Remember That Bravery Isn't The Absence Of Fear. Actually What You're Doing Wouldn't Be Nearly As Brave

Remember that bravery isn't the absence of fear. Actually what you're doing wouldn't be nearly as brave if you weren't scared.

Having a resurgence of insecurity, anxiety, or frustration around something that you forgave or that happened a long time ago is not wrong. Things we have forgiven can upset us, they can come back up and bring insecurity. You are not holding onto something unfairly by still being affected by it. There is a difference between shoving a past mistake in someone's face and saying that it still hurts sometimes to think about it.

damn I really drawn a lot (scrolling through ipad again)

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The reason the work you’ve done on how you feel doesn’t seem like it’s working is because you need to do it until it works. It’s never been “this strategy will pull you up” it’s always been “here’s something you can do that will END with you getting out of that hole” the climbing still hurts and the being underground still hurts but that doesn’t mean it’s not working