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part of the reason i love how bell hooks talks about masculinity is that she shows real compassion towards men suffering from the effects of toxic masculinity. she was conscious of how we need to unlearn the ways we talk about men + masculinity just as much as we need to unlearn the same for women + femininity. so many times ill see someone talking about toxic masculinity like (hyperbolizing here but only slightly) "these FUCKING STUPID BABY BITCHES won't MAN UP and go to a therapist!!!" and like. i get the anger. but you see feminists recreating patriarchal manhood by only promoting good behaviors through patriarchal frameworks. any use of the term "real men" is bad because it reifies the idea that manhood is a special title you must earn, and it is something possible to fail and fake. & as important as it is to promote sexual equality + the pleasure of non-cis-men, lots of people are essentially still working with the idea that men need sexual prowess to have worth but just shifting it slightly so there is more emphasis on women's pleasure. but I want cis men to think about their partners' pleasure because they care about their partners, not because they need to check a box in order to keep their man card. and don't get me started on small dick jokes– and the absolutely pitiful excuse people will use that "well, I don't believe it, but misogynistic men get upset when I say it, so it's okay!"
basically bell hooks is so fucking right. in order to create loving men we need to love men, simply for being alive, whether or not they are performing. as much as we need to actively unlearn misogyny (and we do), it's equally vital we unlearn patriarchal ways of seeing manhood. we can't just assume that taking a feminist perspective automatically means there is no work to be done there.
Hunger is obviously a major theme in Hannibal—it’s literally the cannibal show—but the difference in how that’s portrayed with Hannigram is intriguing.
Hannibal was starving for connection before he had Will, and then everything changed for him. As Bedelia tells Will, “Did he daily feel a stab of hunger, and find nourishment at the very sight of you? Yes.” Hannibal’s hunger is sated by so much as the sight of Will. A mere look at him is enough to satisfy him.
But Will is different. Rather than being sated by his connection with Hannibal, it is the very thing that makes him hungry. There’s a frame in the Italy chapter that makes it look like he’s trapped in a starvation cage. In the script for his sailing scene, he’s literally described to look hungry:
Both Hannibal and Will have a possessive, obsessive, all-consuming love for one another, but it affects them quite differently. Hannibal is nourished by the very sight of Will, but for Will, no amount of the profound attention he experiences from Hannibal can fully sate his hunger—it’s a high he can’t help but chase. It fuels his pathological need to return to Hannibal again and again, no matter how self-destructive it is. I think this is why Will is more outwardly possessive of Hannibal than Hannibal is of Will. Hannibal wants Will to be his; Will wants Hannibal to be no one else’s. Both forms of possession, but Will’s is more jealous because of the way he experiences Hannibal’s attention. It’s a high, it’s a hunger—it’s a need, not a want.
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I am Abdullah and this is the new account and this is my My meaning🍉🇵🇸
In light of the ongoing war on the Gaza Strip, I live a daily suffering that cannot be described in words. We were forced to flee our home, which was our safe haven, to live in tents that do not protect us from the cold of winter or the heat of summer. I live with my elderly mother and father, both of whom suffer from illness and physical exhaustion, and with the scarcity of resources and medical services, their health condition is worsening. I feel helpless in the face of their need for care and comfort, at a time when I cannot even provide the most basic necessities of a decent life. Every day that passes is a new test of patience and endurance, in light of the continuous bombing and constant fear for our lives and the lives of those we love.
This is our humble tent that does not protect us from the cold of winter and rain, nor from the heat of summer.
Please help me support my campaign.
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Saw someone in a tiktok comment section saying they got their sexual awakening from Kurt Russell in The Thing (1982) which is absolutely hysterical to imagine trying to watch THE THING for the first time and then all of a sudden your brain starts doing this:
Relatable ngl I do this when I watch the thing
the logan movie + comes and goes (in waves) by greg laswell
🚨Urgent 🚨
Wait!! Don't skip, please💔 take a look 💔🍉🇵🇸
Hello, I'm Dr. Mohammed Al-Khaldi From Gaza 🇵🇸🍉 , I'm 25 years old
I will tell you my story during the war 💔
Almost a year after the war in Gaza, I want to tell you about the suffering we suffer in the tents, I will start with the size of the tent that cannot accommodate all family members and the waste water that we have to drink, other than the insects that walk on our bodies while sleeping, and the summer free that exhausted my body or the cold of the coming winter that will uproot my tent. 💔🥹
For every person who sits in his house and enjoys sleeping in his bed, I hope you put yourself in my place and help me as you can 🍉🙏🏻
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Our team at #GazaVetters has rigorously vetted and approved this campaign, earning it a spot on our official list at #57 .
