My Mother Failed Me, She Didnt Catered To My Emotional Needs From Childhood To Adulthood

My mother failed me, she didn’t catered to my emotional needs from childhood to adulthood

“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”

I was just looking through my notes to find something unrelated, but this is very relevant for today (and I completely forgot I wrote it!)

Spirits & Working with them

We are souls temporarily in bodies on earth. Our natural home is in the spirit world, often known as the “Other side”. Whether you realize it or not, We are constantly surrounded by spirits. They may be in human bodies (like ourselves) or “in spirit” form. Just like we have family and friends in this life, We have had other lives with relationships we have deeply cherished and nurtured. Certainly, there are other spirits we have known and loved in other lives that are “in spirit” here on earth. A spirit is nothing more or less than another person, They just don’t have a body. They really aren’t as mysterious or strange as they’re made out to be, I feel like spirits are really misunderstood. 

PROTECTION Ok guys, when i say they’re misunderstood i don’t mean every spirit out there is fluffy and sweet. Protection is absolutely the MOST IMPORTANT PART of working with spirits. Like i said, they’re nothing more or less than another person. They are beings, they have their own personalities. Just like with people, Don’t give out your information or be too trusting. Spirits can lie, Spirits can have malicious motives, Spirits can be tricksters and just yank your chain (ever gotten on a Ouija and seen ZOZO or MAMA or freaked bc it was doing something you thought was demonic or enabling the spirit to escape the board? Yeah, you were part of a big joke buddy. Spirits cannot escape the board, they aren’t in the board in the first place.). 

Ways to protect yourself:

-Wards, Physically or in the Astral Plane, where spirits typically reside or come from. Astral Projection is not something for beginners to attempt, You really need to know how to deal with and protect yourself from the beings in that plane. 

-Protection spells, amulets or talismans

-Sigils

-I have a special tea i brew for myself before spirit workings that is my blend of herbs to protect me and get me in the mindset for spirit work. I also suggest cleansing your energy, Maybe a cleansing bath and a smudge session and some meditation, Clean your energy so no spirits leech off of your negative energy or sense any mental weakness to attack.

-If you are scared, don’t do it. Spirits can smell it from 30 miles away, and will use it against you. Be mentally prepared, protect yourself. (I want to add i have never had any run ins with malicious spirits, But they DO EXIST. Most spirits are kind in my experience.)

COMMUNICATION

You are probably not gonna just be able to sit down and speak to spirits. (They can hear you, But thats listening and not communication.) I suggest picking up a form of divination, like pendulum, dice, or a ouija board to start. Do not Ouija alone if it is your first time and you are unexperienced. You will receive fragmented bits of conversation likely, and this is normal. Start out with simple yes and no questions, and eventually you will work your way up to normal conversation with spirits. It takes time to grow these skills. When i first started i was pulling out my Ouija nonstop!!! Spirits mostly communicate in tattered words, pictures and emotions. Its good to practice energy work, Sensing the kind of energy spirits are bringing in. This way you’ll eventually be able to tell the difference between a malicious spirit and a kind spirit just by the energy its giving off. PRACTICE, Keep growing your skills. 

INTERACTING WITH SPIRITS

Communicating and meeting with local spirits is the easiest way to start off. 

A lot of people start off with nature spirits, they are much more patient than other beings. I suggest sitting in a forest or by a creek and seeing who wants to talk, but sitting on your back porch with your plants can be equally as successful. I didn’t start with nature spirits specifically, but they likely were the ones who came thru. Very patient and kind, even noting that my dog (who was wanting to come outside with me, but my patios very small and she’s very big) was being loud. 

I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO TALK ABOUT!!

Don’t worry, Here are all the ideas. Its nice to let the spirit share experiences with you, Keep in mind spirits have been around for a very long time, some since the beginning of time, and have experienced many things. I’ve heard some very cool stories.

Let me hear a love story

Show me a song from your people

Tell me something you’ve done that you are proud of

Tell me a little about your culture

Tell me your story

Do you have any jokes you can share with me?

What is your advice for me?

Who is the your peoples leader?(this can help you distinguish a timeline on when they were alive/where as well)

Is there anything about Human Culture you have questions about?

Do you speak more than one language?

SPIRIT WORK TIPS

Don’t give out the name that is the most important to you.

The ‘color’ of an energy doesn’t mean it will align with your own color meanings.

Don’t share how you’re protecting yourself, It is not wise and can help malicious spirits find points of weakness.

Don’t expect to hear voices or see spirits clear as day. The stories told on tumblr may be embellished to add understanding, or might receive messages in a less clear way than presented

If you ever feel threatened by a spirits energy or sense a negative spirit, Tell it to leave loudly and clearly. Do not show fear, Do not back down. Repeat and increase your intensity if it doesn’t stop.

This post is all based on my opinion of spirit work, and is not fact. I love spirits and spirit work so much, and i hope you do as well. Enjoy the spirits, Make some new friends! Love & Light, @lapiscat

Reversed Tarot Card Meanings

This goes with the last post about the tarot card meanings.

