Also I Think This Is A Wake Up Call To Stop Romanticising Idols Honestly

also I think this is a wake up call to stop romanticising idols honestly

yeaaa basically, im honestly thinking of no longer doing “[insert idol] as a bf based on astrology” and will only continue to do other prompts and ideal type readings because there needs to be a moment of unconditioning how we view them

this is why I had my “riize red flag” series some time back, to instill and remind followers that these guys are not perfect and have their issues and personality flaws

ofc my posts are mainly for entertainment purposes but I’ll need to slow down and deconstruct in order to be a responsible analysis page and not indirectly fuel these ideas

now ofc im not saying none of these idols are capable of being good people but we must remember they are capable of negative behavior as much as the average person

Which placements- aspects would indicate cheating ?

I personally feel like synastry/composite charts are lowkey a better way to find out if cheating will happen in a relationship but I do have very specific placements that I associate with infidelity due to my own studies and observations

not exactly cheating but certain venus/saturn aspects can lead to someone who takes a long time to commit or has a fear or difficulty to be exclusive with someone

venus/mars harsh aspects that aren’t balanced out can lead to a wandering eye especially since in some texts aspects between mars and venus weakens venusian influence

lilith, chiron and saturn in the 7th house can SOMETIMES represent being cheated on or having difficulty within the themes of committing

neptune square venus for men in particular can show a man that has a very unrealistic fantasy ideal of women and relationships which can lead to them cheating if there’s aspects that aid the negative attributes

also pretty specific to me but I’ve seen men with overactive 5th/11th houses but negatively aspected 7th houses prefer no strings attached or more casual relationships

this one is very niche or specific and can vary but someone with jupiter or jupiter in detriment (capricorn/gemini) negatively aspecting venus, this in men in particular can sometimes lead to a man who has a hard time with being monogamous and needs a constant abundance of pleasure/romance

Hello, love if you do a synastry and you received this:

Virgo sun sextile cancer venus

Pluto sagittarius square mars in pisces

Cancer moon and juno conjunct cancer Venus

Leo venus in 1st House and conjunct rising, mercury and jupiter.

Leo venus trine sagittarius pluto

Capricorn mars opposite cancer Moon

Would you give it a go? Or what else I should check?

mmmm im not hating what im seeing especially with cancer moon/venus/juno aspect and the rising/jupiter/mercury aspect as well as the sun/venus

the cap mars opposite cancer moon aspect im worried about because this can elude to tension revolving negative feelings and conflict so pay attention to how you and the person address conflict and defuse disagreements/arguments

and with the pluto square mars once again pay attention on how the person deal with conflict and to what extent are they willing to let arguments get to before fully pursuing anything

girl i’m a long-time lurker but omfg,,, i’m so SO sorry for these passive aggressive msgs (genuinely wtf is “anyways it’s not like you post anymore…” ??? it’s such entitled weirdo behaviour ugh) i feel so so so bad that you receive such msgs, like you’re doing all this for free and in your free time and the fact that ppl have the audacity to say such things to your face is beyond me (similarly to what’s happening w/ that one riize translation group on twt…). i would 10000% understand (and support) if you wouldn’t want to continue w/ this blog and i hope you choose whatever is best for you and your mental health !!! i really enjoyed your posts/replies and wish you all the best going forward :)

this is very very sweet and I appreciate this so much, to be honest I genuinely got extremely overwhelmed and keep cracking under pressure especially due to my life outside of this blog but I don’t want to just disappear however it’s hard fully coming back out of fear of not reaching expectations or being unable to satisfy everyone

Announcement

tw// mentions of sex crimes/abuse

to all nct stans that follow me the recent info in regards to the abhorrent crimes taeil has committed against women is so painful to hear. for those that want to say “there isn’t proof” there’s been confirmed evidence, he’s been completely removed from the group and the members no longer have any public association with him and the sk police department is involved and doing further investigation outside of what they already know.

for those not aware, nct taeil has been charged with sexually harassing/abusing and stalking a girl for 6 years, threatening her family and hacking her cellphone/devices info in order to get rid of evidence. you can use twitter and korean sites to find out more and specific info.

im here saying this because I have 0 tolerance to abusers and someone had the NERVE and DISGUSTING audacity to ask me do a reading or transit on the crimes taeil did. Whether you’re curious or not this was a CRIME and act of violence towards a woman, you do not need cards or stars to tell you that a fucked up act of violence occurred and he needs to be held accountable

unless by the graces of god and the universe suddenly he isn’t responsible I will be blocking and removing people who show an inch of support towards him

to all women or fem presenting people on this page be safe, know how to advocate for yourself, and be aware of the resources for these kinds of events .

new posts coming soon, inbox is open for anything even ranting and I will be creating a masterlist post with support links for physical/sexual abuse survivors as well as aiding south korean women in regards to the normalized sexual harassment in the country.

Hey! So regarding what you said about no longer doing “___ as a boyfriend” I think it’s not necessary to stop doing readings like that, you’ve always been honest about their red/green flags without romanticizing or idealizing them, and it’s just a fun little thing on here, no need to take it to the extreme lol. We know idols are ppl with personalities we know nothing about. Also you don’t even post anything anymore anyway so…

I don’t post anymore recently because I had a health issue that started in may and didn’t end till july and am still healing as well as me being in college layered with the threatening inboxes I got a month ago BUT thanks for the feedback