Here's Something About Me

Here's Something About Me

(Idk I'm bored and thought y'all might wanna learn a little more about me.)

Okay, so hi(?)

I'm no_fear_queers (it's the same on Instagram), but you can call me Ellis. Nicknames I accept are Eli, Rae, Rae Rae, Frank and Frankie. (These are coming from the middle names I gave myself. Which are: Ryan and Francis. And no, I will not be telling you what my last name is.) Now, Shrimpy -which is the nickname I'm using on Instagram- is a nickname given to me by a friend when we were freshmen in high school. And I'm only comfortable with my friends calling me Shrimpy. I was given this nickname due to the fact that I'm shorter than all my friends. (Well, shorter AND scrawnier.)

As of September 23rd 2023 (the day I'm writing this), I am 21 years old. I am an introvert with social anxiety, depression and multiple sensory issues I will not be elaborating on.

I'm transmasculine and agender. My pronouns are he/they/it/fae.

I'm unlabeled, queer, angled aroace, and ambiamorous. My unlabeled and queer labels are referring to my aesthetic and sensual orientation. (Seeing how I experience aesthetic and sensual attraction.) The ace and aro identities I identify with are grey-aegosexual and proxyromantic. I'll get into what those two terms mean in a second.

I won't give too long of a list of things I don't like. Mostly because my dislike list is pretty long. The things I dislike the most -besides conservatives and queerphobia of any kind- are bright colours, bright lights (especially when they're flashing lights--mostly due to a sensory issue), sweet potatoes, rom-coms and weddings. (Mind you, I don't outright HATE weddings. I just don't like them. Especially since I'm not much of a people person.)

My favourite shows are NCIS, Bones, Criminal Minds, Bob's Burgers, Futurama, Supernatural, Creeped Out, A Series of Unfortunate Events, Kitchen Nightmares, Hell's Kitchen, and Hotel Hell.

My favourite movies are The Bob's Burgers Movie, Renfield, Demonic, Smile, and The Rocky Horror Picture Show. (Mind you, I like watching horror movies in general but there's only ever been like the two I've actually enjoyed watching and liked more than others.)

My favourite colours are black, red, grey, blue and green.

My favourite video games are Left 4 Dead, Left 4 Dead 2, Skyrim, Cooking Champions, Terraria, Minecraft, Animal Crossing New Horizons, The Sims 3 and The Sims 4.

My two favourite things to do are write and play video games. And my favourite holiday is Halloween.

Anyway, on to the definitions I promised:

Grey-aegosexual is a microlabel for ace-spec people who partially relate to aegosexuality, but experience it infrequently or very weakly, and may not feel they fully relate to the aegosexual label. One may very rarely enjoy or get aroused by sexual content or specific people, but only under specific circumstances, and are otherwise sex-neutral or sex-repulsed.

Proxyromantic is a form of romantic attraction in which one has a connection with a romantic orientation, or with the concept of romantic orientations, but does not have the will and/or the ability to figure that romantic orientation out for themselves. Proxyromantic could also be considered a microlabel under the term quoiromantic, the main difference being that one feels as though they have a romantic orientation and understands the concept of romantic attraction, but they don't have the will and/or ability to figure it out.

(This turned out to be longer and more of a mess than I had originally planned.)

Alright y'all. RBing this cuz I wanna point out that I have started writing that thing I wanted to put on here. (Took me long enough, I know.) Now, I'm not sure when I'll finish the first chapter but hopefully, it's before the end of February or March. What I'm writing's called "The Rainbow Sheep" which might sound dumb but it was the first thing that came to mind.

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To give a basic idea of what it's about I'll tell you this (I don't want to give too much information out before anyone can actually read it):

It's about these three people who've -what you could say- been "cast out" of their families/homes for not being cishet-allo. When they first meet, it's just the three of them longing for a place to call home. A place where they can live freely without fearing for their physical and mental well-being.

This then leads to them creating some kind of secret society where any member of the LGBTQIA+ community can be themselves without being judged, threatened or harmed.

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Again that's just a basic idea of what it's about. I don't want to give too much away as to not ruin it for anyone. I also want to point out that it's going to start off a bit slow, but it'll get more interesting as the story goes on. So, yknow, it might not seem interesting at first but it'll get there.

Also, a word of warning: the beginning of chapter one may not make sense but I PROMISE that part is important. You'll just need to give me some time to work things out.

I may also provide introductory posts for each character when a chapter introduces them so you can have an idea of what they're like. (Really, it's just some basic information about the characters.) I might also put it on WattPad just for the sake of it. I haven't quite figured it out yet.

(Gonna give this a week so if I do decide to do it, it’ll give me time to figure out characters, plot and whatever else.)

Aceflux flag: *exists*

Me: Huh. Neat.

FRIENDLY REMINDER #5

BISEXUAL MEN ARE REAL AND ARE VALID

BISEXUAL MEN AREN'T "sEcReTlY gAy"

BISEXUAL WOMEN ARE VALID

BISEXUAL WOMEN AREN'T "eXpErImEnTiNg"

BISEXUAL TRANSMASCULINE ENBIES ARE VALID

BISEXUAL TRANSFEMININE ENBIES ARE VALID

BISEXUAL TRANSNEUTRAL ENBIES ARE VALID

BISEXUALS REGARDLESS OF GENDER (or lack thereof) ARE REAL AND VALID

BISEXUALS ARE STILL BISEXUAL AND VALID REGARDLESS OF WHO THEY'RE DATING

BISEXUALS ARE STILL BISEXUAL AND VALID IF THEY'RE NOT DATING ANYONE

BI ACES AND BI AROS ARE REAL AND VALID

Here's your friendly remider that aces and aros are real, valid and are queer enough to be part of the community. If you think other wise you're free to get off my page. (I will not fight anyone on this. I'll block anyone that disagrees, no questions asked.)

This is your casual reminder that Aroace people are real and valid and in this household we appreciate their existance.