I Couldn't Agree More. Finally Someone Said It In A Way That Actually Makes Sense And Addresses The Problem.

I couldn't agree more. Finally someone said it in a way that actually makes sense and addresses the problem.

holy shit i just listened to hidden brain's ep of just sex and i never realized how problematic hook up culture is... such a fine line between empowerment and perpetuating toxic masculinity/rape culture/misogyny...

YES! i think that it’s amazing that we are encouraging women to pursue typically male careers and to behave like men e.g. wear their clothes, hook up, etc. but the biggest issue with this is that we don’t encourage or give importance to the reverse. We want women to be engineers and doctors, and we look down on women who pursue liberal arts or typically “female” careers. Women who care about makeup and their appearances are superficial. Women who care about raising a family are weak. Anything female is weak and lame. 

We aren’t encouraging women to be equal to men. We are encouraging women to be like men. And that fundamentally implies that there is something lesser or subordinate about being a woman. And it’s so fucking ridiculous. 

Women can wear pants and they’re seen as strong and dominant. A man wearing a skirt is seen as fucking ridiculous and humiliating. Why? Because being seen as feminine is an insult. And that’s what the problem is. 

Hook up culture is what men like. Sure, it’s totally fine for a woman to be like a man and sleep around. And I’m really happy that the stigma is lessened for that. But now having feelings is weak? Wanting a relationship is feminine and embarrassing? It’s ridiculous. And I don’t think we’ll ever move forward as a society until we start encouraging and validating stereotypically female behaviors as well. 

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This is extremely useful. Thanks for doing this nicole and I'm sad I missed participating in the survey itself.

You like how the banner makes this look really serious? Me too.

It’s time to reveal and discuss the results of the fanfic reader survey I put up a week ago! We had 1,386 responses which was considerably more than I expected so thank you to everyone who participated and shared the survey! :) I plan to do this again, probably next year, and will take some of the comments and suggestions I got into consideration.

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