Stardew Valley

Stardew Valley<3

Re-blog this and tell me what your most "obscure" dr is rn!!! (I'm curious)

Been on this app for two years and still don’t know how to use it ୧ ‧₊˚ 🍵 ⋅all I have to say is shiftblr for the win 𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧˚ ༘ ⋆｡˚♡

Paintings made by Umberto Boccioni (1882 - 1916)

♡ High Value Woman Guide ♡

As I become more mature, I have realized and admired a few attributes the women I look up to carry. The women around me always seems very level headed, confident, and strong; but in a very feminine way (strong does not = masculine). The women in my life consistently receive what they desire & after observing their behaviors, along with mine, I have come up with a few ways to become a better “you”. How can you level up in every way possible to vibrate on the frequency of your desires?

Start prioritizing quality over quantity

This is with any & everything.

Choose your friends wisely, keep it limited to a few. You should only be surrounding yourself with people who have your best interest in mind. Living in a world of overconsumption, it can sometimes be hard to not cave and buy the latest “trends” - you should start developing your signature style. Have a few statement pieces that go with any and everything. Keep you skincare to a minimum, you don’t need 10+ products just for your face.It’s extremely attractive when people have a set curated style and are selective with their consumption. This not only shows discipline but uniqueness & a set individuality. You should be confident within yourself. Always prioritize yourself!!

You should be fine with being alone

This doesn’t mean you should feel lonely but simply - you should be your best friend and lover all in one. If you can’t hang out by yourself and you’re consistently finding a way to be with someone, this should be a red flag in your head. Consistently relying on external energy to entertain you instead of your own will never give you the proper satisfaction you’re seeking. You should be loving yourself properly, taking yourself on dates, relax at home, cook yourself the best meal, learn a new skill, etc;. To keep proper relationships with others, you must first have it with yourself.

Stop dating men just to date men

You should only be dating men who align with your values. Stop wasting your time with men who aren’t going to be relationship material. You should be able to tell if someone is worth your time after the first few interactions. We don’t date men who are emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, manipulative, etc;. - do not tolerate this behavior & do not for a second that you can “fix them”, he can / should only fix himself. You should expect consistent effort, healthy communication, & respect. If the man you are seeing doesn’t give you basic decency and more, drop it - do not mother him & don’t stick around putting up with his inconsistency and hope he will change. Never beg a man to stay or be with you.

Learn to control your emotions

It’s important to keep your emotions together, not only for the sake of others but also for yourself. Don’t act out because you are triggered in the moment - instead, try to understand why you feel that way and bring your emotions back to you, ground yourself & understand that anything that can make you instantly react, has control over you. Always stay in your power. Be responsible and take some accountability for your actions.

The quickest way to manifest anything

Have a desire (e.g. a PS5), decide you have the PS5 in the 4D, and boom it's done.

Now, the 3D shows the opposite? Take a pause and think - you literally just decided that you have the PS5 a few minutes ago, right? So what are you going to do? Remind yourself that you already have the PS5. That's why they say "remind yourself", because you have it, not to get it. What are you trying to get if you've already decided you have the PS5?

That's what they meant by persisting - not persisting to get it, but persisting that it's done, no matter what your 3D shows you. And if you want to look for proof, go look in the 4D why? because it's the only reality.

the way I see the 3D I see it as a copy cat it copies everything

"but how do we change self?"

by changing your imagination...