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i would like to introduce myself <3

i’m alfie, i use he/him and im transmasc apagender! im also bi and aroace (i still date and have sex though) <3

if i can ever be arsed i will write i swear

i am very very into pjo, and mha, and tdlosk!! (istf i am not a toxic mha fan i hate them as much as you)

i have autism (and maybe adhd) <3

feel free to ask me anything, i will do my very best to help! anything at all!

if you see the tag ‘beans queer facts’ that’s me trying to share an lgbt-related fact every day, which i’m not very good at :)

thank you and goodbye <3

Several things to consider:

•How would they be ranked? Would it be based on a specific set of morals or based on the parent-child relationship? If two dads raise kids to the same standard, but one is homophobic and the other isn’t, and they teach that to their kids, who is the better dad? What decides the morals?

•There would most probably be a massive drop in domestic abuse/neglect. Dads would want to show off to other dads how good of a dad they were, and if it’s a lower ranking, there would be reason to suspect abuse/neglect.

•If somebody adopts a child, does the mug count that person as the child’s dad? If you didn’t realise you had a child, and you got a mug, would it still show a ranking? Do you have to be active in the child’s life? (For example: a stepdad with no biological children of his own. Would the mug count him as the dad, or the child’s biological father?)

•Would there be contests? Or what? Would there be prizes for being good dads?

•Would anybody find a way to exploit it?

All of the “#1 Dad” mugs in the world change to show the actual ranking of Dads suddenly.

i want chunky rings and baggy tops

they are life, they are everything

Wait hold up a sec

Pronouns are meant to give you euphoria when you find some that fit??

I’ve just been going with whatever doesn’t make me feel gross (I’m too scared to even consider neopronouns as my family doesn’t support them at all)

hello 👋

is it ok to hate certain pronouns being used for you, but having none that you really, genuinely feel good with? I use they/them but it doesn't really give me that euphoria ppl talk about so I just wanted to ask

whatever feelings you have about pronouns are always okay.

it's probably more common than people talk about too. this is actually how i felt for a long time about my pronouns in german. i definitely didn't want german he/him or she/her, but no german neopronouns or it/its gave me the "right" feeling. i ended up kinda flip-flopping around.

sometimes "this'll do" is the best option.

(there's also always the possibility of not using pronouns or using multiple sets or making up your own neopronouns.)

i hate woman body who needs boobs give me MAN BODY instead

ass kicking insomnia + mothers constant snoring = fucking help

it’s nearly 3 in the morning and im sat on the floor of the bathroom in this shitty hotel room I have to share with my mum and my aunt

im going to fucking kms istf I can’t do this