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Our team at #paliLiberation has rigorously vetted and approved this campaign and will be listed as Family#197 on our linktree
Donation Link 👇🏻
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Help Anas & Ahmed in Gaza
🚨 Urgent Appeal 🚨
I am Anas Basil, a recent high school graduate with dreams of pursuing a degree in e-business management and building a career. However, due to my family's financial hardships, I enrolled at Khan Younis Training College (KYTC), affiliated with UNRWA. Sadly, the war has turned the college, once a beacon of hope and education, into a shelter for displaced families, stripping it of its educational purpose.
I completed high school with a 93% average, filled with excitement about continuing my education and securing a job to support my family. But like so many others, the war has shattered those dreams.
My Brother’s Dream: My younger brother, Ahmed, is 14 years old and in the third grade of preparatory school. We’ve always called him "Doctor of the Future" because of his intelligence and his natural talent in mathematics. Unfortunately, this is the second year he has been deprived of schooling due to the conflict.
Our Life in Displacement: The war forced our family to flee to Rafah, where we lived in a tent for several months. Each day, my brother and I would wake up to fetch water, gather wood, and light a fire to prepare food. Survival became our daily task, but we never gave up hope. The conflict affected us deeply, but it did not extinguish our dreams of education and a better future.
🚀 How Your Donation will Help us:
We are seeking €29,000 to help Ahmed and me leave Gaza, continue our education in Egypt. More importantly, it will allow us to support our family, who have been deeply affected by the harsh conditions and skyrocketing costs of living due to the ongoing war in Gaza.
We've outlined how your donations will make this possible. You can find all the details in the campaign link below.
👉 Donation link: 🔗https://gofund.me/ace8d602
Your contribution will not only help us escape the war-torn reality we live in but also give us the opportunity to rebuild our futures.
Every donation, no matter the amount, brings us one step closer to our goal.
With deepest gratitude, Anas & Ahmed
✅ Our Campaign ✅ 🔍Vetted by @gazavetters, official (list at #83) 🔍Vetted by @90-ghost here 🔍Vetted by association in this post
Gotta respect Supernatural for how it always committed to making Sam be like "Cas is fine Dean, really, please don't kill yourself I'mbegging" every time Cas went MIA
🛑🛑Stop ✋🛑🛑
My tent burned from the bombing, and my children are drowning and cannot find shelter. Please help us from the genocidal war. My children Samir, Muhammad, and my wife are sick and feverish from the cold weather and environmental pollution. My children are dying. There is no healthy food or healthy water. Help us escape from this harsh situation.
Please help 👇
https://gofund.me/76949a5a
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Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #44 )
SAVE OUR SOULS! HELP US FLEE THE HORRORS OF GAZA WAR
Hello Tumblr Community,
I am sending this appeal amidst the horrofic Gaza war, calling for help to save my family.
My name is Waleed Ayman Alanqar, 27, a father, husband and respected Electrical Engineer from Gaza Strip. I had a peacefull life along with my beloved wife, Areej, 23, and my precious 3-year old son, Ayman.
Sadly, our lives have been devastated since the beginning of the war. We have been forced to leave the comfort of our house to seek shelter in a safer place, but unfortunately, it turned out that there's no such a thing as a "safe place" in Gaza. Now, we are in a state of constant movement and displacement.
With all the dangers looming around and with the constant state of fear and uncertainity, I have become deeply worried about the safety of my family. For that reason, I have decided to turn to you, Tumblr community, for help. Please, help me raise the necessary funds to safely evacuate my family from war-torn Gaza.
Your donation, no matter how small, can spare our lives from utter devastation. If you cannot donate, please share our story and make the world hear our cry!
SAVE OUR SOULS
In this post, I'll explain in details how the war affected our lives and changed them forever.
