At Some Point, I Think People Have To Contend With The Fact That Misgendering Isn't A Completely A Universally

At some point, I think people have to contend with the fact that misgendering isn't a completely a universally agreed upon concept in the specific sense that misgendering can be very personal.

What may be misgendering to you will not be to other trans people - even if they have the same gender as you. You may be misgendered if somebody used the wrong label to describe you (e.g., somebody calling you "girl," even if it is slang), but that does not mean that that will apply to everybody.

It's important to recognize this because so often, people will say things like, "you can't use this label/phrase/term for any trans person who is a [gender]! And if any trans person who is a [gender] uses those labels/phrases/terms, they're wrong and bad!" and that is simply too broad a generalization.

It's fine to be uncomfortable with certain things like this. It is fine if you don't want to be misgendered, and indeed, I share in that sentiment. However, that does not mean that your comforts and discomforts apply to all trans people or all trans people who share your gender. There's a difference in that, I think.

Art by Sarah Burgess

No Context Crow #258: Lesbian Crows

I desperately crave a friendship like the teen titans have in Gabriel Picolo’s art

I'd definitely want a tail, maybe squirrel like. Just fluff and kinda big. But also like bat wings? Probably sprouting from the lower back, cause it would be the most practical place I can think of. And also definitely fangs. Oh, and ears! Just cat ears. Ears that are so much better at hearing and 100% more apt to be pet. And since we're at it, blue/black hair and black sclera eyes with silted yellow pupils.

CALLING ON ALL THE GENDER NON-CONFORMING LOVELIES!

I have a Question!!

If you could have any form or attributes that are considered non-human (creatures/monsters, animals, abstract attributes such as geometric shapes, objects, concepts, go wild!) what would you want and why?

Or if you wouldn’t change your form, because thats always an option, why?

I am trying to prove to myself that i’m not insane for wanting to look non-human sometimes.

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