Help From The Other Genderqueers....I Have A Hard Time When I Am Presenting As Masculine Because Im Too

Help from the other genderqueers....I have a hard time when I am presenting as masculine because I’m too shy to use the men’s restroom. How does one overcome that fear?

Here Is Something For All of My Fellow Genderfluids

 I am currently wearing a pastel pink hoodie and fuzzy pants with colorful hearts on them, but I am using he/him pronouns right now. You do not have to dress “masculine” to identify as male. You do not have to identify as male to dress masculine. Clothes do not have gender and how you present yourself does not dictate your gender identity! Stay gay, my dudes.

genderfluid people who don’t experience either of the binary genders are so valid

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Things Genderfluid People Hear and What You’re Actually Saying to Them

So you’re just super confused? So you have mental problems and need medical help? There’s something wrong with you?

There are only two genders. I don’t care about the science backing it up. 

You’re just being greedy. I don’t care about your feelings. 

Why be genderfluid if you’re your assigned gender sometimes? Why not just be it all the time? You have a choice, so make it. 

Pick one. My comfort is more important than your feelings. 

That’s too complicated. I don’t understand and I’m not going to make an effort to. 

I want pride flags and pride shirts and patches and jewelry and pride merch. But I don’t want to seem like I’m “forcing it” or “trying too hard” or “forcing it on other people”

I just want to live.