I Wish You Would Do A Full Post Dedicated To Toxicity Or Angsty Shortcomings In Relationships With The

I wish you would do a full post dedicated to toxicity or angsty shortcomings in relationships with the boys 🫠 I loved reading the toxic head canons ❤️

angst hurts my heart but !!

RIIZE RED FLAGS based on astrology~

hyung line edition ❗️

reminder this is based off of MY opinions of their birth chart placements + aspects and is not exact fact unless I knew them myself and I am not a professional astrologer

Shotaro

Vague - not exactly a red flag but he cares a lot about the things going on within his personal life but sometimes he might prefer to keep things to himself due to paranoia of how his s/o will react or if they’d use it against him..he might have a fear of betrayal that can make him be pretty vague and unable to tell his s/o a lot of things in regards to him which can feel secretive to someone who wants a relationship with open info

Intense - His Scorpio moon paired with his Cap venus leads to a need for loyalty as well as his moon/mercury aspect making him very observant of your words and even remembering things you said a longgg time ago which can be overwhelming and feel even persecuting to some. He might also be paranoid in the relationship of cheating or disloyalty.

Coldness- When he's upset he might have a tendency to be cold yet indirect. He has a scorpio mercury and when upset or protecting themselves they can say things that really hurt or could be pretty cutting. He also has a libra mars so he'd be pretty passive aggressive or indirect with his upset.

Eunseok

Nonchalant- (reminder that nonchalant means that a person cares but acts in a way that suggests indifference/disinterest) He can sometimes be too nonchalant and can make someone overall feel as though he has no passion in the relationship when really he does but just doesn't think you have to be lovey dovey 24/7 or he cant express his passion super well as times

Outburst- Eunseok has a cap moon and moon/saturn aspects paired with a mutable mars so he doesn't express his emotions well or bottles them up which can lead to him getting triggered at random and having a spontaneous outburst out of NOWHEREEE due to suppressed feelings which can be super problematic to some

Insensitive- it’s not on purpose or with malicious intent but Eunseok can sometimes not realize that though a situation isn’t a big deal to him to someone else it might be, he also can forget the more subjective side of things which can accidentally hurt peoples feelings

Sungchan

Sensitive - His pride is high and his reaction to things may be 3x more dramatic than the actual event that happened. When he's been hurt emotionally (whether it was intentional or not) he has a hard time letting go of what happened and might even give a silent treatment until he feels you've shown remorse.

Insecure - He cares a lot about what other people think of him and that can bleed into his relationships. He might act one way in public but another way in private which can make his words/actions seem insincere or disingenuous.

Internal struggles- Has a hard time balancing his feminine side and masculine side and what I mean is he is someone super emotional and feels his emotions very deeply but might try to cover that side of him up with a masculine facade which can bring tension.

Wonbin

Avoidance - He might refuse to acknowledge the red flags or obvious shortcomings/problems in the relationship or himself and may take a long time fully accepting or facing these problems as they are or has a weak approach in attempting to fix or acknowledge the problems. Idealizes a lot of aspects and tends to withdrawal when things don’t match his vision.

Procrastination- Once again, has a hard time facing things head on and takes a while to put action into something and avoids the messier more negative emotions that one must face in relationships; he could also take a long time to let the relationship reach the next more serious levels.

Stubborn- It's hard to change his mind about certain things..in arguments he'll try to pull a "lets agree to disagree" but it's a topic where you both need to be on the same page. He might even just straight up go mute in arguments if he doesn't feel like his opinion was valued enough.

SHOSHONE PLEASE HELP ME 🆘 my crush is an aries mars and aqua venus, what is the best way to flirt with them?? (if you don’t want to answer that’s fine, i hope you have a nice day!!)

since he's an aqua venus try to be different or stand out..it doesn't have to be a super unique gesture but don't be too predictable and use more creative humorous ways to talk to them, also don't be too romantic or sappy because that might make him feel smothered

as for the aries mars that means personality wise they might be pretty straight to the point and quick to act, so be more forward or don't be too timid in your interactions with them and try have a sense of confidence !!

he lowkey might enjoy banter where you two make fun of each other (depending on their mercury and moon ofc)

https://www.tumblr.com/sh0tanzz/748976909475561472/hii-as-you-said-cancer-moon-loves-boobs-but-in?source=share

Just found this post, and as a woman who has her mars in cancer, I can confirm that I love boobs. I also find myself being attracted to men with titties 🤷‍♀️ might be a fetish of some sort, but yeah. BOOBS!!

LOLLLL no but seriously cancer and it's correlation to boobs is so funny to me sometimes

if you have a specific body part that you find attractive in yourself or others look at your mars sign to see if it correlates guys and if not a body part your mars sign can also tell you what masc/leadership traits you're attracted to or personally embody !!

guys im in the mood for a shosho hour where i just chitchat with you guys also ceviche spilled all over my floor and im MAD !!!

he knows . HE KNOWSSSS !!!!

and then he has the nerve to caption it “🙈”

HE KNOWSSSSSSS

how did I forget to mention the main bit of info here BUT I am Pacific Islander(or polynesian if you want to be technical)/Black, Samoan specifically !!

are u british? :O

LOLLLL no, but ! I am not primarily from the U.S !! I have lived within america though for the past 8-10 years !!