Allos Are So Weird About Hugs And It's Pissing Me The Fuck Off

Allos are so weird about hugs and it's pissing me the fuck off

We LOVE hugs and physical stuff, can't get enough of them

So NATURALLY, we hug people we care about. A lot. And very "intimately" (aka for an extended period of time and very tightly) or we just generally cling and hold onto them

Or like, hold hands and stuff a lot of the time

Our friend kept looking at us like we were making out sloppy style right in front of her because we hugged our other friend who was upset "too intimately". And because we hugged/ held onto another one of our friends

She keeps making comments (not jokes. Comments.) about us looking like lesbians with our friend too and it's so fucking infuriating

1) why would that be a bad thing?????????

2) I WAS JUST HUGGING HER??????? At MOST you could call it cuddling but like??????

Like I'm FUCKING SORRY you don't get hugged enough??????

she doesn't like touch and I completely get that, we only are okay with being touched by people we trust/know too, but her not wanting to hug people ISNT MY PROBLEM??????

she also freaks out about other "intimate" things like our friend fixing our septum

anyways that was my aroace rant, goodnight chat

how to grow the fuck up

This is exactly 45 minutes too late but uh…

Happy International Asexuality Day!!!

…I feel like I should try to find out what grian and hermitcraft are….

but I’m scared

I started using Head and Shoulders ten years ago for itchy scalp and dandruff, and then for ten years I have not had itchy scalp and dandruff, so I thought “why do I still buy shampoo to combat itchy scalp and dandruff when I do not have itchy scalp and dandruff,” so I stopped buying the shampoo for itchy scalp and dandruff and can you guess I have now? Can you predict what currently afflicts me? It’s alright if you can’t because apparently I fuckin couldn’t either

we need more dials and knobs and levers again. this world is lacking in dials and knobs and levers. it's one of our biggest issues.