HOME, SWEET HOME
11 months ago, we have left our memories in our sweet home to seek refuge in a safer place. Since then, we have not seen our house again! In addition, I have been informed that our memories have been crushed and our home has been damaged! For a small family like us, home means everything. It means warmth, comfort and safety. It is all gone!
Ayman Growing Up in War
My beloved son, Ayman, is now 3 years old, which means that he literally lived the third of his life in war! As a father, I am not only worried about the safety and survival of my precious child, but also about the psychological impacts on him. I want my child to grow up in safe and proper environment. It is his right!
My Professional Career
Before the war, I used to work as an electrical engineer at a big tech company. I was advancing fast in my career and dreaming of establishing my own company someday, however; my dreams are now vanished. I no longer work. My savings have been drained out. All I am thinking about now is how to secure my family and ensure their survival.
Hunger, the harshest of pains
In this war, I have realized that hunger can be the harshest of your pains and the worst of your enemies. I might be able to endure starvation, but I cannot see my kid going through such a pain! Sadly, we are suffering from the lack of food and other necessities and sky-rocketing prices. Believe me, being a father in such circumustances can be a very challenging task!
im begging you to please read this excerpt from an interview of florence pugh and andrew garfield promoting we live in time you wont regret it lmao
My name is Aya, I'm 29 years old. I'm married to Jihad, who is 32, and we have three beautiful children: Abdelrahman (7 years old), Jori (5 years old), and Adam (2 years old). We live in the northern part of Gaza.
Abdelrahman, Adam, and Jori are the heartbeat of my heart and the light of my life.
Abdelrahman: the lion of the house, the helpful and loving boy to his siblings and family.
Jori: my beloved girl, the one closest to my heart, and my little mini-me.
Adam: my little hero and my spoiled child.
Since the onset of the latest war in Gaza, our home has been completely destroyed, forcing us into displacement. We’ve had to move more than thirteen times in search of safety. During this harrowing journey, we faced severe hunger and malnutrition that nearly took my life and the lives of my children. Additionally, we were exposed to numerous contagious diseases and dangerous epidemics.
Before: This is our home, our dream, and our promising future.
My children have to travel long distances just to get water and stand in line for hours to get food. Their mental health has been shattered by the war, their education has come to a halt, and they have suffered from catastrophic hunger that almost claimed their lives.
After: This is our home, built with our sweat and effort, and it has been completely destroyed.
The Right to a Peaceful Life
My children deserve to live a peaceful life free from fear and anxiety. I dream of your help to support my family and escape this genocide. Your assistance means the world to me and my children.
Your donations can be a beacon of hope for us. Every dollar can help save my children's lives and give them a chance to live in peace. Your prayers for us to overcome this ordeal and lift the siege are greatly needed.
"Did you like the magic show?" "No, but I like you."
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YOUSSEF NEED TREATMENT
YOUSSEF NEED LIFE
YOUSSEF NEED HELP
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Urgent update my little brother is dying 😭
Today we took our little brother to the hospital because he suffers from an infection that affects his breathing and causes him pain. I hope that every living conscience will help us save our young son’s life and donate any amount you can.
Unfortunately, there is no treatment in the hospital for my little. Help us before it is too late.
Honestly one of the cruelest things Erik did to Charles was pause after saying Angel. You can see the anger fade immediately, he thinks for a moment that Erik is meeting him with love and gentleness. It anchors him, he stops to really look at him. Eyes to lips. For a moment he thought Erik called him Angel.
And he’s throughly confused why Erik is listing names after. I’m going to be sick.
At some point in tumblr history, the tumblr cycle of hipster media consumption added a component of "mandatory moral value" to its justification for praising or hating anything, which has made it exhausting to come across countless displays of mental gymnastics to justify, morally and ethically, why liking or not liking whatever piece of media (or part of it) makes you essentially a good or a bad person.
The cycle was always there, but it went from this
to this
and sometimes I think we're past it and then I go to a tag and come across some manifesto that makes me feel like I'm in hell.
Help Ameer and his family 🍉🙏
My name is Ameer and I am 3 years old. My father’s name is Mohammad, my mother’s name is Rana, and my little brother’s name is Taim, who is two years old.
