Shes-bejeweled - Dream Girl

baby girls!! I got this man obsessed with me<3333

being protective over ur girl isn’t just about oh I’d beat up a robber or guy who messed with her because realistically those sorts of scenarios are unlikely to ever happen anyway. it’s about actually defending her honour, standing by her, and not allowing other people to disrespect or mistreat her. including your family. like actually being protective over her as a person

I think the hot new trends for this summer should be reading comprehension and critical thinking skills

I remember when I was heartbroken in the summer time, I dreamt that same night of the possibility of meeting new people in a lovely restaurant in Italy and then in Ireland. I do not want to minimize the pain of heartbreaks but that dream reminded me of the different avenues Life provides for you when something ends. Life does not end when Love is all around us. The World is so big and endless and so is Love.

motivation when doing new things

introduction:

hey loves! so this year my friends got me to start playing water polo, which is a pretty hard sport. practice is 2 hours and from 7-9, and the whole time i'm there i'm pretty much just struggling. after my first practice i wasn't too excited to go back, and after my second practice i was really upset. i know that this is such a small example, but the point is just that it's hard to stay motivated when you're trying something new, and not that good at it.

finding the courage to start:

trying new things is scary- especially if it's like a team sport or something that involves being around other people. my only piece of advice is just to get out of your comfort zone, even if you're terrified! just know that most people are too focused on their own progress to be paying attention to you- plus some people might think it's cool that you're doing someting new. just don't let your stress hold you back- you'll never know how good you are at something unless you try it.

keeping yourself motivated:

find your 'why'. before you even start something knew you need to really know WHY you're doing it, and why it's important to you.

create a fun routine. before i go to water polo practice i have a whole routine- playing some music, cleaning my room, and having fun while getting ready for it. before i go to any sort of practice i always like to make it something that's fun to get ready for.

repeat positive thoughts. when you try something new you're going to have times when you're doing really bad, and thats normal! the key is acknowledging when your thoughts are toxic and then moving into more positive thinking.

keep track of progress. when i first started the swim team a couple years ago i kept a journal where i'd write the date and progress i made- even if it was little progress like having cleaner dives or dropping half a second on my personal best. it's good to see your progress laid out and it makes you feel prouder of yourself.

conclusion:

anytime you're taking up a new hobby or something, you're always going to have times that you fail or do worse than you expected. the most important thing is overcoming this feeling, and i think that's the real key to success- is to keep pushing and seeing how you can do better. :)