Don't Let What He Wants Eclipse What You Need. He's Very Dreamy, But He's Not The Sun. You Are!" -greys

“Don't let what he wants eclipse what you need. He's very dreamy, but he's not the sun. You are!" -greys anatomy

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“I vowed not to cry anymore” to “am I allowed to cry?” pipeline

One of the most life-changing things I ever learned came from Mythbusters, where they tested and proved (with cognitive testing puzzles and reaction time tests) that lying down and resting with the intention to sleep STILL provided significant mental benefits over just staying awake, even if a person couldn’t fall asleep in the amount of time they had. 

It helps me to actually sleep to know that just lying down with my eyes closed is still doing me some good, and helps me to not freak out/beat myself up when I stay up later than intended. Any amount of rest is better than no rest!

So if you didn’t know that…now you do

You need to draw and make art or else all the images will stay in your head and you'll get sick

if there’s so much love in the world, why do so many people feel unloved?

i think it's more that there's endless potential for love in the world rather than that the love is automatically there. giving love openly is a skill, but so is learning to identify and accept that love. both actively require that you practice doing them. many of us are out of that practice--on both fronts--or simply never learned how to begin with, i think.