Ooooooh!

Ooooooh!

No no!

That shit is HARD!

There is this weird insane idea that getting nothing productive done is the same as relaxing.

It is NOT. It takes ENERGY and ATTENTION. You tire out from it. This is where, you need help.

Not necessarily professional help but just someone else to help you break free. Help you starting out on something. Help you do something.

Doing the tasks that take over your brain first with help can then make others possible alone.

But you need HELP. And when you are paralyzed like this it is hard to make yet another task which is asking for help and explaining what kind of help you need.

So. When feeling somewhat ok, spend that ok time on talking with friends, family and partners. Anyone who can help you.

And talk about what the signs that you are freezing up are, and how you would like then to help.

Adjust these over time. It is a lifelong proccess of fitting your life and people to you. But it can be done. And it helps a lot, and it helps quickly.

Fellas how do you deal with this

I would pick... T. dohrnii's ability to physically revert to a child when life gets too stressful

if you could have any 1 of any animal's ability, what would it be?

mine would be the super loud "SHLOP SHLOP" sound dogs do when licking themselves

"i had straight As in high school i don't understand why college is so hard" get tested for adhd. if you were tested as a kid and they didn't diagnose you it was cause your grades were good then but you've since lost the routine and structure in hs that kept you on top of everything so go get retested. go get tested for adhd. go

Fair enough.

But it comes pre-installed on windows and every linux distribution I have ever seen.

Not familiar with iOS but honestly I would not be surprised if it was pre installed there too

Honestly... my advice is for a while when people ask how to learn git is:

1 Open a console.

2 Write "git"

3 press enter.

Now read and follow instructions.

Git is OLDSCHOOL.

Meaning it is a self documenting program

I... appreciate your vitriol

State machines handling concurrency is like juggling with one hand tied - you're bound to drop the ball every time.