I Will Be The First To Admit I Get Kneejerk Freaked Out If I Learn Someone I Know Has A Kink I Dont Like,

i will be the first to admit i get kneejerk freaked out if i learn someone i know has a kink i dont like, but if you think like. roleplaying something is equivalent to doing it irl idk where to start with you!! even if you are grossed out you literally will not change anyone's kinks by telling them you think its gross or whatever its better for your personal peace if you just let it go 🌸

You literally have to understand that ur closest friends and loved ones may very well have kinks or fetishes that gross or freak you out and they simply won’t tell you because they know it grosses or freaks you out. Like you have no way of knowing if your best friend is into necro roleplay if she doesn’t wanna tell you. Sometimes you date someone for years before finding out they have a thing for incest. Maybe your coworker likes ageplay and diapers. Who gives a fuck. Nothing changes between you knowing and not knowing except your own constructed moral outrage.

If someone underage initiates a sexual conversation with you- which isn’t just them asking for advice or sex ed -it is up to you, the adult, to shut the conversation down. You do not reciprocate and start speaking sexually/flirting back at them, even if the minor claims they don’t mind.

You shut down the conversation and leave because you’re the fucking adult. Stop being sexual to children even if they start it and say they aren’t bothered- they’re still underage and it is your responsibility as the adult to stop it.

So, just curious how many writers and creators will have to be forcibly outed by relentless harassment before we acknowledge that "This queer characters was written by a cishet person and that's why they're bad" is not good criticism.

the shower scene every line is about showers. wdym "going down the drain tonight" that doesnt mean anything except drains are in showers. i love you ink

i love their complete disregard for subtlety. like genuinely. means a lot

the whole album has a refined melodic sensibility that really makes it a cut above the rest

MY DOUBLE SPENCER ATTACK