romantic partner his future kid ;3c

If you have sibling f/os that share your father f/o, think of him being careful to make time just to spend it with you and you alone so you don't feel ignored or overlooked!!!! He may love you all equally but that doesn't mean he won't do his best to make sure you feel special in his eyes!

Have you thought about going out on the town / leaving the house with your father f/o yet? If not! Now you should :D! Let me help...

Think about going to the local diner with your father f/o! If you dont mind it, he's always happy to order for you! Maybe he wads up the paper coverings for the straws to playfully flick it at you or to engage you in a game of tabletop soccer! Even if you're grown and have a job of your own, he still insists on paying but gets really soft when you sometimes sneakily beat him to it ♡

Please imagine going grocery shopping with your father f/o! Maybe you divide the list and conquer, maybe you stick together and tackle one item at a time. Is he the type to sing along to the overhead songs playing? Is he the type to do a little fun ditty of a dance in the aisle???????? do you join him if so 👀???? Or do you get embarrassed and pretend you don't know him :3c? He'll stop after a while don't worry! He just wants to make you smile ♡

Perhaps you go on a little road trip! If so, think of him driving (or letting you drive if you're legal) with a smile on his face as you sing out-loud to the songs on the radio. Maybe y'all have a special playlist of y'all's favorite songs on it!

Planned Father & kiddo outings!! Maybe it's the museum, maybe dinner, maybe the cinema-- wherever it is, just know he won't let his own worklife make him reschedule this outing with you! He always looks forward to these planned adventures with you and will always, always keep you safe ♡

You leave a place of high stress and are upset or overwhelmed by what occured there and decide to visit your parental F/O(s). They are of course happy to see you but notice something is wrong as you sit together.

They will listen to you vent or rant all you need and won't disregard your feelings. They can hug you if you are comfortable or talk about other topics as distraction. They may bring up something you liked to do as a child and if you want they can do that thing with you again. They may read to you, watch various shows with you or even play little games with you

They'll do anything to help. They'll always love you.

Your f/o would not get annoyed, fed up, or see you as a burden for needing reassurance, even if you feel like you are wearing on them for needing constant validation or support.

Your f/o would not get upset at you for needing "basic" remainders that you deserve love, affection, human decency, respect, and protection. They will remind you as many times as you need without hesitation. For you, they would. Your f/o would not be sarcastic or dismissive when you ask for something as simple as permission for getting dessert or anything else. They would not shame you for wanting things. You deserve food, shelter, safety, happiness, affection, love, and warmth. And you deserve small things that are not "basic necessities" like treats, items that make you happy, ect.

You deserve happiness and healing. And your f/o will be there every step of the way to remind you.

☀️[proship dni]

Parents Supporting Their LGBT Kids During Pride Month.

don’t think i can call it a hyperfixation anymore fam im afraid im just long term insane about this piece of media

parental f/o Imagines but for like. found family trope . because there’s not enough of those ??

☆ someone assuming they’re your mom/dad and them not correcting it

☆ you making them something for mother/father’s day and it making them so happy

☆ if they have any bio kids, the kids calling you their older sibling without thinking twice

☆ another character saying ‘you’re just like your father/mother’ after you do something

☆ them teaching you about their hobbies/job/ect and being so happy you’re interested and want to learn

☆ them saying they’re proud of you *insert crying cat emoji here*

☆ them being protective and making sure your romantic f/o/f/os is treating you right

☆ if you’re having a hard/low spoons day them looking after you and making sure you’re taken care of

your f/o would love you in every universe btw

This is your sign to indulge and begin that project, draw the art piece, begin the fanfic, or start that edit of your f/o. Throw in an OC, your own self insert/yourself, whichever works for you. Allow yourself to enjoy the feeling of appreciating and loving your f/o without shame. You deserve to.

self shippers should remove themselves from the chains that is the fear of judgement. like my beautiful bestie, you are not evil for having multiple f/os because you're not cheating. you are not selfish for having boundaries for not wanting to share f/os. no one is going to hate you for having obscene f/os that no one knows. no one is going to hate you for only having f/os of the most popular anime characters. relax a bit homie. its gonna be aight.

and if they do hate you? man. who cares. do what makes you happy. its your life and you deserve to have harmless fun.

A Note to my Followers

To the followers who don’t say much: having you there still means a lot. Even if you never send in an ask or anything, I don’t care. I appreciate that you still follow me anyways. And it’s nice to see you there liking and reblogging my stuff.