Six months ago, I used to go to the kindergarten and play and have a lot of fun.. and learn letters and numbers.. and play the kindergarten games. My life was very sweet.. and I had a very nice room in our house with my bed and toys.
On 12/1/2023, they bombed our house and we came out injured. My father broke his leg and my mother also broke her leg. I was shot in the back. My brother Taim was shot in the face and hands. We emerged from under the rubble, thank God.
But our house was destroyed and our whole life was destroyed. My toys were broken, my room and my bed were destroyed. And the kindergarten that I used to go to was destroyed and turned into ashes.
We left our house and went to live in the tent that my father had brought us. The tent was very disgusting. It had ants, cockroaches, and insects. We started getting sick and coughing every day. The sound of the missiles from above the tent was very terrifying and scared me and my brother Taim a lot.
My mother cries every day because she does not know how to make us food, because there is no food at all, and because there are no sanitary supplies for my brother Taim when he defecates.. and she is very afraid of the sound of the Jewish missiles and says that we will all die in the tent.
I want to ask you.. I want you to help me, my father, my mother, and my brother Taim.. We want to leave the Gaza Strip so that we can continue our lives.. so that I can return to the kindergarten that I left.. and so that my future and the future of my brother Taim are not lost. Our entry into Egypt cost us 20,000 US dollars.
Please help us and donate on this page, and I will be grateful to you for the rest of my life, which I have not yet begun.. Never forget me.
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Our Dreams Under the AshesOur Family’s Journey to Hope🥺🇵🇸
My name is Mohammed Al-Deeb, and I write to you with my heavy heart and ask for your help. The recent war in Gaza has shattered my family's lives and left us in unimaginable circumstances. 😔 We were a family of 17 living in peace under one roof, but now we are homeless, struggling to find shelter and settlement. My mother, sisters, children and brother suffer from serious psychological and health problems because of this disaster. We have lost our home and livelihood, and now every day we face uncertainty and fear. 💔
We urgently need your support to find a safe place to live and rebuild our lives. 🏡The situation we're going through is harder than anyone can imagine. My family and I were kicked out of our house a year ago, and we were taken south, leaving behind our memories, friends and all our possessions. Our house was our paradise, and my father was working in a car repair shop under our house, which was also destroyed. Now, everything is lost. 💔
Every contribution, no matter how small, brings us one step closer towards restoring security and hope. 🙏✨
I never imagined that my house would be destroyed and I find myself homeless. It's an indescribable feeling when your dreams are broken, when you don't find something you eat and you can't do anything. Half of us sleep in a tent, and the other half sleeps in the open in the middle of this deadly situation. 😞💔
Our lives are full of fear and destruction as a result of bombing and reckless bullets. Every day, we move from one place to another, and set up temporary nylon and fabric tents just to find a place to sleep. 🏕
Every night, we go to sleep and we don't know if we're going to wake up or die without knowing our fate. The fear of losing my family constantly haunts me. Please, understand our pain and help us 😔
I am also a university student studying engineering. I had big dreams and ambitions, but the war on Gaza destroyed everything I was working for. 😢
I desperately need urgent support to rebuild my academic and professional life. Your help will not be just material support; it will be the light that restores hope and enables me to regain my
future. 🌟
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Please, help me stand up again and continue my journey. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤️🙏
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Thank you for giving my family great hope by supporting our campaign.❤️🩹🥺
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It has been over 11 months since my campaign started, and unfortunately, we have only achieved 1% of our goal. I sincerely ask for your help in promoting my campaign to increase support and reach our targets.
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And thank you all for what you do for us❤️🩹🍉
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This account my middle sister is married and has two children
~ @raneenrabah1 🌸❤️🩹
You can see more details about her story on her page🥺🙏
Another fundraiser I trust!
Oday and his family, including his 7 year old sister, witnessed the unspeakable. His sister's husband's family was bombed in their tent, and they witnessed the bodies torn apart when they went to rescue possible survivors. The shock overtook him completely. I don't think any one of us could survive such a sight, finding our family members torn to pieces by the world's apathy and complicity.
Oday and his family deserve better. Please do not hesitate to donate.
Blue Mosque - Istanbul, Turkey.