Am I The Only One Seeing The Lowkey Ableism When People Constantly Call Taylor Childish And Immature
Am i the only one seeing the lowkey ableism when people constantly call Taylor childish and immature as if childhood trauma doesn’t cause arrested development in the brain. This isn’t even about Taylor before someone comes at me for DeFenDiNg her and OMg SwiftIeS it’s actually about how those of us with trauma aren’t even allowed an ounce of empathy or compassions or understanding and the things we write about or even do will constantly be judged and how adults will always have some strict impossible standard to live up to and if we don’t reach that we are failures and automatically worthless and bad. It’s pretty hurtful seeing songs that you relate to being deemed childish when those songs are just… about feelings and emotional vulnerability.
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i dream of cracking locks (where the harsh k sounds emphasize the action of cracking a lock) throwing my life to the wolves (where the wo sound is repeated in the first and last word) or the ocean rocks (again, the harsh k implying a cracking action like a jagged sharp stone, the o in or similar to the sound in throw and wolves) crashing into him tonight (the sh in crashing like the c sound in ocean)
because i looooove itttt
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All men do is shit on swifties and call us white and teenagers so why doesn’t anyone point out that most Taylor haters are balding white men in their 30’s - 40’s who are failed musicians