Wands:

Ace: Uninspired, low self-esteem, ineffective, misdirection, unfocused

2: Hopelessness, unprepared, options/ lacking options

3: Lacking in skills or resources, apprehension, thinking small

4: Ungrateful, unhappy home, private celebrations

5: Combative Personality, unhealthy competitions, arguments

6:  Arrogance, corruption, difficulty in leadership

7: Powerless, backing down, fighting for the wrong thing

8: Nervous energy, rushing, exhaustion

9: Burn out, doubt, defensiveness, pointless struggles

10: Wrong priorities, busy work, martyr, being alone

Page: Rigid, self-doubt, fear of the unknown, uninspired

Knight:Reckless, rushing, impatient, thoughtless, manipluating

Queen: Selfish, self-choices, attention seeking, mean

King: Lust, rage, temperamental, egotistical, selfish  

Cups:

Ace: Blocked feelings, guarded heart, numbness, ignoring intuition

2: Unequal Relationship, no relationship, difficulty relating

3: Trouble in friendship, lack of support, peer pressure

4: Looking for a sign, restlessness, emotional breakthrough

5: Ongoing suffering, wallowing in sadness, picking up the pieces

6:Healing inner child, releasing the past, selective memory

7: Unimaginative, losing touch with reality, clarity, pleasure

8: Feeling something is missing, running away, refusing to give up

9: Disappointment, envy, ungrateful, superficial, overindulgence

10: Emotional lack, family problems, selfishness, separation

Page: Disappointing relationship, emotional immaturity, naive

Knight: Dramatic, escapist, obsessive, fickle, idealistic

Queen: Vulnerable, lack of emotional boundaries, moody

King: Emotional stress, blocked emotions, intense negativity

Swords:

Ace: Misunderstanding, lies, communication, denial, confusion

2:Silent treatment, undesired, coercion

3: Ignoring pain, recovery, reconciliation

4: Tired mind, mental overload, stagnant thinking

5: Mediation, debriefing, apologies, resolutions, assessing damage

6: Can not release the past, feeling alone, difficult transition

7: Regret, choosing the right thing, consequences, guilt, regret

8: Personal power, freeing yourself, finding a solution, reclaiming

9: Shadow work, getting to the root of worry, self-destructive thoughts

10: Relapse, hopelessness, recovery, clinging

Page: Misunderstanding, malicious words, afraid to speak, rebel

Knight: Vengeful words, speaking without thought, fighting for the wrong reasons

Queen: Cold, demanding, cutting words, gossip, confused, isolation

King: Forceful, cold hearted, lacking compassion, controlling, forceful

Pentacles:

Ace: Greed, cautious, unhealthy choices, materialism

2: Delays, overwhelmed, rigidity

3: Harsh criticism, sloppy work, no support, uncooperative, problems

4:Greed, hoarding, lacking boundaries, reckless with resources

5: Overspending, focusing on what you lack, financial breakthrough

6: Corruption, refusing help, hoarding, debt, exploitation

7: Ready to give up, wrong priorities, feedback, repeating mistakes

8: No progress, cutting corners, lacking skills, unfulfilled

9: Buying happiness, craving independence, resisting pleasure

10: Exile, trouble with family, burden, rejecting tradition, despair

Page: Unfocused, undisciplined, clutter, materialistic, unorganized

Knight: Stuck, second guessing, slow progress, perfectionism

Queen: Lazy, neglect, scarcity thinking, unhealthy, impractical

King: Stuck, possessiveness, workaholic, materialistic, overindulgence

Major Arcana:

The Fool: Foolish, distrust, closed mind, reckless, naive

The Magician: Illusion, trickery, lacking skills or resources, intention without action

The High Priestess: Secretive, gossip, disconnection, withdrawn

The Empress: Smothering, burn out, blocked creativity, possessiveness

The Emperor: Controlling, abuse of power, lacking structure, egotistical

The Hierophant: Fundamentalist, iconoclast, unethical teacher

The Lovers: Disconnection, uncooperative, incompatible, unrequited love

The Chariot: Stress, rushing, vehicle trouble, undisciplined

Strength: Lack of confidence, afraid, reactive, compulsive behavior

The Hermit: Loneliness, feeling lost, antisocial, needing solitude

Wheel of Fortune: bad luck, lacking control, setbacks, ongoing struggle

Justice: Extremes, self-centered, unfair, unbalanced, lacking objectivity

The Hanged Man: Procrastination, victim mentality, hypocrisy

Death: Burning bridges, running away, refusing to let go, fear of change

Temperance: Rigidity, over compromising, no consensus

The Devil: Breaking free, hitting bottom, quitting, broken agreements

The Tower: Warning, stubbornness, mounting pressure, ongoing chaos

The Star: Hope without action, pessimistic, unethical healer

The Moon: Denial, projecting onto others, repressed emotions

The Sun: Afraid to shine, bad weather, too serious, painful truth, attention seeking

Judgement: Feeling judged, being judgemental, numbness, refusing to change

The World: Clinging, overwhelmed, difficulty, completing