To the followers who buzz like bees: When you reblog 17 of my posts or send my multiple asks in a row, you aren’t being irritating. You’re making me feel like I’m doing something right as a blogger. Thank you.

To the shy anons: I don’t know if you follow me or not, but regardless of why you sent in that ask, I’m just happy to be hearing from you. You aren’t a bother. You make me feel awesome.

To all of my followers whoever you are: Thank you for hitting that button. Thank you for sticking with me. If you ever need a shoulder to cry on or someone to celebrate with you, I’m here for you! If you ever need something explained, I’ll answer as best I can.

Thank you all of you.

you deserve your f/o's love. right now. as is. you do not have to change for it and you do not have to suffer for it, you do not have to do anything to earn it. not now. not later. not ever. there are no tricks and there is not a catch. it's not too good to be true. your f/o loves you. you deserve it, you will always deserve it. and you can just enjoy it.

I've probably already talked about this, but I think it's so fun to have characters you don't selfship with have little crushes on your self insert

saw some distressing Reddit stories about people trapped in dysfunctional family problems and had to get it out

Imagine being trapped in a situation involving a shitty family (can be anything you could think of) and, having no one else left to turn to (parents and/or relatives turning friends against you, other adults failing you when you needed them, etc.), ending with you confiding in the only person left you could trust...Parental F/O. They held onto your every word as you vented to them about your predicament and how you felt like you couldn't stay there another minute but had no way out.

"(Y/N), I'm so sorry you got trapped in this," they said once you finished. "But I swear to God I'm going to get you out of there, one way or another. Call me if anything else ever happens there, and I'll come by and get you, no questions asked."

One night, when your own 'family' (parents, relatives, etc.) ended up taking things too far, when things got too much for you to handle, you did as (Parental F/O) told you...and they got here, just like they had promised, no questions asked. They ignored your 'family' who are demanding to know who they are and tore them a new one for how they had been treating you as you packed your belongings, documents, and anything else you could take with you.

"One day, you'll end up alone, and you'll wonder why the child you had failed won't want anything to do with you anymore!" Those words were the last things (Parental F/O) yelled to your 'family' before they left with you.

In one moment, when all felt lost, (Parental F/O) brought you back from the darkness.

No questions asked.

i hope i can be this 2 some1

to those who aren’t the most confident in your body: your f/o adores you and loves every part of you! every crease, stretch mark, wrinkle, birthmark, everything about you that makes you unique. it’s not easy being uncomfortable in your body, and your f/o understands that. they don’t try to change you or make you something your not, the thought would never cross their mind. they want you to be happy. whether that’s staying how you are, or trying to change yourself, they see you as perfect regardless. they will love you until the end of time, so try not to stress too much about your appearance 🧡

your F/Os despise your abusive parents. they adore you and are proud of you, no matter what your parents tell you.

Imagine your F/O running a bath for you.

They know you well. They know exactly what temperature you like best, which towels are pleasant for you to use, and what clothes you like to slip into after getting all nice and clean.

They prepare it all for you, and let you pick soaps and scents of your choice. Would you like a scented candle? Or two? Maybe they should go down a more cheesy route and scatter rose petals into the water. Of course you get all these things - you’re special to them, and you deserve to feel special.

Would you prefer a bath bomb instead? Do you like bath toys? Your F/O doesn’t think you’re childish or anything like that. As long as you’re happy and comfortable, they’ll prepare anything for you.

If you’d like your privacy, they will respect that and step away in the meantime. If you want them to stay, they gently massage your neck and scalp if you like that, or simply watch with a smile if you prefer not to be touched.

Or they join you, if you’re comfortable… they’re happy to have such a lovely experience with you either way.

You’re so perfect to them. Your body deserves to be treated with care.

After the bath, they remind you to use lotion. Either they prepare it for you, or even help you apply it if you’re comfortable. All the way, they’re careful with you. Respectful. Always respectful. Their eyes hold a deep admiration for you and your body. Always.

cfs (+ other chronic illness) sufferers

when being in pain all the time just gets so exhausting, they’d be there. to keep you company while you rest, to hold you, to listen to you, anything. Even if they can’t fully understand what you’re going through, they’ll sympathise and be there.

(For any kind of f/o)

(pr0ship dni get outta here)