Secretbigboylover - Big Boy

I sometimes think about all the feedist online spaces and it reminds me of what I've read about gay/queer spaces from 50-70-100 years ago. The semi-secrecy, the internalized shame. The need to justify their desires ("gaining weight can be healthy, too!" almost reads like "gay people don't have to be promiscuous!"). It feels like this kink is on the forefront of underground and shame.

And the fact is, I'm so tired of shame. As long as everything is consensual irl, I shouldn't be ashamed of my own choices. I feel like having fought a battle over my queerness, I am now fighting a battle over my kink - which is tied to my queerness, anyway.

Are there unhealthy ways to engage in this kink? Sure, just as you can be gay and in a toxic relationship. But is this kink inherently unhealthy?

NO. A THOUSAND TIMES NO.

I will die on that hill.

Story idea: werepig dude has to avoid over eating dyring full moon or get stuck at 600 lbs. girlfriend finds fat him hot and gets him huge

Something that a lot of people here in this community don't understand (usually men for some reason and from my experience) is that being a feeder is more than just buying a ton of food or cooking and being a feedee is more than being fat or eating a lot. Feedees have boundaries, a whole personality and life outside this small kink world and feeders don't think all day about fattening up someone with junk food, they don't necessarily wanna give encouragement to every single feedee or to fat chat all the time.

Feedism relationships are way more outside this kink, it is about complimenting each other, making the effort to create an emotional connection and taking into account all the boundaries that each one has while knowing they are their own individual person who also develops apart from you and this kink.

But it seems like a lot of people are not ready to accept that fact. Sorry for the rant, but I have seen many asks to feedees and feeders that strip them out of their autonomy as people.

Third breakfast run of the day hit so good I had to take a quick vid of the aftermath 🤤

What I Wouldn't Give To Come Home To This View, Vol. 12

(She's feeling every jiggle and shake and bounce of her ever growing body, admiring every extra pound and roll and fold she's grown, as she glances over her shoulder, tells me come closer, and whispers in my ear

"...Look what you've done to me...")