The Truth

The truth

Objectification is fun, and you are more than your parts.

Degredation is fun, and you have value as a person.

Humiliation is fun, and you deserve privacy, confidence, and pride.

Masochism is fun, and you deserve more than pain.

Sex is fun, and you are more than just a toy.

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Good Girl Rule #1

Mommy has one very important rule, take care of yourself.

Eat several good nutritious meals every day and stay hydrated. Get yourself a cute water bottle and drink at least 32oz/1000ml of water each day, that’s a minimum.

Shower shower shower. Good girls are always clean and sweet smelling. Personal hygiene is important for both your physical and mental health. While there is nothing wrong with a little BO, girlies can smell delicious. Mommy just doesn’t like old stale stinky sweat, no one else does either (unless that’s your link and I’m not judging)

Go outside and look at the sky, breath some fresh air, go for a walk, exercise, just do something physical that isn’t in a dark room.

Talk to someone if you’re feeling down. Human contact is really important. No one like to be isolated.

Take your meds. Always take you meds.

Yea, your girl is a masochist, but have you confirmed the types of pain that she's comfortable with??

Sure, your lover is into petplay, but have you talked about whether you're supposed to yank on that leash??

Absolutely, she's into degradation, but do you know whether that name makes her think of a bad ex??

Mhmm, your girl is into getting choked, but do you know how to grab her without endangering her?? Do you even know if she wants you to stop her blood flow and/or airways???

I see, your darling is into rope, but do you know whether you're tying them up in a position they don't like?? Did you even remember your rounded edge scissors in case of emergency??

Okay, so it's into CNC, do you react with care and compassion if/when it safewords??

Yea, your Dom/me is hot and scary, but have you communicated your needs, and wants, and appreciation for them?? Are you ever making sure they're having fun?? Are you ever even using your safewords, if not why?? You might need to!

Just please, I'm so so tired of hearing people pushed away from/out of kink spaces whether, online or irl, because there are some kinksters out there that cannot practice safely.

People. I’m not going to keep saying this.

When someone is being submissive? Giving up some control? You respect that. They are trusting you, relying on you. Don’t fucking betray that trust. Educate yourself, be respectful and keep them safe.

When someone is dominating you, remember! Their comfort level is just as important as yours. They are relying on you to communicate your needs and problems. Don’t suffer something in silence because you want to make things easy or better.

PEOPLE ARE NOT KINK DISPENSERS. People are. People. With lives and feelings and emotions. Give your partners respect, because they are giving themselves to you.